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LeftInTX

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20. There are legit reasons for adoption, such as an abusive parent etc.
Fri Sep 6, 2024, 10:50 PM
Sep 2024

Putting all teen moms in homes for unwed mothers is wrong, but there are cases where adoption is the best option. Banning adoption is not a solution. Sharing DNA does not make someone a parent. Yes, there are plenty of young women who were forced to relinquish their infants, but there are also those who are not suited for and even dangerous for parenting.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Murder_of_Gabriel_Fernandez

https://charleyproject.org/case/nicholas-andrew-plaza

Man sentenced to 40 years for death of Baby King Jay Davila
https://www.bexar.org/CivicAlerts.aspx?AID=732#:~:text=This%20morning%2C%20a%20man%20accused,boy%20missing%20January%204%2C%202019.

S.A. woman indicted on charges she caused her child's death
https://www.bexar.org/CivicAlerts.aspx?AID=906


Jury sentences SA mother to life in prison for death of her 4-year-old daughter
https://www.bexar.org/CivicAlerts.aspx?AID=944

Mom claims she threw him in a dumpster because dad was gonna get custody
https://www.oxygen.com/crime-news/what-happened-to-baby-gabriel-johnson

https://www.tpr.org/criminal-justice/2024-03-15/mother-of-slain-san-antonio-child-testifies-in-abuse-death-case

All but one of these cases are local and recent. (Except baby Gabriel was in 2010)

I'm sorry you had a bad experience, but it doesn't mean adoption should be banned. Because there were baby brokers in the past doesn't mean that all women who give birth should raise their kids.

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No uncertainty GrapesOfWrath Sep 2024 #1
I guess they'll just have to settle for local unwanted children. Voltaire2 Sep 2024 #2
The problem is many there don't want girls IronLionZion Sep 2024 #5
No longer accurate. Voltaire2 Sep 2024 #6
Our youngest daughter was China adopted back in 2001, who just graduated college last month Pas-de-Calais Sep 2024 #3
Curious what is her citizenship? kimbutgar Sep 2024 #24
China's population is tanking...that's why PortTack Sep 2024 #4
This adoptee says 'good.' Dem2theMax Sep 2024 #7
I posted something like that on FB, and then an adopted cousin came along and left a comment saying that I was insulting LeftInTX Sep 2024 #9
I just wrote you a reply and then accidentally hit the back button. Dem2theMax Sep 2024 #11
Fortunately, it is not 105 degrees here today! But it was like that a little over a week ago! LeftInTX Sep 2024 #13
Adoptees tend to live in a permanent state of denial. Dem2theMax Sep 2024 #18
There are legit reasons for adoption, such as an abusive parent etc. LeftInTX Sep 2024 #20
There are people who give birth who should never do so. Dem2theMax Sep 2024 #21
Many of these kids were with extended family. LeftInTX Sep 2024 #22
Thank you for proving my point. Dem2theMax Sep 2024 #23
Adoption is usually designed as a permanent solution to a temporary problem. StevieM Sep 2024 #25
Thank you! Dem2theMax Sep 2024 #26
Why should adoption be abolished? moreland01 Sep 2024 #10
Required reading for anyone who is adopted, thinking about adoption, wanting to know more. Dem2theMax Sep 2024 #12
"Surrogacy" likewise needs to be abolished worldwide. valleyrogue Sep 2024 #14
Amen! Dem2theMax Sep 2024 #15
Thought you might be interested in this. Dem2theMax Sep 2024 #16
Maybe it's a sign of prosperity ... they can afford to be more charitable towards their own poor FakeNoose Sep 2024 #8
Well, I guess my friend was lucky then TexasBushwhacker Sep 2024 #17
Lo siento por favor raising2moredems Sep 2024 #19
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