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In reply to the discussion: Should sex between an 18 year old and someone younger than a specified age always be illegal? [View all]LadyHawkAZ
(6,199 posts)48. But those not ready before 18 generally aren't having sex before 18
http://www.guttmacher.org/pubs/FB-ATSRH.html
The lack of maturity, as demonstrated by the comparison with European pregnancy rates, is a lack of maturity on the part of parents who refuse to either teach or allow proper contraception. Simply put, we prefer to pretend that our teens are pure, chaste and sexually immature until their 18th birthday, and our teens pay the price for it. I'm not willing to consign other teenagers to the corrections system because the adults in this country aren't mature.
Although only 13% of teens have had sex by age 15, most initiate sex in their later teen years. By their 19th birthday, seven in 10 female and male teens have had intercourse.[1]
Among sexually experienced teens, 70% of females and 56% of males report that their first sexual experience was with a steady partner, while 16% of females and 28% of males report first having sex with someone they had just met or who was just a friend.[5]
Seven percent of young women aged 1824 who had had sex before age 20 report that their first sexual experience was nonvoluntary. Those whose first partner was three or more years their senior were more likely to report this than were other women in the same age-group.[1]
Teens in the United States and Europe have similar levels of sexual activity. However, European teens are more likely than U.S. teens to use contraceptives generally and to use the most effective methods; they therefore have substantially lower pregnancy rates.[6]
Among sexually experienced teens, 70% of females and 56% of males report that their first sexual experience was with a steady partner, while 16% of females and 28% of males report first having sex with someone they had just met or who was just a friend.[5]
Seven percent of young women aged 1824 who had had sex before age 20 report that their first sexual experience was nonvoluntary. Those whose first partner was three or more years their senior were more likely to report this than were other women in the same age-group.[1]
Teens in the United States and Europe have similar levels of sexual activity. However, European teens are more likely than U.S. teens to use contraceptives generally and to use the most effective methods; they therefore have substantially lower pregnancy rates.[6]
The lack of maturity, as demonstrated by the comparison with European pregnancy rates, is a lack of maturity on the part of parents who refuse to either teach or allow proper contraception. Simply put, we prefer to pretend that our teens are pure, chaste and sexually immature until their 18th birthday, and our teens pay the price for it. I'm not willing to consign other teenagers to the corrections system because the adults in this country aren't mature.
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Should sex between an 18 year old and someone younger than a specified age always be illegal? [View all]
Nye Bevan
May 2013
OP
One of my aunts, that lived two doors down from me when growing up, was married when she was 13.
Tx4obama
May 2013
#1
Huh? He was older than her. He died first. She lived many more years after his death.
Tx4obama
May 2013
#40
I'm so hard core, I think it should be illegal for someone to masturbate on their own 18th birthday.
Warren DeMontague
May 2013
#3
I have adult gay male friends who were seeking out sex with adult men when they were 14
MNBrewer
May 2013
#4
I guess it's not as black and white as some of us (maybe most) would like it to be.
nomorenomore08
May 2013
#5
And what about your friend's parents? Did they not care if their son was statutorily raped?
randome
May 2013
#18
Sexual orientation doesn't matter, what matters is the power differential between 14 and an adult.
uppityperson
May 2013
#25
The criminal is the one exploiting the judgement (or lack there of) of horny teenagers
Sen. Walter Sobchak
May 2013
#36
I have had about half a dozen extremely young girls pursue me over the last twenty years
Sen. Walter Sobchak
May 2013
#42
If we trust an 18yr old to vote we can trust em to obey basic laws I hope
The Straight Story
May 2013
#9
I think the line should be there but I think you're right about tying the hands of judges, too.
randome
May 2013
#22
Do you feel that "no line" way about the vote? Drinking alcohol? Signing contracts? Buying a gun?
WinkyDink
May 2013
#14
You draw the line at 729 days and someone will come along and say "Why not 727?"
randome
May 2013
#15
Look. Try seeing this NOT from some imaginary "in-love" "nice" 18-yr-old's viewpoint. Try
WinkyDink
May 2013
#12
In Sweden, sex between an 18 year old and someone younger than 15 is illegal without exception.
Nye Bevan
May 2013
#29
Under 16 should be illegal but not always charged - leave some room for prosecutorial discretion.
Donald Ian Rankin
May 2013
#32
We need a two year rule, sex with a minor two or more years younger is illegal.
bemildred
May 2013
#33