I am referring to what you said to your liberal friends who go to the church. They are helping, you say, so you think they should quit the church rather than stay in it would follow. If they don't associate with church people presumably they would stop helping this anti-woman and anti-gay agenda. So it seems reasonable they should stop doing that. That's just my abbreviation for the way people argue that associating with other people means they get their ideas drilled into you, like the Hillary Kissinger crap and the types of things that right wingers use to claim Obama must be a communist.