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In reply to the discussion: daycare says baby is aggressive (9 months) [View all]TBF
(31,920 posts)16. Do they mean a stuffed dog?
Otherwise that comment is a little strange. I wonder though if the baby is playing "roughly" at home? It makes me think that the teachers are trying to cover their own lack of attentiveness. At that age legally the ratio is very small - one teacher to 6 babies if I remember correctly. I wonder if babies were going home with bruises or something and they are blaming the other babies rather than supervising properly? I dunno, this note makes me ask a lot of questions. Not that babies don't have very different personalities, but that's really young to expect them to "play" together without supervision.
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A 9 month old baby cannot be aggressive. That requires intention. And the only solution
pnwmom
Aug 2015
#18
And that is not aggression. And the solution is to control that baby's interactions
pnwmom
Aug 2015
#25
This should be a good thread LOL...yes babies and toddlers can show shitty behavior
snooper2
Aug 2015
#3
Nine month olds can be a handful but they are NOT aggressive. They aren't old enough
pnwmom
Aug 2015
#19
I don't think the word "aggressively" applies to babies either. It isn't equivalent
pnwmom
Aug 2015
#43
My gently-reared daughter left a complete set of tooth-marks on another toddler's arm. At that point
Hekate
Aug 2015
#30
It's ridiculous to call a 9 month old aggressive. A baby that age hasn't developed
pnwmom
Aug 2015
#21
"Aggressive" isn't an accurate description of a 9 month old. This isn't a toddler; it's a baby.
pnwmom
Aug 2015
#29
Because of the daycare's use of the word "aggressively" I don't think they do understand
pnwmom
Aug 2015
#36
Exactly! This is a supervision problem. It's probably going to take months of repetitive teaching
pnwmom
Aug 2015
#38
I don't think that "aggression" has to mean that there was intent to cause harm.
blue neen
Aug 2015
#56
The ratio was 1:4 when my daughter was that age. Even at that, kids go from
winter is coming
Aug 2015
#20
If memory serves, the first time my daughter was bitten, it was by a 9-month-old.
winter is coming
Aug 2015
#48
Apparently a lot of people don't. There are people in this thread who think the same thing.
kcr
Aug 2015
#40
"play roughly w/ her friends and her dog" is what I found interesting. Some parents allow their kids
Sunlei
Aug 2015
#34
If a baby is aggressive at 9 mos., I wonder who is being aggressive with that baby to teach
mother earth
Aug 2015
#52
It's a pretty normal stage of development for a lot of infants. They just need to be stopped...
Hekate
Aug 2015
#54
The way it's being described, yeah. I have a family, don't ever remember aggressive behavior
mother earth
Aug 2015
#69
That's normal behavior, aggressive behavior is different. The day care person seems to be
mother earth
Aug 2015
#86
The teacher complaining about about normal behavior is probably the problem, not the baby.
pnwmom
Aug 2015
#80
Yes, she is describing aggressive behavior which is different than the normal antics of
mother earth
Aug 2015
#88
No one teaches babies this and probably every nursing mother has experienced it,
pnwmom
Aug 2015
#79
The parents should take the child to a psychiatrist and have her evaluated. Maybe the stress..
BlueJazz
Aug 2015
#67
You're probably right. Rats..I was hoping we might have a young sociopath that we can study.
BlueJazz
Aug 2015
#74
Before we all go off the deep end criticizing the daycare worker that wrote this note,
PatrickforO
Aug 2015
#77