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In reply to the discussion: Prostitute patrons can't hide their faces anymore [View all]marions ghost
(19,841 posts)1. Men who go to prostitutes are usually men who don't want to bother with the time-honored courting and lying
approach. They want it fast, impersonal and on demand, which women don't usually go for (tho a few masochistic types will, until they realize what a no-win it is for them). So for that type of man, prostitution is the way to go. Whether I think prostitution is good or not doesn't even really matter--it's here to stay.
2. Men who lead women on with no long term intentions are men who like sex as a game and like to have control. They choose the right women for this, women who will put up with a lot and are not too discriminatory.
Women with low self esteem, women who are a little desperate. The vulnerable in the herd. These women tend to be overly romantic, ever hopeful, and easily flattered. A man who likes to serially do this is needing to dominate (and thus not the greatest marriage partner unless they can recognize and work it out of their system). This has been going on for centuries, nothing new. And you are assuming that women DON'T do this. It's something that women get into, more and more--often as retaliation for an experience of being treated that way. If the man & woman are using each other equally, well...can't really fault that. But it's usually the case that one is using the other temporarily.
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Smart people stay away from either situation and never put up with anything negative sexually out of desperation.
But live and let live. Some people have to learn the hard way.
Just my 2 cents.