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hfojvt

(37,573 posts)
8. I don't and I never have
Wed May 16, 2012, 12:28 AM
May 2012

I have done without for a time though. No phone, no cable TV, no cellphone, no water, no hot water, no car, no eating out, etc. Most of that stuff I do not want anyway. I would love to get rid of the phone, except that work requires it. Of course now they gave me a cellphone so maybe I can, but then I think I might need it for campaigning somehow.

Anyway, I don't think most people need to live like that, that people can and should save more. Doubtless there are some, even many (I mean even 2% of 100 million households IS 2 million households which is a lot of people) who have a huge misfortune or a string of misfortunes or some bad choices hit them and knock them down, but I doubt if that is true of most people. It seems to me that most people do not save as much as they could.

I would not, and have not, lived without a cushion. I would do without some things for six months, or a year, until I had a cushion before I lived without one.

But, heck, most people seem more successful than I am as well. Most people get married, have sex, and have children. I've failed at all of that and maybe being a miserly old cuss had something to do with that (somehow). Or maybe being in a relationship would make saving almost impossible. Lord knows, even the one girlfriend I sorta had cost me a couple thousand, not even including the $500 I put into her daughter's college fund. Still, I would expect there to be big savings from having a partner. Splitting housing costs, splitting utility bills, etc. My utility bills might go up by 30%, but then my half would only be 65% of what I was paying now.

But obviously too, not having a job would be one of those misfortunes that made saving or having a cushion almost impossible and there is 8% of the population (or more) in that particular boat, but I do not want to still be working when I am 61. At least not at my current job.

You're not alone by any means Tsiyu May 2012 #1
I started Social Security as soon as I could AnotherDreamWeaver May 2012 #2
Yup underseasurveyor May 2012 #3
oh no--that's so awful renate May 2012 #37
You're not alone. emilyg May 2012 #4
k&r... spanone May 2012 #5
Yep progressoid May 2012 #6
Month-to-month because that's when I get my SS longship May 2012 #7
Yup, me too. RebelOne May 2012 #25
I don't and I never have hfojvt May 2012 #8
That seems at least insensitive... jtuck004 May 2012 #13
He's 100% correct about saving badtoworse May 2012 #22
Oh yeah - the Joe Arpaio Diet Plan - beans and water. jtuck004 May 2012 #24
I don't like seeing anyone in the position you describe. badtoworse May 2012 #27
why are you so mad at his post 4 t 4 May 2012 #33
That's a good question. I think it was the subtle cruelty I read jtuck004 May 2012 #40
From my experience, there was no financial benefit to being in a relationship. I spent more in them. Selatius May 2012 #18
Why should I lend money to crooks... er... um... "save?" hunter May 2012 #49
most Americans live like that. provis99 May 2012 #9
WEEK TO WEEK?? donco May 2012 #10
beat me to it.... concreteblue May 2012 #12
Makes You Wonder Where that light at end of tunnel is. Left Coast2020 May 2012 #11
Oh HELL YES. Millions of us. jtuck004 May 2012 #14
+1000!!! FirstLight May 2012 #16
I live week to week and my mortage and property taxes are about $3000 a month. Walk away May 2012 #15
$3000 a month? Try living on $1000 a month Ichingcarpenter May 2012 #21
I have work very hard all my life to get a little security... Walk away May 2012 #44
I go month to month Rain Mcloud May 2012 #17
I used to, things turned around after I enlisted though. Sirveri May 2012 #19
you are not alone, panader0 Skittles May 2012 #20
no you're not alone Sanity Claws May 2012 #23
been unemployed quinnox May 2012 #26
I hope some work or $ comes your way soon Liberal_in_LA May 2012 #43
Us too. DiverDave May 2012 #28
We've struggled to stay afloat week to week for a while deutsey May 2012 #29
I'm 31 and I'm working paycheck to paycheck - it sucks. Initech May 2012 #30
Of course. I'm 53 and decent jos are scarce notadmblnd May 2012 #31
You are not alone. KatyaR May 2012 #32
my mom always said 4 t 4 May 2012 #34
Obama says things are turning around - and I trust him. Zax2me May 2012 #35
Thirty years of wage stagnation, and you blame Obama. Ikonoklast May 2012 #50
some don't? n/t 2pooped2pop May 2012 #36
Except for a few brief periods, yes I have lived week to week since the early 1980's NNN0LHI May 2012 #38
You're not alone. onestepforward May 2012 #39
We manage to spend 6k a month ileus May 2012 #41
Probably the majority of people live week to week. guardian May 2012 #42
We do! unreadierLizard May 2012 #45
I've been in your situation, and I might be now Lydia Leftcoast May 2012 #46
check with your county if you have not already. SmileyRose May 2012 #47
My money runs out mid month lunatica May 2012 #48
Pretty much treestar May 2012 #51
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