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In reply to the discussion: This message was self-deleted by its author [View all]Xedniw
(134 posts)I have read every post on this thread.
1. He is calling and texting because you caught him in a criminal act and you could file charges. He is panicked and trying to make sure that everything is "all right" or to try and manipulate your thinking so that you won't file charges. Don't fall for this.
2. Save all calls and texts. They indicate his level of anxiety and knowledge that he has done something wrong. You need to show these to the police.
3. He has done this before. With no qualms, he physically carried a sleeping woman from the couch to his bed and penetrated her. This was no accident, and it wasn't a first time, which would have been far more clumsy or made to seem like "it just happened."
4. You are not sleeping, and you are sharing your experience on a very public message board. You clearly want to tell someone. Please get IMMEDIATE help and counseling.
5. If you were my sister, I would have you report it to the police immediately.