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In reply to the discussion: Men should be offended . . . [View all]Common Sense Party
(14,139 posts)75. Which was a deft attempt to change the subject from what I had posted.
I was referring to the bullet points. You are not, for some reason.
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im more offended by people saying that im raping my wife if we have sex after getting drunk
leftyohiolib
Dec 2013
#1
that's funny no it's not my wife. there was a whole discussion here about this
leftyohiolib
Dec 2013
#132
what he and others with this line are doing, is dismissing raping drunk, unconscious, unable to give
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#157
post it. you are wrong. you NEVER heard me make the argument. post it. didnt happen
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#160
i have never said it. you threw shit out figuring it would stick. reality is, i didnt say. ever.
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#173
ya. i said it was promoting raping an unconscious woman. that this is what our society
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#176
Ha, thanks for the update. And she did, in fact, say that it's a male's wet dream to have sex with
EOTE
Dec 2013
#209
It was movie, for Christ's sake! An idiotic (if mildly amusing) comedy film.
nomorenomore08
Dec 2013
#328
ha... reading gwenolyn, i realize who she is on the new and improved du3. i know the poster
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#179
Ask myself if a woman saying that it's a man's wet dream to fuck something doesn't move is sexist?
EOTE
Dec 2013
#185
ha, didnt even read that. i dont read his posts. says i say sex with drunk wife is rape.
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#186
Well, I have to admit the bottom drugging themselves deliberately is not safe or entirely sane.
moriah
Dec 2013
#231
If I said "It's a woman's wet dream to marry a handsome, wealthy man", would I be speaking of women
EOTE
Dec 2013
#236
you give a thumbs up to raping a woman unconscious? 1000 worth of thumbs up? nt
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#191
i asked. no answer? then it is saying raping an unconsious woman is saying sex with drunk wife is
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#197
Are you saying that it's a man's wet dream to have sex with something that doesn't move?
EOTE
Dec 2013
#198
Unconscious girls don't tell the people they're having sex with to not stop fucking them.
EOTE
Dec 2013
#199
Just the same old thing eh? I don't play your games. Spin it however you like.
Katashi_itto
Dec 2013
#202
fuck.... give a thumbs up. i ask what the thumbs up is for. you backpedal and blame and
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#208
He/she was giving a thumbs up to your comment about men dreaming of fucking inanimate things.
EOTE
Dec 2013
#211
no. sex with drunk wife is rape. that is what you accused me of. that is what i said i never said
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#223
fucking an unconscious woman is rape. you want to make a blurred line, that is on you.
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#227
i am not having a stupid conversation that makes date rape, ok. you posted, i said, it is rape to
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#234
i really do not give a flying fuck what you expect. you accused me of soemthing. you were wrong.
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#240
A certain percentage of men, unfortunately, yes. Your meaning is pretty clear to me at least.
nomorenomore08
Dec 2013
#330
no what im saying is that if my wife and i are at home and are drinking and we have sex that
leftyohiolib
Dec 2013
#263
no im saying that if my wife And i get drunk and SHE wants to have sex that ( not that i dont )
leftyohiolib
Dec 2013
#258
is your wife unconsciuos, comes to and slurs, why ya stooo.... and falls back to unconscious? cause
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#278
no my wife was never unconscious. my oringinal post was in reference to the thread in which
leftyohiolib
Dec 2013
#287
oh i see where u got that let me fix that, not when i got drunk but when we, wife and i,
leftyohiolib
Dec 2013
#255
"i know to alot of women men are always pigs in any situation so keep hatin"
xulamaude
Dec 2013
#321
yea it was during a disscussion on rape a few days ago but i didnt comment on it so now it cant find
leftyohiolib
Dec 2013
#342
i know both my boys have been offended many times over by this mentality. and they do NOT
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#2
welcome to du. you might want to check out the books listed upthread to have a clearer
niyad
Dec 2013
#195
They are published by the largest American anti-sexual assault organization
Major Nikon
Dec 2013
#22
well, it doesn't help at all with much more common acquaintance rape, does it?
bettyellen
Dec 2013
#50
So are you saying it's helpful to ignore the 1/3rd of rapes committed by a non-acquaintance?
Major Nikon
Dec 2013
#54
Yep, I am saying it is a bad idea, in that it gives a VERY inaccurate picture of what rape is
bettyellen
Dec 2013
#93
Which was a deft attempt to change the subject from what I had posted.
Common Sense Party
Dec 2013
#75
It wasn't a matter of "got you," it was a matter of you presenting FALSE info.
Behind the Aegis
Dec 2013
#116
i have long before you called out the woman teachers raping their boy students along to the chides
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#279
99% of rape by men and gender is not a factor? rape by other women? new porn fad? cause i know,
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#126
and then tell me nikon, when women do implement this men are outraged that a woman dared to
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#141
you address women as a whole accepting this. you do not address the men as a whole who are both,
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#145
be careful what you wear to prevent your rape is not to offend women. thru out the thread, look at
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#146
which was EXACTLY my point like... last night. no shit. yet it is what is in the Op and what
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#154
and STILL you do not address the men offended on this thread, men offended when PSA is addressed
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#155
people have told you why it is offensive to talk about womens clothes, which rainne never did. yes.
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#131
76 yr old nun in her home. now, granted, probably didnt have a shot gun so ya... her fault
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#97
because major, every one of us women that have been raped know this "guidence" is bullshit and not
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#133
i do tell my niece to be aware and i KNOW that will likely have NOTHING to do with her rape.
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#149
how many posts have i ASKED about the contradiction and STILL you do not address it. only how a
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#170
so. again. the contradictions i have stated in a number of posts are ignored. nt
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#200
you want women to be hypervigilent at all times to protect themselves from rape. you KNOW
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#151
Anyone who blames the victim for being victimized probably meets the criteria of being an asshole
Major Nikon
Dec 2013
#256
then you will tell your daughter to be wary of the stranger in elevator at 4 and when asked
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#257
I'm not going to accept what any libelous poster tells me what I will or won't do
Major Nikon
Dec 2013
#259
you want to give it to the woman, and stay well away form men even having a part. yet....you
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#264
no. it will contradict all you have been proclaiming. what would the question be. bring it to me
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#281
he wants to give daughter only what does not encroach on male entitlement yet feel secure he
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#266
yes saying i said a a drunk married couple a man was raping due to a movie of raping
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#283
will you tell her to preceive each date as a possible rapist and to be wary. will you tell your
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#262
Well... I think when someone says this they are positing that *some* men are incapable of control,
Nye Bevan
Dec 2013
#21
"On college campuses, repeat predators account for 9 out of every 10 rapes"
Major Nikon
Dec 2013
#24
They are. Advice on how to avoid evil people does not make one responsible for the evil...
Demo_Chris
Dec 2013
#41
if only this 73 yr old woman had not dressed so sexy, she wouldnt have been raped.
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#62
how to prevent/avoid rape. so a woman is raped, she simply did not do enough. and NO, statistically
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#139
It doesn't offend me; it cracks me up with it's asinine assumptions. It's not foolish, it's idiotic.
cherokeeprogressive
Dec 2013
#35
because it is rape prevention advice that is worth more than that list, but it's missing from it.
bettyellen
Dec 2013
#112
i think it's because lists like this leave women unaware for the more common dangers- and also keep
bettyellen
Dec 2013
#314
I've been seeing women dress in very sexy and tantalizing ways for almost all of my 58 years.
MarianJack
Dec 2013
#55
this is what i say. i say i am defending men all the friggin time. yet i am the man hater.
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#64
we have had too many people declare they will never vote to hide a post. for different reasons.
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#98
So if I think that a woman should not go certain places, because of what happens there, then my
flvegan
Dec 2013
#68
Isn't this the essence of the strict Islamic dress code for women. Men cannot control themselves
pampango
Dec 2013
#161
and the republicans. and the men that pornify all women for their entertainment. no,
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#163
read post 201, with quotes blaming jyoti singh pandey for the horrific gang-rape that ended her life
niyad
Dec 2013
#213
Presuming all men are rapists in a culture is advantageous for misogynists and the patriarchy.
Dash87
Dec 2013
#167
perfectly said. thank you. post 151. no one would dare address. but it is the reality we give
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#172
one would think they would be, but it never seems to dawn on them, as they defend this kind of
niyad
Dec 2013
#203
totally amazing. demand the woman accept how not to be raped. dont address the contradiction of
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#207
and, of course, the usual derailment of the discussion to make us forget the woman-hating that
niyad
Dec 2013
#218
i do not think mens natural state is rapists. so we disagree. now, some would say me thinking men
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#229
or. women should not be offended when told how to prevent their rape. yet, men are offended
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#237
it offends you that we have to keep posting about the way patriarchy treats rapists and their
niyad
Dec 2013
#247
I find it intriguing when I'm told what I should and should not be offended by.
lumberjack_jeff
Dec 2013
#273
and yet, we are told what we may or may not post because it offends you. funny how that works.
niyad
Dec 2013
#323
It seems as though the point of this graphic went well above many people's heads.
Vashta Nerada
Dec 2013
#225
Oh I think a lot of people get it... I just don't think they feel obliged to respond to it
sibelian
Dec 2013
#246
ya. first you were for until you decided you were suppose to be against. i saw. nt
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#249
It takes a certain degree of empathy, self-awareness, and ability to project for
Zorra
Dec 2013
#245
a thread women are told we must not be offended taking responsibility preventing our rape. yet, men
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#252
there have been threads both in gd and mens group saying how unfair it is women treat men like this.
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#269
this is how my 78 yr old father in laws dismisses rape and womens issue. you should be thankful
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#358
Females (and to a lesser extent, males) of all ages, from infancy to advanced old age, are potential
nomorenomore08
Dec 2013
#332