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Sat Jun 18, 2016, 05:54 PM Jun 2016

i don't want to ask for help, but it has come down to it (fundraising link)(updatedx2) [View all]

Last edited Sat Jun 18, 2016, 11:44 PM - Edit history (4)

as some of you may remember, my husband wound up in the hospital with complications from pneumonia last month. we were living on my mediocre pay for nearly eight weeks when things at home took a terrific turn for the worse and i had to tell him to leave.

i will get a roommate, but will be unable to do so until he is fully moved out and i don't think that i'll have someone in the second room by the time july rent is due. he was out of work long enough that i'm trying to dig out of back bills and cannot count on him to help me out now that we are not longer together and he doesn't even make enough to support himself (his medical bills are his own).

i do not have the money to move right now and, even if i did, it is an extreme challenge as i have the two cats and i would rather lose a limb than them. i am picking up extra money cleaning my office but things are so slow at work that overtime is not possible at this point and i don't know how much more help i can get from my dad.

i am in a position i never thought i'd find myself in and i am devastated in every way imaginable. any help at all would be appreciated.



i am positively humbled right now and have no words, but my hearts is bursting.

updating again:

oh gods, i am beyond overwhelmed. i appreciate each and every one of you. i am now more than covered now and the kindness du can show will never, ever cease to amaze me. please, start spreading the love elsewhere.

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Sorry about your troubles fizzgig. denbot Jun 2016 #1
Kick Quackers Jun 2016 #2
K&R...n/t ms liberty Jun 2016 #3
Kick! CaliforniaPeggy Jun 2016 #4
This message was self-deleted by its author ornotna Jun 2016 #6
..... fizzgig Jun 2016 #7
Sigh, I wish I could win the lottery... demmiblue Jun 2016 #5
Kickin' it! In_The_Wind Jun 2016 #8
You need to fix your link. herding cats Jun 2016 #9
fixed fizzgig Jun 2016 #14
I have the same problem with my phone! herding cats Jun 2016 #16
It worked for me. onecaliberal Jun 2016 #28
She's fixed it. herding cats Jun 2016 #29
Perfect! Thanks onecaliberal Jun 2016 #30
This message was self-deleted by its author CaliforniaPeggy Jun 2016 #10
I can't help because I'm tapped out.... steve2470 Jun 2016 #11
Not really sure what happened here, but it looks like the angels swooped down japple Jun 2016 #12
I don't mean this in any snarky way, but you mean you told your sick husband to leave? cwydro Jun 2016 #13
messaging you now fizzgig Jun 2016 #15
FWIW, I think it is a mistake sending that poster any personal information. n/t demmiblue Jun 2016 #20
Care to elaborate? cwydro Jun 2016 #34
Post removed Post removed Jun 2016 #17
WTF are you talking about? Skittles Jun 2016 #19
This message was self-deleted by its author passiveporcupine Jun 2016 #24
you're tired of this attitude? Skittles Jun 2016 #25
Thank you. cwydro Jun 2016 #33
I'm so sorry to hear of your change in circumstances. liberalla Jun 2016 #18
The OP link goes to a gfm page that asks for a sign-in but does not have anything to do with tblue37 Jun 2016 #21
Post #9 has the correct link. Beaverhausen Jun 2016 #26
A lot of people do not read through the whole thread, especially a GFM thread. Instead, they read tblue37 Jun 2016 #32
Good luck fizzgig mountain grammy Jun 2016 #22
I'm sorry for what you're going through, fizzgig fishwax Jun 2016 #23
her CORRECT fundraising link is HERE steve2470 Jun 2016 #27
Oh, no! Your link is messing up again. herding cats Jun 2016 #31
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