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mnhtnbb

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22. In all fairness, I have to post a story of 'above and beyond' service from LAPD, years ago.
Sun Sep 7, 2014, 10:12 AM
Sep 2014

Last edited Sun Sep 7, 2014, 11:40 AM - Edit history (2)

I am white, female, and at the time, was 24, and not too bad looking.
Was it a case of being attractive enough to have gotten the attention of this particular
officer? I don't know.

This was in Hollywood in 1975. I had a 4 PM doctors appointment and managed
to find a parking spot on La Cienaga --the side street by the doctors office. Oh, joy!
When I came out, my car was gone. I thought it had been stolen. The only copy of my
masters thesis was in the trunk of the car, which I had picked up from the typist on my way in
to work that morning. I had not yet made any copies, and the rough draft was also in the trunk (pre computer and cell phone days).
Well, an officer responded to the call I made from a pay phone, and pointed out the no parking
after 5 PM sign on the street that I hadn't noticed, and checked to verify my car had been towed. In the course
of talking with him, I told him I worked at Hollywood Pres Med Center, and I guess because
cops and hospital folks often have a pretty good relationship, he took pity on me. He offered
to drive me BACK to the hospital so I could cash a check (banks were closed and no ATM's back
in the 70's) and THEN to the impound lot to get my car out. The impound lot would take cash only, of
course, and I didn't have enough cash on me to get the car. He must have spent close to an hour driving me both places. He was very nice. I never felt like he was putting moves on me--and I was married at the time--and never made any suggestive
remarks. Very nice guy.

If he hadn't done it, I would have had to wait for my husband to get to Hollywood from Santa Monica--during Los Angeles rush hour--
and then shlep me around to get the car out of the impound. We still might have had to go to the hospital to cash
a check, because I doubt my husband had enough cash on him to get the car out of the impound lot, either, plus we would
have had to figure out where it was and how to get there.

As it was, it was probably about 7:30 when I got home that night. Instead of being grateful for me being resourceful
and saving my husband the hassle of bailing me out of my problem, he had the nerve to get mad at me for not
calling him to come get me! Jerk. No wonder he turned out to be my ex-husband in a couple more years.

I would NEVER have expected a police officer to be so helpful--40 years ago--and I certainly wouldn't expect it now.
But I do think that there had to have been at least one nice guy on the LAPD and I happened to run into him.

Would I have gotten the same treatment if I'd been black? No. Absolutely no way.

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When I was 15-years-old. Laffy Kat Sep 2014 #1
Take ur pants off? That's some kind of sexual deviancy. grahamhgreen Sep 2014 #7
I'm pretty sure the School Resource Officer at my HS was grabbing a feel Nuclear Unicorn Sep 2014 #20
I was pulled over because I was driving an old rather ragged volvo 240. NutmegYankee Sep 2014 #2
Either that or you are... ReRe Sep 2014 #11
I was questioned as a child without any effort to have any adult present, LeftyMom Sep 2014 #3
I have been stopped for no reason twice, in my decades of driving. pnwmom Sep 2014 #4
Pulled over by drunk policeman. White/white. grahamhgreen Sep 2014 #5
I was charged with PI for having MS. Downwinder Sep 2014 #6
Being extra happy in public Go Vols Sep 2014 #8
Yes, in a small town shake down speed trap... Tom Ripley Sep 2014 #9
it was 1969 hollysmom Sep 2014 #10
I got beat up horrendously by white cops, (I'm white). nilesobek Sep 2014 #12
Wow...just wow. N/T coyote Sep 2014 #32
This message was self-deleted by its author freshwest Sep 2014 #13
I was beat up and thrown in jail for sitting on a bench at a bus stop B Calm Sep 2014 #14
I was threatened with arrest Aerows Sep 2014 #15
I have dealt with many a cop.. sendero Sep 2014 #16
Speed trap in a small town when I was in my twenties. pacalo Sep 2014 #17
No Shankapotomus Sep 2014 #18
I've never had an interaction with the police where their actions weren't blatantly criminal Taitertots Sep 2014 #19
Yes, and I sued for false arrest, false imprisonment, and malicious prosecution and won. DemocratSinceBirth Sep 2014 #21
In all fairness, I have to post a story of 'above and beyond' service from LAPD, years ago. mnhtnbb Sep 2014 #22
I often tell people, including the police, exactly what I'm thinking. And sometimes I'm a smart-ass hunter Sep 2014 #23
Once I was pulled over by a very furious officer treestar Sep 2014 #24
I was 17 years old. I was living in Long Island and a senior in H.S. and commuting to the city for stevenleser Sep 2014 #25
No I'm white, LOL! Corruption Inc Sep 2014 #26
I was admittedly marym625 Sep 2014 #27
Interesting that most of these stories are from women..... socialist_n_TN Sep 2014 #28
Not the police... pipi_k Sep 2014 #29
Yes, I am white rock Sep 2014 #30
A police Lt I barely knew hugged me and grabbed and squeezed whole handful of boob@ mom's wake. bettyellen Sep 2014 #31
Not sure if ever to the level of misconduct (crime), but harassed quite a few times MillennialDem Sep 2014 #33
I've had a couple mythology Sep 2014 #34
I am an upper middle-class white female from a small-ish university town in the Southwest distantearlywarning Sep 2014 #35
I'm 24 Jamaal510 Sep 2014 #36
Yes, but I've more often been the beneficiary of police misconduct. Heidi Sep 2014 #37
intersting the ration is 3/2 white and black. grahamhgreen Sep 2014 #38
Yeah, in East Point, Georgia... kentuck Sep 2014 #39
DU is 90% white bananas Sep 2014 #40
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