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shcrane71

(1,721 posts)
55. She should post the incrimminating video.
Mon May 28, 2012, 09:02 AM
May 2012

Biting one's tongue for the purpose of not offending offensive people only encourages the bullies. Don't back down.

You're very patient XanaDUer May 2012 #1
I'd just go see another movie. hedgehog May 2012 #2
IDK about a "Romney supporter,"...... Wounded Bear May 2012 #3
I've found it easier to avoid my tea party cousins Siwsan May 2012 #4
Reminder romantico May 2012 #8
she should sent it to her cousin privately RainDog May 2012 #29
Posting the video will not make any difference OutNow May 2012 #5
"Taken out of context" is now the classic dodge. Frank Cannon May 2012 #53
I think she should do it. sibelian May 2012 #6
I would send it only because no one supported you marlakay May 2012 #7
Your next to last sentence is the difference. Frustratedlady May 2012 #18
I don't know if they are "typical" anything but dana_b May 2012 #9
If your friend's family won't back her after the video offers indisputable proof of the correctness coalition_unwilling May 2012 #10
Sadly agree. The friend gets 'called out' for talking politics and it would be obvious jp11 May 2012 #24
Not Sure I Could Stop Myself From Sending dballance May 2012 #11
You will never reason with these people. They would say you doctor the film. They all southernyankeebelle May 2012 #12
How about she just sends it to her obnoxious cousin rufus dog May 2012 #13
That's not a bad suggestion, I would add this though... Spazito May 2012 #15
Bingo. Gidney N Cloyd May 2012 #17
Possible rufus dog May 2012 #31
I guess it depends what the real issue is, imo... Spazito May 2012 #32
Agree leftynyc May 2012 #40
If this were a poll, Grey May 2012 #14
The quotation you have in mind Jim Lane May 2012 #41
An email, stating that video will be shown, if EVER again, the fools call her a liar. WingDinger May 2012 #16
Not a typical Rmoney supporter but certainly a typical teabagger Warpy May 2012 #19
I would post it so THEY know other family members can see it .... Trajan May 2012 #20
Don't do it . You WILL regret it n/t Narkos May 2012 #21
I'm not sure what you will really accomplish except revenge. CTyankee May 2012 #22
Upload it to youtube and go to the next family gathering wearing an Obama t-shirt. lumberjack_jeff May 2012 #23
I prefer your approach .... I think most of these posts show that Democrats have no spine .... Trajan May 2012 #26
Absolutely agree... MelungeonWoman May 2012 #56
That's what I was thinking treestar May 2012 #61
I'm very sorry for your friend's experience. Habibi May 2012 #25
It would be impossible for me not to send it to cousin with a note LiberalAndProud May 2012 #27
I would post it on Youtube and email everyone of them a link to it... L0oniX May 2012 #28
Offer to send a copy of the video to the Romney campaign since it kiranon May 2012 #30
Here's an alternative solution. lumberjack_jeff May 2012 #33
Start a discussion about the incident on Facebook. pa28 May 2012 #34
She should do what feels right to her. ljm2002 May 2012 #35
Probably not worth starting a major family fight over. Kaleva May 2012 #36
If it were me TeamPooka May 2012 #37
DO IT! The Doctor. May 2012 #38
Maybe not a typical Romney supporter but definitely a typical Obama hater lunatica May 2012 #39
My guess? She'll just deny having ever called you a liar Nevernose May 2012 #42
The best advice I can give is to dinopipie May 2012 #43
I would talk to the host of the gatherings peacefreak May 2012 #44
That's one heck of a story!!! greytdemocrat May 2012 #45
Please find a good continuity editor. GeorgeGist May 2012 #46
She didn't want to admit that she was talking about herself. alphafemale May 2012 #49
Tell your friend: Next time YOU host the party. Be sure to show home movies... davsand May 2012 #47
Post It! alphafemale May 2012 #48
i hate to say this -- but to me -- your friend isn't very important to her family. xchrom May 2012 #50
I agree. The mom needs to stand up for this couple. Riley18 May 2012 #67
Send it. 99Forever May 2012 #51
POST THE VID AT ONCE, but first, send it *just* to them, and let them see for themselves... LaydeeBug May 2012 #52
Yup.......... Darth_Kitten May 2012 #54
Exactly the way to do it. GoneOffShore May 2012 #62
She should post the incrimminating video. shcrane71 May 2012 #55
Do it for you bawieland May 2012 #57
The family is dysfunctional and this episode is just a symptom of it. Kaleva May 2012 #58
Send the stuff, they are the ones who made you feel uncomfortable at the family event... WCGreen May 2012 #59
Is there some chance it is the tea partier who won't go to family reunions again? treestar May 2012 #60
Those people are mentally damaged... and-justice-for-all May 2012 #63
They are just like their newfound candidate rox63 May 2012 #64
I think the family is perfectly aware of what kind of person she is renate May 2012 #65
I'd say it depends on a lot of factors. antigone382 May 2012 #66
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