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TexasBushwhacker

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17. Well, I guess my friend was lucky then
Fri Sep 6, 2024, 10:32 PM
Sep 2024

She and her husband wanted to start a family, but she has a condition called "retinitis pigmentosa". She was already legally blind and couldn't drive. They disease is inheritable and she didn't want to take the chance that she would pass it on to a biological child.

She and her husband applied to adopt in the US, but were denied because she was going blind. She would have been free to have a biological child, of course. So their only option was to adopt internationally. They adopted a little girl from China, and they all lived happily ever after.

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No uncertainty GrapesOfWrath Sep 2024 #1
I guess they'll just have to settle for local unwanted children. Voltaire2 Sep 2024 #2
The problem is many there don't want girls IronLionZion Sep 2024 #5
No longer accurate. Voltaire2 Sep 2024 #6
Our youngest daughter was China adopted back in 2001, who just graduated college last month Pas-de-Calais Sep 2024 #3
Curious what is her citizenship? kimbutgar Sep 2024 #24
China's population is tanking...that's why PortTack Sep 2024 #4
This adoptee says 'good.' Dem2theMax Sep 2024 #7
I posted something like that on FB, and then an adopted cousin came along and left a comment saying that I was insulting LeftInTX Sep 2024 #9
I just wrote you a reply and then accidentally hit the back button. Dem2theMax Sep 2024 #11
Fortunately, it is not 105 degrees here today! But it was like that a little over a week ago! LeftInTX Sep 2024 #13
Adoptees tend to live in a permanent state of denial. Dem2theMax Sep 2024 #18
There are legit reasons for adoption, such as an abusive parent etc. LeftInTX Sep 2024 #20
There are people who give birth who should never do so. Dem2theMax Sep 2024 #21
Many of these kids were with extended family. LeftInTX Sep 2024 #22
Thank you for proving my point. Dem2theMax Sep 2024 #23
Adoption is usually designed as a permanent solution to a temporary problem. StevieM Sep 2024 #25
Thank you! Dem2theMax Sep 2024 #26
Why should adoption be abolished? moreland01 Sep 2024 #10
Required reading for anyone who is adopted, thinking about adoption, wanting to know more. Dem2theMax Sep 2024 #12
"Surrogacy" likewise needs to be abolished worldwide. valleyrogue Sep 2024 #14
Amen! Dem2theMax Sep 2024 #15
Thought you might be interested in this. Dem2theMax Sep 2024 #16
Maybe it's a sign of prosperity ... they can afford to be more charitable towards their own poor FakeNoose Sep 2024 #8
Well, I guess my friend was lucky then TexasBushwhacker Sep 2024 #17
Lo siento por favor raising2moredems Sep 2024 #19
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