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pacalo

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17. Speed trap in a small town when I was in my twenties.
Sun Sep 7, 2014, 09:19 AM
Sep 2014

I was about 100 miles away from home, visiting a friend who was familiar with the town. We were on our way to the beach & she warned me before we entered the town to go slower than the speed limit, that the cops looked for out-of-town license plates. I followed her advice but, sure enough, a cop pulled out from nowhere & signaled me to stop.

When he began writing out the ticket, I told him my friend in the car lived in the area, that she warned me beforehand about the speed limit, & she suggested that I go lower than the speed limit -- which I did. The car in front of me was going the same speed as I was; I asked him why he didn't stop any of the cars in front of me. It angered him that I called him out, I guess, because the old geezer began raising his voice, telling me that he wasn't sitting out in the hot sun all day for nothing.

When he handed the ticket over to me to sign, I had a Lucy-in-BentforkTN moment & signed my name large, which made him really lose it. "That's it. Follow me to jail." Jail?! Now I was afraid.

He carried on at the station to a roomful of his fellow officers that I had been sassy to him. To my surprise, they were looking at him like he was behaving over-the-top & they seemed embarrassed by him; in fact, one of the officers seemed concerned about how I was doing & comforted me, asking where I was from, etc. I felt like they knew I was just another out-of-towner who was stopped because of it, yet no one spoke up when I was told that my driver's license would be kept there unless I paid the ticket.

The following Monday morning, I went to my area's sheriff's office on my lunch hour to report the incident to the sheriff. He was familiar with the town & knew about their reputation. He said he knew the sheriff there & that if I hadn't paid the ticket he could have done something for me, but he would make a call to the sheriff to report it.

As frustrated as I was at the unfairness of this experience & how it has stayed with me through the years, I'm mindful of how this incident pales in comparison to how people of color have been treated by the police. I had a small taste of what it feels like to be targeted & taken advantage of by someone who is empowered by a badge.











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When I was 15-years-old. Laffy Kat Sep 2014 #1
Take ur pants off? That's some kind of sexual deviancy. grahamhgreen Sep 2014 #7
I'm pretty sure the School Resource Officer at my HS was grabbing a feel Nuclear Unicorn Sep 2014 #20
I was pulled over because I was driving an old rather ragged volvo 240. NutmegYankee Sep 2014 #2
Either that or you are... ReRe Sep 2014 #11
I was questioned as a child without any effort to have any adult present, LeftyMom Sep 2014 #3
I have been stopped for no reason twice, in my decades of driving. pnwmom Sep 2014 #4
Pulled over by drunk policeman. White/white. grahamhgreen Sep 2014 #5
I was charged with PI for having MS. Downwinder Sep 2014 #6
Being extra happy in public Go Vols Sep 2014 #8
Yes, in a small town shake down speed trap... Tom Ripley Sep 2014 #9
it was 1969 hollysmom Sep 2014 #10
I got beat up horrendously by white cops, (I'm white). nilesobek Sep 2014 #12
Wow...just wow. N/T coyote Sep 2014 #32
This message was self-deleted by its author freshwest Sep 2014 #13
I was beat up and thrown in jail for sitting on a bench at a bus stop B Calm Sep 2014 #14
I was threatened with arrest Aerows Sep 2014 #15
I have dealt with many a cop.. sendero Sep 2014 #16
Speed trap in a small town when I was in my twenties. pacalo Sep 2014 #17
No Shankapotomus Sep 2014 #18
I've never had an interaction with the police where their actions weren't blatantly criminal Taitertots Sep 2014 #19
Yes, and I sued for false arrest, false imprisonment, and malicious prosecution and won. DemocratSinceBirth Sep 2014 #21
In all fairness, I have to post a story of 'above and beyond' service from LAPD, years ago. mnhtnbb Sep 2014 #22
I often tell people, including the police, exactly what I'm thinking. And sometimes I'm a smart-ass hunter Sep 2014 #23
Once I was pulled over by a very furious officer treestar Sep 2014 #24
I was 17 years old. I was living in Long Island and a senior in H.S. and commuting to the city for stevenleser Sep 2014 #25
No I'm white, LOL! Corruption Inc Sep 2014 #26
I was admittedly marym625 Sep 2014 #27
Interesting that most of these stories are from women..... socialist_n_TN Sep 2014 #28
Not the police... pipi_k Sep 2014 #29
Yes, I am white rock Sep 2014 #30
A police Lt I barely knew hugged me and grabbed and squeezed whole handful of boob@ mom's wake. bettyellen Sep 2014 #31
Not sure if ever to the level of misconduct (crime), but harassed quite a few times MillennialDem Sep 2014 #33
I've had a couple mythology Sep 2014 #34
I am an upper middle-class white female from a small-ish university town in the Southwest distantearlywarning Sep 2014 #35
I'm 24 Jamaal510 Sep 2014 #36
Yes, but I've more often been the beneficiary of police misconduct. Heidi Sep 2014 #37
intersting the ration is 3/2 white and black. grahamhgreen Sep 2014 #38
Yeah, in East Point, Georgia... kentuck Sep 2014 #39
DU is 90% white bananas Sep 2014 #40
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