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In reply to the discussion: What are the main reasons men pay for sex? [View all]JustAnotherGen
(31,798 posts)But he's from Italy - and has a strong group of men from his community there - within 20 miles of us.
Maybe the men in our culture need to open up to affection as an every day thing?
BTW - he reads here -does not post - that's me taking dictation from him via text. *sigh* It's not easy being me.
Also - there is a strong element of power and the ability to relate to women outside of ourselves.
A powerless man (one who FEELS that way) will approach the woman who is powerless to gain power.
A man who does not always see ALL women as human beings - same. As an 'it' - a woman becomes something.
Years ago I read the book - You'll Never Make Love In This Town Again. Back in the 1990's - but I remember - no one sued because they knew it was the truth.
Read it if you can find it - you'll never watch Top Gun or any Don Simpson movie the same again.
You might also - maybe - see the segment of men for whom women really are 'things' to discard come to full life.