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Tikki

(14,532 posts)
37. Seems like you either do or don't...
Fri Jun 1, 2012, 09:13 PM
Jun 2012

Probably can't tell who views porn when they're walking down the street (unless he/she ducks into an adult store) anymore than
you can tell a spouse beater walking down the street. Seems to be a cultural, universal...just not for everyone.


Tikki

I don't care if my husband watches porn... cynatnite Jun 2012 #1
popcorn JVS Jun 2012 #2
Or more rationally, unhappy relationships are more likely to result in porn use. TheWraith Jun 2012 #3
Agree. I think that's more common than the reverse. randome Jun 2012 #21
"a relationship"? That would depend upon which one. I would guess that the number of patrice Jun 2012 #4
Neutral. HappyMe Jun 2012 #5
that sounds great ManyShadesOf Jun 2012 #43
Title should read, "Men's unhappy relationships linked to Women" cbdo2007 Jun 2012 #6
Anyone who goes through their partner's computer is cthulu2016 Jun 2012 #7
100% Agreed. That was my first reaction as well. Puregonzo1188 Jun 2012 #22
I also see it as a chicken/egg situation Major Nikon Jun 2012 #26
Who gets to define "negative" and "positive"? & Since we are talking about RELATIONSHIP here patrice Jun 2012 #8
Hey ladies: you can't fuck a picture. originalpckelly Jun 2012 #9
Really detrimental to my relationship.... Bennyboy Jun 2012 #10
I'm guessing your relationship had other issues jeff47 Jun 2012 #19
Well yes and no.... Bennyboy Jun 2012 #34
If they were "discovering" it on the partners computer LadyHawkAZ Jun 2012 #11
BING! You win today's Nailed-It prize. nt TheWraith Jun 2012 #12
Some women understand men. sendero Jun 2012 #13
can you break it down for us? ManyShadesOf Jun 2012 #44
Porn is like alcohol. dawg Jun 2012 #14
Totally musiclawyer Jun 2012 #15
Marriages "wrecked by porn" were wrecked by something else jeff47 Jun 2012 #18
aka ManyShadesOf Jun 2012 #45
Nope, but good try trying to blame me. jeff47 Jun 2012 #47
I'm sorry ManyShadesOf Jun 2012 #48
+1. nt riderinthestorm Jun 2012 #16
Why does everyone believe women are the ones "hunting for evidence" of porn use? riderinthestorm Jun 2012 #17
Because when Dr. Phil has an episode about marriages destroyed by porn jeff47 Jun 2012 #20
Dr. Phil? Really? That's Your Source? HangOnKids Jun 2012 #23
"Marriage destroyed by porn" is an extremely common daytime TV episode jeff47 Jun 2012 #25
The cause of porn use kctim Jun 2012 #24
From the article RainDog Jun 2012 #27
Am I the only woman who admits to watching porn? Jennicut Jun 2012 #28
Well, good relationships are about respecting your partner.... Darth_Kitten Jun 2012 #29
No. Warren DeMontague Jun 2012 #41
No, I'll admit it kimi Jun 2012 #49
Is there a place where I could find this porn thing? underpants Jun 2012 #30
Sure. UnrepentantLiberal Jun 2012 #32
I've heard that you can use mythology Jun 2012 #40
Ah, relationships and emotional turmoil... UnrepentantLiberal Jun 2012 #31
I voted "mostly neutral" because its communication and expectations that matter, not porn. Warren DeMontague Jun 2012 #33
I think it depends on the people involved. Ruby the Liberal Jun 2012 #35
"professional acrobat/sex worker" UnrepentantLiberal Jun 2012 #39
I chose none of the above Nevernose Jun 2012 #36
Seems like you either do or don't... Tikki Jun 2012 #37
Let's see, was it the porn, or the alcohol, or the mood swings, or the violent temper... bhikkhu Jun 2012 #38
perhaps they're unhappy ManyShadesOf Jun 2012 #42
It can be addictive Marrah_G Jun 2012 #46
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