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Common Sense Party

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75. Which was a deft attempt to change the subject from what I had posted.
Tue Dec 17, 2013, 01:09 AM
Dec 2013

I was referring to the bullet points. You are not, for some reason.

Men should be offended . . . [View all] Triana Dec 2013 OP
im more offended by people saying that im raping my wife if we have sex after getting drunk leftyohiolib Dec 2013 #1
Who's saying that? radiclib Dec 2013 #10
He's trying to argue... CSStrowbridge Dec 2013 #53
that's funny no it's not my wife. there was a whole discussion here about this leftyohiolib Dec 2013 #132
Let me see if I understand you radiclib Dec 2013 #134
He's I think JackInGreen Dec 2013 #156
what he and others with this line are doing, is dismissing raping drunk, unconscious, unable to give seabeyond Dec 2013 #157
I've heard many others here, including you, make that very argument. EOTE Dec 2013 #158
post it. you are wrong. you NEVER heard me make the argument. post it. didnt happen seabeyond Dec 2013 #160
And if I do, would you admit you're full of crap? EOTE Dec 2013 #171
i have never said it. you threw shit out figuring it would stick. reality is, i didnt say. ever. seabeyond Dec 2013 #173
Read it and weep. Or read it and reminisce. Whichever floats your boat. EOTE Dec 2013 #174
ya. i said it was promoting raping an unconscious woman. that this is what our society seabeyond Dec 2013 #176
Unconscious women can't say "Don't stop fucking me." EOTE Dec 2013 #184
AUTOMATED MESSAGE: Results of your Jury Service Capt. Obvious Dec 2013 #204
Ha, thanks for the update. And she did, in fact, say that it's a male's wet dream to have sex with EOTE Dec 2013 #209
I'd bet a coke all of your posts in this thread were alerted on Capt. Obvious Dec 2013 #230
And I have a feeling you'd be one coke richer. EOTE Dec 2013 #232
Thats like... the worst kind of sex. AtheistCrusader Dec 2013 #250
It was movie, for Christ's sake! An idiotic (if mildly amusing) comedy film. nomorenomore08 Dec 2013 #328
ha... reading gwenolyn, i realize who she is on the new and improved du3. i know the poster seabeyond Dec 2013 #179
O, goodness! chervilant Dec 2013 #183
Ask myself if a woman saying that it's a man's wet dream to fuck something doesn't move is sexist? EOTE Dec 2013 #185
Your derision and condescension chervilant Dec 2013 #299
ha, didnt even read that. i dont read his posts. says i say sex with drunk wife is rape. seabeyond Dec 2013 #186
Post removed Post removed Dec 2013 #188
It may be offensive, but it is a fetish. moriah Dec 2013 #214
Thanks for teaching me a new word... EOTE Dec 2013 #222
Well, I have to admit the bottom drugging themselves deliberately is not safe or entirely sane. moriah Dec 2013 #231
If I said "It's a woman's wet dream to marry a handsome, wealthy man", would I be speaking of women EOTE Dec 2013 #236
Women think of men as a homogenous group in too many cases. daybranch Dec 2013 #309
Right Amaril Dec 2013 #362
Why am I not surprised? chervilant Dec 2013 #296
And pretty hilarious that you'd mention my "history of hidden posts". EOTE Dec 2013 #189
Awwww, chervilant Dec 2013 #295
It's particularly galling when you consider the way Marr Dec 2013 #324
+10000 Katashi_itto Dec 2013 #190
you give a thumbs up to raping a woman unconscious? 1000 worth of thumbs up? nt seabeyond Dec 2013 #191
Only you would try to take this out of context. Katashi_itto Dec 2013 #194
i asked. no answer? then it is saying raping an unconsious woman is saying sex with drunk wife is seabeyond Dec 2013 #197
Are you saying that it's a man's wet dream to have sex with something that doesn't move? EOTE Dec 2013 #198
Unconscious girls don't tell the people they're having sex with to not stop fucking them. EOTE Dec 2013 #199
Just the same old thing eh? I don't play your games. Spin it however you like. Katashi_itto Dec 2013 #202
fuck.... give a thumbs up. i ask what the thumbs up is for. you backpedal and blame and seabeyond Dec 2013 #208
He/she was giving a thumbs up to your comment about men dreaming of fucking inanimate things. EOTE Dec 2013 #211
backpedal, change the goal post from what you accused me of. nt seabeyond Dec 2013 #215
Post removed Post removed Dec 2013 #217
no. sex with drunk wife is rape. that is what you accused me of. that is what i said i never said seabeyond Dec 2013 #223
Ahhh, OK. So you think that sex with a drunk woman who is NOT your wife is rape. EOTE Dec 2013 #224
fucking an unconscious woman is rape. you want to make a blurred line, that is on you. seabeyond Dec 2013 #227
And what about fucking a woman who asks you not to stop fucking her? EOTE Dec 2013 #228
i am not having a stupid conversation that makes date rape, ok. you posted, i said, it is rape to seabeyond Dec 2013 #234
So, would your position be this? EOTE Dec 2013 #238
i really do not give a flying fuck what you expect. you accused me of soemthing. you were wrong. seabeyond Dec 2013 #240
Like hell I was wrong. EOTE Dec 2013 #243
And are you SERIOUSLY not able to understand this? EOTE Dec 2013 #241
i am SERIOUSLY not reading your garbage. nt seabeyond Dec 2013 #242
And not reading anything else by the looks of it. EOTE Dec 2013 #244
It could be rape. It depends on the situation whopis01 Dec 2013 #308
A certain percentage of men, unfortunately, yes. Your meaning is pretty clear to me at least. nomorenomore08 Dec 2013 #330
Lol!! Katashi_itto Dec 2013 #260
What you just did there really ought to earn you a ban, imho. Marr Dec 2013 #326
I did a search, and only found him saying the opposite in the past. Bradical79 Dec 2013 #165
interesting... seabeyond Dec 2013 #168
no what im saying is that if my wife and i are at home and are drinking and we have sex that leftyohiolib Dec 2013 #263
no im saying that if my wife And i get drunk and SHE wants to have sex that ( not that i dont ) leftyohiolib Dec 2013 #258
is your wife unconsciuos, comes to and slurs, why ya stooo.... and falls back to unconscious? cause seabeyond Dec 2013 #278
no my wife was never unconscious. my oringinal post was in reference to the thread in which leftyohiolib Dec 2013 #287
Or without consent... LanternWaste Dec 2013 #297
well of course leftyohiolib Dec 2013 #303
yes there was a very lengthy thread here a day or two ago leftyohiolib Dec 2013 #254
Apparently JackInGreen Dec 2013 #361
If your wife isn't interested in sex with you Aerows Dec 2013 #65
You hit the nail on the head! :) nt arthritisR_US Dec 2013 #78
Maybe he could try staying sober for a change Aerows Dec 2013 #89
You stated it so spot on! arthritisR_US Dec 2013 #124
It's going fairly well Aerows Dec 2013 #351
Who the fuck is saying anything about forcing sex on anyone? EOTE Dec 2013 #159
If one of those people Aerows Dec 2013 #312
oh i see where u got that let me fix that, not when i got drunk but when we, wife and i, leftyohiolib Dec 2013 #255
I don't see where I was "hating" Aerows Dec 2013 #313
maybe i misjudged your post for that i apologize and i chngd the post leftyohiolib Dec 2013 #341
"i know to alot of women men are always pigs in any situation so keep hatin" xulamaude Dec 2013 #321
spot on Supersedeas Dec 2013 #349
I don't think people are saying that at all Bradical79 Dec 2013 #153
yea it was during a disscussion on rape a few days ago but i didnt comment on it so now it cant find leftyohiolib Dec 2013 #342
Me either Aerows Dec 2013 #350
I'm offended by your apparent need to chervilant Dec 2013 #178
i know both my boys have been offended many times over by this mentality. and they do NOT seabeyond Dec 2013 #2
that does not surprise me in the least seabeyond. sheshe2 Dec 2013 #4
sigh... seabeyond Dec 2013 #11
+ 1,000,000,000 WillyT Dec 2013 #3
Preach iandhr Dec 2013 #5
thank you Triana. nt sheshe2 Dec 2013 #6
That stuff is demeaning to men. It says they are mindless animals... freshwest Dec 2013 #7
Ain't that the damn truth. arcane1 Dec 2013 #8
It's similar to radical Islam, AlbertCat Dec 2013 #26
trudat XemaSab Dec 2013 #9
Recommended! NYC_SKP Dec 2013 #12
That also pipi_k Dec 2013 #13
It's a no-brainer...if a woman doesn't want sex... Old and In the Way Dec 2013 #14
The irony is that it's (historically) men xulamaude Dec 2013 #15
As a man, it is easy...woman doesn't want sex Old and In the Way Dec 2013 #18
What's difficult about this? AlbertCat Dec 2013 #28
well phil89 Dec 2013 #166
. gollygee Dec 2013 #182
welcome to du. you might want to check out the books listed upthread to have a clearer niyad Dec 2013 #195
Thanks phil89 Dec 2013 #343
No. Hissyspit Dec 2013 #311
SO phil89 Dec 2013 #344
But what about rape? xulamaude Dec 2013 #33
Is this offensive? Major Nikon Dec 2013 #16
Are these guidelines regularly distributed to men in oreder to be xulamaude Dec 2013 #19
They are published by the largest American anti-sexual assault organization Major Nikon Dec 2013 #22
Yes, I am quite familiar with RAINN xulamaude Dec 2013 #29
Those are good guidelines and cautions for everyone. Common Sense Party Dec 2013 #34
Rape is not anything like the other crimes you list. xulamaude Dec 2013 #39
I'm referring to these bullet points: Common Sense Party Dec 2013 #43
well, it doesn't help at all with much more common acquaintance rape, does it? bettyellen Dec 2013 #50
So are you saying it's helpful to ignore the 1/3rd of rapes committed by a non-acquaintance? Major Nikon Dec 2013 #54
The original bullet points... CSStrowbridge Dec 2013 #59
The premise in the facebook meme makes a blanket statement Major Nikon Dec 2013 #105
Yep, I am saying it is a bad idea, in that it gives a VERY inaccurate picture of what rape is bettyellen Dec 2013 #93
I'm not sure how it's inadequate Major Nikon Dec 2013 #104
I asked a simple question. nt xulamaude Dec 2013 #60
Which was a deft attempt to change the subject from what I had posted. Common Sense Party Dec 2013 #75
I'm flattered that you find me "deft" xulamaude Dec 2013 #83
Men (in general) don't require the same bullet points CFLDem Dec 2013 #40
I'm not sure what you mean by xulamaude Dec 2013 #44
With the caveat of my female rapists. nt CFLDem Dec 2013 #45
Still not clear on what you're saying. nt xulamaude Dec 2013 #47
Your questions seem to be rhetorical Major Nikon Dec 2013 #42
My question is not rhetorical at all. xulamaude Dec 2013 #46
Neither was mine Major Nikon Dec 2013 #52
Okay - I'll go first but I'll expect answer from you: xulamaude Dec 2013 #58
You didn't answer the question Major Nikon Dec 2013 #76
Please. I did answer your question. Your turn: xulamaude Dec 2013 #86
Then you are saying you are offended by RAINN's guidlines Major Nikon Dec 2013 #103
As I said, I am very familiar with RAINN xulamaude Dec 2013 #106
women dont rape men. nt seabeyond Dec 2013 #109
They most certainly do. Behind the Aegis Dec 2013 #114
yes. 1% of rape is committed by women. 99% rape is committed by men. seabeyond Dec 2013 #115
It wasn't a matter of "got you," it was a matter of you presenting FALSE info. Behind the Aegis Dec 2013 #116
It doesn't seem to be anything more than a red herring to begin with Major Nikon Dec 2013 #120
It is one of the reasons I like RAINN. Behind the Aegis Dec 2013 #122
ya. it matters to pretend that 99% of the rape is not done by men. nt seabeyond Dec 2013 #127
It matters to that "1%". Behind the Aegis Dec 2013 #271
i have long before you called out the woman teachers raping their boy students along to the chides seabeyond Dec 2013 #279
I am not chiding. You made a false statement. Behind the Aegis Dec 2013 #284
99% of rape by men and gender is not a factor? rape by other women? new porn fad? cause i know, seabeyond Dec 2013 #126
Do you think that factor makes the victim any more or less of a victim? Major Nikon Dec 2013 #138
i think you actually address the rapist and not all of society. yes. nt seabeyond Dec 2013 #140
and then tell me nikon, when women do implement this men are outraged that a woman dared to seabeyond Dec 2013 #141
I addressed that at the time to you directly Major Nikon Dec 2013 #143
you address women as a whole accepting this. you do not address the men as a whole who are both, seabeyond Dec 2013 #145
be careful what you wear to prevent your rape is not to offend women. thru out the thread, look at seabeyond Dec 2013 #146
The RAINN guidance included no such recommendation Major Nikon Dec 2013 #152
which was EXACTLY my point like... last night. no shit. yet it is what is in the Op and what seabeyond Dec 2013 #154
and STILL you do not address the men offended on this thread, men offended when PSA is addressed seabeyond Dec 2013 #155
You might want to reconsider your position. chervilant Dec 2013 #192
Did you bother to check the FBI reporting standard?? LadyHawkAZ Dec 2013 #306
"The gender of the offender is pretty much irrelevant to the victim." xulamaude Dec 2013 #235
Which is why qualified the statement with "pretty much" Major Nikon Dec 2013 #251
Crazy-making. nt xulamaude Dec 2013 #253
At sorority parties, in a parking garage or ally, at work, xulamaude Dec 2013 #113
Well then, I've waited long enough. xulamaude Dec 2013 #117
Then you never answered my question Major Nikon Dec 2013 #119
people have told you why it is offensive to talk about womens clothes, which rainne never did. yes. seabeyond Dec 2013 #131
No, we don't. Deep13 Dec 2013 #305
Why do they continue to put the onus onto women? Warpy Dec 2013 #88
76 yr old nun in her home. now, granted, probably didnt have a shot gun so ya... her fault seabeyond Dec 2013 #97
Exactly, the hussy! Warpy Dec 2013 #121
My blog post/article about that: Triana Dec 2013 #175
'safer' from rape by women? AlbertCat Dec 2013 #30
No but it sure is fucked up that it's considered nessisary ismnotwasm Dec 2013 #96
Thank you for a straight answer Major Nikon Dec 2013 #123
because major, every one of us women that have been raped know this "guidence" is bullshit and not seabeyond Dec 2013 #133
It does no such thing Major Nikon Dec 2013 #147
i do tell my niece to be aware and i KNOW that will likely have NOTHING to do with her rape. seabeyond Dec 2013 #149
I'm ignoring no such thing Major Nikon Dec 2013 #169
how many posts have i ASKED about the contradiction and STILL you do not address it. only how a seabeyond Dec 2013 #170
So that's your opinion Major Nikon Dec 2013 #187
so. again. the contradictions i have stated in a number of posts are ignored. nt seabeyond Dec 2013 #200
Since your daughter is going to college next year, chervilant Dec 2013 #316
Read post upthread Major Nikon Dec 2013 #319
Guess who's not answering the simple question? xulamaude Dec 2013 #322
Because my private information is not up for dissemination Major Nikon Dec 2013 #325
No one asked you to divuldge the college you have chosen for xulamaude Dec 2013 #333
And I referred you back to the question you have yet to answer Major Nikon Dec 2013 #335
Asked and answered, counselor. xulamaude Dec 2013 #336
And I doubt any of your other questions ever get answered Major Nikon Dec 2013 #337
"Good faith discussion", eh? xulamaude Dec 2013 #338
You could google it Major Nikon Dec 2013 #339
Yes I suppose I could... xulamaude Dec 2013 #340
I don't get that chervilant Dec 2013 #345
We should do whatever reduces the incident rate of rape Major Nikon Dec 2013 #346
Okay, chervilant Dec 2013 #347
I've already read one out of your list Major Nikon Dec 2013 #348
There you go, chervilant Dec 2013 #352
Your intent was pretty clear Major Nikon Dec 2013 #353
You just cannot get outside chervilant Dec 2013 #354
... Major Nikon Dec 2013 #355
you want women to be hypervigilent at all times to protect themselves from rape. you KNOW seabeyond Dec 2013 #151
Yes it is. MadrasT Dec 2013 #136
I'm not going to say this guidance shouldn't be offensive to you Major Nikon Dec 2013 #142
I am certain #4 saved my young butt a couple of times. CrispyQ Dec 2013 #196
Anyone who blames the victim for being victimized probably meets the criteria of being an asshole Major Nikon Dec 2013 #256
then you will tell your daughter to be wary of the stranger in elevator at 4 and when asked seabeyond Dec 2013 #257
I'm not going to accept what any libelous poster tells me what I will or won't do Major Nikon Dec 2013 #259
you want to give it to the woman, and stay well away form men even having a part. yet....you seabeyond Dec 2013 #264
Did you ever answer my question on post #16? Major Nikon Dec 2013 #268
More crazy making. nt xulamaude Dec 2013 #270
You've repeated this twice Major Nikon Dec 2013 #277
You don't know what "crazy making" is? xulamaude Dec 2013 #282
Thanks for the help Major Nikon Dec 2013 #285
no. it will contradict all you have been proclaiming. what would the question be. bring it to me seabeyond Dec 2013 #281
You haven't answered it either Major Nikon Dec 2013 #286
There's that 'libel' again! xulamaude Dec 2013 #265
he wants to give daughter only what does not encroach on male entitlement yet feel secure he seabeyond Dec 2013 #266
Do you not understand what libel is? Major Nikon Dec 2013 #272
I understand what libel is. nt xulamaude Dec 2013 #274
yes saying i said a a drunk married couple a man was raping due to a movie of raping seabeyond Dec 2013 #283
will you tell her to preceive each date as a possible rapist and to be wary. will you tell your seabeyond Dec 2013 #262
Well, yes and no . . . MrModerate Dec 2013 #17
+1 CrispyQ Dec 2013 #206
+1 LadyHawkAZ Dec 2013 #307
You are mistaking.... AgingAmerican Dec 2013 #20
Well... I think when someone says this they are positing that *some* men are incapable of control, Nye Bevan Dec 2013 #21
"On college campuses, repeat predators account for 9 out of every 10 rapes" Major Nikon Dec 2013 #24
That's great! Squinch Dec 2013 #23
Yup, it offends me. nt Bonobo Dec 2013 #25
I get offended by safety guidelines at the nearby public swimming pool.. LanternWaste Dec 2013 #298
Not at all. Advice like that says nothing at all about men in general. Demo_Chris Dec 2013 #27
Why not make rapists responsible for their own behavior instead? n/t Triana Dec 2013 #36
They are. Advice on how to avoid evil people does not make one responsible for the evil... Demo_Chris Dec 2013 #41
There is no correlation... CSStrowbridge Dec 2013 #56
if only this 73 yr old woman had not dressed so sexy, she wouldnt have been raped. seabeyond Dec 2013 #62
Good heavens! Don't you know it's against the LAW xulamaude Dec 2013 #67
ya. i know. but the easiest source found and most everyone knows this story. seabeyond Dec 2013 #69
All of which might be interesting if it were not self evidently false... Demo_Chris Dec 2013 #125
how to prevent/avoid rape. so a woman is raped, she simply did not do enough. and NO, statistically seabeyond Dec 2013 #139
They are NOT HELD RESPONSIBLE for their own behavior. Their victims are. Triana Dec 2013 #180
Rape is about power and some Men think they gain some-sort-of-power by rape. BlueJazz Dec 2013 #31
I just assumed my penis was defective because it's never done that mythology Dec 2013 #32
It doesn't offend me; it cracks me up with it's asinine assumptions. It's not foolish, it's idiotic. cherokeeprogressive Dec 2013 #35
The 'rapey vibe'... TeeYiYi Dec 2013 #37
Bingo. nt Deep13 Dec 2013 #38
well.. pipoman Dec 2013 #48
do you not go on dates? bettyellen Dec 2013 #99
Not sure what this has to do with anything I wrote... pipoman Dec 2013 #102
because it is rape prevention advice that is worth more than that list, but it's missing from it. bettyellen Dec 2013 #112
I agree that date rape is a separate issue.. pipoman Dec 2013 #128
i think it's because lists like this leave women unaware for the more common dangers- and also keep bettyellen Dec 2013 #314
This message was self-deleted by its author pipoman Dec 2013 #101
good post oldandhappy Dec 2013 #49
Exactly! BainsBane Dec 2013 #51
I've been seeing women dress in very sexy and tantalizing ways for almost all of my 58 years. MarianJack Dec 2013 #55
true misandry nt geek tragedy Dec 2013 #57
this is what i say. i say i am defending men all the friggin time. yet i am the man hater. seabeyond Dec 2013 #64
+2 nomorenomore08 Dec 2013 #331
Post removed Post removed Dec 2013 #61
So cleavah. nt xulamaude Dec 2013 #63
It's a good thing DU doesn't have a misogyny problem. LeftyMom Dec 2013 #66
Seriously. Just wow. TDale313 Dec 2013 #70
only pretty girls deserve to be raped? seriously. wow. nt seabeyond Dec 2013 #71
Well, jury hid that one, fortunately. TDale313 Dec 2013 #80
yes they did. results. seabeyond Dec 2013 #84
I wish they would insist people provide an explanation BainsBane Dec 2013 #94
we have had too many people declare they will never vote to hide a post. for different reasons. seabeyond Dec 2013 #98
No, of course not! BainsBane Dec 2013 #72
Omg, that is so cute!... TeeYiYi Dec 2013 #92
So if I think that a woman should not go certain places, because of what happens there, then my flvegan Dec 2013 #68
Hon, I love you, but women can go anywhere we fucking want. LeftyMom Dec 2013 #74
Didn't say that. flvegan Dec 2013 #82
Do you mean on dates? BainsBane Dec 2013 #81
The OP didn't mention "dates" it was a more broadbrush, wide open accusation. flvegan Dec 2013 #85
The OP didn't mention the location of assaults at all BainsBane Dec 2013 #91
Really? You should re-read the OP. flvegan Dec 2013 #100
I think you're misreading the intent. LeftyMom Dec 2013 #95
very well explained. thank you. bettyellen Dec 2013 #107
Thanks. LeftyMom Dec 2013 #110
That might be what we want it to say, but that's not what it says. flvegan Dec 2013 #108
When I rule the world every social movement will communicate effectively. LeftyMom Dec 2013 #111
Yeah, this may take a while. ElboRuum Dec 2013 #363
Rape isn't about base christx30 Dec 2013 #73
You are dead on! Thank you :) nt arthritisR_US Dec 2013 #77
Can somebody please post the jury results for post 61? LeftyMom Dec 2013 #79
it is up there lefty. nt seabeyond Dec 2013 #87
"no explanation given" I should have known. LeftyMom Dec 2013 #90
I'm tired of the broad brush used to describe men. Nanjing to Seoul Dec 2013 #118
your infographic presupposes FatBuddy Dec 2013 #129
I hear that BS argument in India all the time Recursion Dec 2013 #130
If most rapes happen on dates or between people who know each other The2ndWheel Dec 2013 #135
Well said. Soundman Dec 2013 #164
I love ignorant things like this joeglow3 Dec 2013 #137
And the jury results are in... aikoaiko Dec 2013 #150
Jurer #2 gets it joeglow3 Dec 2013 #181
The difference is gollygee Dec 2013 #193
Actually, they are treated the same joeglow3 Dec 2013 #219
Impossible to determine who did it gollygee Dec 2013 #220
There is NO WAY you could scientifically believe that is true joeglow3 Dec 2013 #276
If you had spent much time listening to victims gollygee Dec 2013 #289
You equate that with burden of proof needed for a conviction joeglow3 Dec 2013 #290
Are we in court? gollygee Dec 2013 #291
That happens, I have no doubt joeglow3 Dec 2013 #292
I feel no burden to prove it to you gollygee Dec 2013 #293
Someone I loved went through it joeglow3 Dec 2013 #294
Why was it a dangerous situation? xulamaude Dec 2013 #301
It does offend me madokie Dec 2013 #144
How about be an adult svpadgham Dec 2013 #148
Isn't this the essence of the strict Islamic dress code for women. Men cannot control themselves pampango Dec 2013 #161
and the republicans. and the men that pornify all women for their entertainment. no, seabeyond Dec 2013 #163
read post 201, with quotes blaming jyoti singh pandey for the horrific gang-rape that ended her life niyad Dec 2013 #213
Disgusted more than offended seveneyes Dec 2013 #162
Presuming all men are rapists in a culture is advantageous for misogynists and the patriarchy. Dash87 Dec 2013 #167
perfectly said. thank you. post 151. no one would dare address. but it is the reality we give seabeyond Dec 2013 #172
+1 n/t Triana Dec 2013 #177
You are right. nt laundry_queen Dec 2013 #248
a few quotes from rape culture niyad Dec 2013 #201
one would think they would be, but it never seems to dawn on them, as they defend this kind of niyad Dec 2013 #203
totally amazing. demand the woman accept how not to be raped. dont address the contradiction of seabeyond Dec 2013 #207
and, of course, the usual derailment of the discussion to make us forget the woman-hating that niyad Dec 2013 #218
yup. nt seabeyond Dec 2013 #226
seems pretty dumb to pretend men's natural state isn't rapist Egnever Dec 2013 #205
of course they can control. they choose not to. that simple. nt seabeyond Dec 2013 #210
takes nothing from the fact that our natural state is rapist. Egnever Dec 2013 #212
i do not think mens natural state is rapists. so we disagree. now, some would say me thinking men seabeyond Dec 2013 #229
I completely disagree with that gollygee Dec 2013 #233
So let me understand this. lumberjack_jeff Dec 2013 #216
or. women should not be offended when told how to prevent their rape. yet, men are offended seabeyond Dec 2013 #237
it offends you that we have to keep posting about the way patriarchy treats rapists and their niyad Dec 2013 #247
I find it intriguing when I'm told what I should and should not be offended by. lumberjack_jeff Dec 2013 #273
and yet, we are told what we may or may not post because it offends you. funny how that works. niyad Dec 2013 #323
The "simple solution" is to push back. lumberjack_jeff Dec 2013 #327
the simple solution is for the rapists to stop raping. PERIOD. niyad Dec 2013 #329
Hear, hear!!! Beacool Dec 2013 #221
It seems as though the point of this graphic went well above many people's heads. Vashta Nerada Dec 2013 #225
Oh I think a lot of people get it... I just don't think they feel obliged to respond to it sibelian Dec 2013 #246
ya. first you were for until you decided you were suppose to be against. i saw. nt seabeyond Dec 2013 #249
This message was self-deleted by its author sibelian Dec 2013 #239
It takes a certain degree of empathy, self-awareness, and ability to project for Zorra Dec 2013 #245
a thread women are told we must not be offended taking responsibility preventing our rape. yet, men seabeyond Dec 2013 #252
Who doesn't treat strange men warily? The2ndWheel Dec 2013 #267
there have been threads both in gd and mens group saying how unfair it is women treat men like this. seabeyond Dec 2013 #269
I can't speak about the threads on here The2ndWheel Dec 2013 #280
Not to be nitpicky neffernin Dec 2013 #315
You've Got To Pick Up Every Stitch BKH70041 Dec 2013 #261
non consensual heaven05 Dec 2013 #275
As a man, I'm secure enough not to be. MirrorAshes Dec 2013 #288
This whole argument is a mess. DirkGently Dec 2013 #300
"Don't we all actually agree that the problem is rape culture" xulamaude Dec 2013 #320
This message was self-deleted by its author neffernin Dec 2013 #356
The "positive side"? xulamaude Dec 2013 #357
this is how my 78 yr old father in laws dismisses rape and womens issue. you should be thankful seabeyond Dec 2013 #358
I find the whole discussion a mess as well libodem Dec 2013 #360
If your intent is to rape someone, then bingo you are a rapist. Rex Dec 2013 #302
Exactly! LeftishBrit Dec 2013 #304
It also presumes that men act by animal instinct. In_The_Wind Dec 2013 #310
Kicked and recommended. Uncle Joe Dec 2013 #317
That "someone" is often religion and cultural traditions. gtar100 Dec 2013 #318
Females (and to a lesser extent, males) of all ages, from infancy to advanced old age, are potential nomorenomore08 Dec 2013 #332
Nope, I'm not offended. obxhead Dec 2013 #334
I sometimes get offended ... JustABozoOnThisBus Dec 2013 #359
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