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hlthe2b

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3. Boy... is this article welcome and needed.

Tue Aug 12, 2014, 11:56 AM

Aug 2014

Those "selfish", "chose easy way out" comments are so untrue and so horrendous--especially to the survivor's family, I can only hope that society will learn to know "better" and to think accordingly towards those who make those cruel comments/assessments.

Until you have walked a mile in the severely depressed individual's shoes (or those of the family of the "lost&quot , you have NO idea.

Bless Robin Williams and all who have suffered that horrendous dark pain. May we find better ways to treat it and move from our ignorance on its causes and consequences.

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Guardian UK - Robin Williams's Death: A Reminder that Suicide and Depression Are Not Selfish [View all] Hissyspit Aug 2014 OP

KNR joeybee12 Aug 2014 #1

Thank you for posting this. enlightenment Aug 2014 #2

"I know that they have a lack of empathy that borders on its own pathology" LordGlenconner Aug 2014 #20

Okay - enlightenment Aug 2014 #25

Boy... is this article welcome and needed. hlthe2b Aug 2014 #3

k and r big-time. BlancheSplanchnik Aug 2014 #4

That word is disgusting LittleBlue Aug 2014 #5

This article is just plain wrong. Shemp Howard Aug 2014 #6

suicide is antithetical to selfishness as it illustrates anything but care to oneself. LanternWaste Aug 2014 #18

I just don't get how people misunderstand that one crucial point. Rex Aug 2014 #19

You are wrong passiveporcupine Aug 2014 #22

You missed my point. Shemp Howard Aug 2014 #24

You need to find a better word passiveporcupine Aug 2014 #26

I think you're right! Shemp Howard Aug 2014 #27

why is their temporary pain more important than his life-time of pain? passiveporcupine Aug 2014 #28

Why do you assume the survivor's pain will be temporary? Shemp Howard Aug 2014 #32

I'm very sorry for your loss and your Grandmother's (in-law?) pain and loss passiveporcupine Aug 2014 #33

Very thoughtful post, thanks. Shemp Howard Aug 2014 #34

No more selfish than refusing chemotherapy when you have cancer uppityperson Aug 2014 #40

This should be added to that offensive thread from last night malaise Aug 2014 #7

Todd Bridges said this on TMZ madashelltoo Aug 2014 #8

Yes, depression is a disease, however, rickyhall Aug 2014 #9

They saved my life get the red out Aug 2014 #11

Can I live with you if I go off my meds? hunter Aug 2014 #15

That sounds very familar davidpdx Aug 2014 #39

I think it depends on the person and situation laundry_queen Aug 2014 #16

My meds keep me alive, it is NOT the placebo effect nt steve2470 Aug 2014 #17

ummmmm fascisthunter Aug 2014 #36

When someone calls it "selfish" get the red out Aug 2014 #10

It may seem paradoxical ... Shoonra Aug 2014 #12

Recommend nt Zorra Aug 2014 #13

Thanks for this Hissy. progressoid Aug 2014 #14

Shame that we have to cross the pond for common sense from the media NightWatcher Aug 2014 #21

Suicide is not selfish. It is the result of someone being in such overwhelming pain they can no... EEO Aug 2014 #23

Kicked and recommended. Uncle Joe Aug 2014 #29

I once had myself convinced suicide was the logical thing to do. I mean totally. brewens Aug 2014 #30

HUGE K & R !!! - Thank You !!! WillyT Aug 2014 #31

Let us go fascisthunter Aug 2014 #35

k&r LeftishBrit Aug 2014 #37

Kicked and recommended! Enthusiast Aug 2014 #38

I'm a recent suicide attempt survivor Victor_c3 Aug 2014 #41