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Ednahilda

(195 posts)
4. Hang in there!!!
Sat Jun 16, 2012, 02:26 PM
Jun 2012

We went through 2 years of unemployment, a year of terrific income, and now we're unemployed again. One of the worst parts of it is the depression and feeling of uselessness. If you can possibly find something enjoyable and important to do with some of your time, it will make it a little better. Can you volunteer at a local animal shelter a few hours a week? Animals always raise your spirits. It's summertime, does your library have a story hour? Could you read to kids for a while? Is there a local food bank? They're usually looking for volunteers. You've got a lot of hours to fill and getting out of the house and being with other people is the best thing you can do for your mental health.

It is my understanding that PA has 26 weeks of state unemployment, but that the longer term coverage (emergency unemployment) is still in effect, at least for people who are already getting checks. Call your state (not federal) representative or senator. There's somebody in their office who can help you or explain to you exactly what the current benefits are. As for the health care, if you were covered at work, you should be able to pay for COBRA, although it can be pricey. When we've had to pay for COBRA, we don't sign up for the dental so it's a little less expensive. You can ask your state rep.'s office about what kind of lower cost insurance might be around or if the state has an insurance exchange in effect right now. It would be nice if there was one place a newly-unemployed person could go for all of this information, but there isn't. You've got to ask everyone who might know something and eventually you'll get a good picture of what you need to do to survive.

Best to you and your family!

First, on the emotional/psychological level DavidDvorkin Jun 2012 #1
HEY Skittles Jun 2012 #2
+1,000 freshwest Jun 2012 #5
Have you asked your employer whether you can apply for COBRA after you have been laid off? pnwmom Jun 2012 #3
Yes, he is eligible for COBRA. RebelOne Jun 2012 #34
Hang in there!!! Ednahilda Jun 2012 #4
Don't despair. Baitball Blogger Jun 2012 #6
Here's the CHIP info. rug Jun 2012 #7
COBRA is retroactive. WingDinger Jun 2012 #8
Do you have a link for this? nobodyspecial Jun 2012 #13
COBRA being retroactive? Ruby the Liberal Jun 2012 #14
Not really. It's more complicated than that. nobodyspecial Jun 2012 #17
Thanks for the link Ruby the Liberal Jun 2012 #19
State Unemployment is different than extended unemployment Ruby the Liberal Jun 2012 #9
If you don't have any pre-existing conditions nobodyspecial Jun 2012 #15
The problem is with the ACA protections Ruby the Liberal Jun 2012 #20
The gap also applies to employer plans. Ms. Toad Jun 2012 #24
Thanks, and question: Ruby the Liberal Jun 2012 #26
Generally, with private insurance, you are entirely out of luck. Ms. Toad Jun 2012 #27
WOW. This is incredibly helpful. Ruby the Liberal Jun 2012 #29
You're welcome. Ms. Toad Jun 2012 #31
I would greatly appreciate a link to that Ruby the Liberal Jun 2012 #32
If you're close to Morgantown Pa Politicalboi Jun 2012 #10
You need to take care of yourself first BeyondGeography Jun 2012 #11
That is probably some of the best advice ever given on DU NNN0LHI Jun 2012 #12
yes, great advice steve2470 Jun 2012 #16
Take a deep breath.......... mrmpa Jun 2012 #18
Take a deep breathe, try to put the big worries aside, and enjoy Father's Day. aikoaiko Jun 2012 #21
There is one thing you are doing very wrong at the moment. jeff47 Jun 2012 #22
CHIP is lunasun Jun 2012 #23
The advice about the kids for healthcare is good - Ms. Toad Jun 2012 #25
Thank you all BigD_95 Jun 2012 #28
never believe that *you* failed or that you're not a good dad. the system failed *you*. keep HiPointDem Jun 2012 #30
any more help or ideas for this gentleman ? steve2470 Jun 2012 #33
k&r Liberal_in_LA Jun 2012 #35
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