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JimDandy

(7,318 posts)
36. Had to hide the fact that I was homeless
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 04:17 PM
Mar 2013

when I was job hunting 20 years ago. I had a car though, so it wasn't as rough on me as what she encountered, but it was bad enough. The shelter I stayed at with my infant son provided me with an address that was really just a mail drop and a phone number where messages could be left. Without that phone#, I couldn't have landed my job.

Was able to keep my homelessness a secret for 2 months from my employer. Just before Christmas, one of the employees I worked closely with confessed that he had followed me to the shelter after my supervisor let slip that that's where I lived (he had to have followed me first to the daycare my son went to, then the gas station and finally to the shelter). He did so, because his mindset had always been that people who lived at shelters were bums who chose not to work and he simply could not believe that an employee of this firm could be homeless, then hired and have been able to hide their homelessness from everyone (I dressed impeccably, which was a chore because getting showers and laundry done around the needs of 100 other people in the shelter was difficult).

He invited me and my boys to Christmas with his family, who then showered them with gifts--an experience my oldest son remembers to this day as magical.

There are good people in this world who counter-act all the bad ones like this KFC owner.

Sometimes there are no words,,,, KarenS Mar 2013 #1
Another case of cold-blooded American capitalism at work MrScorpio Mar 2013 #15
Horrible. AndyA Mar 2013 #2
Remember, this was one francise owner, not the corporation. jerseyjack Mar 2013 #33
They hired the jerk B Stieg Mar 2013 #35
KFC corporate can put pressure on the francise owner AndyA Mar 2013 #50
Twenty years ago I actually worked with the sorry assed fuck who fired her.... Rowdyboy Mar 2013 #3
What possible reason could they have for this insanity? treestar Mar 2013 #4
I don't see why living at the Salvation Army Bay Boy Mar 2013 #5
It happens all the time. Lady Freedom Returns Mar 2013 #44
Chesley Ruff is in for some fun with the internets. n/t L0oniX Mar 2013 #6
Something about this story doesn't add up. I know people who have lived in shelters and had jobs. slackmaster Mar 2013 #7
Apparently he's now saying he fired her because he thought she was too old octothorpe Mar 2013 #12
That's awesome that she found a new job sakabatou Mar 2013 #13
awful Liberal_in_LA Mar 2013 #19
Oh, THAT would be a BETTER lawsuit! WinkyDink Mar 2013 #24
Darn...beat me to it. n/t JimDandy Mar 2013 #27
Glad she got a new job. Apophis Mar 2013 #29
Oh, he is an ageist... awoke_in_2003 Mar 2013 #40
It should not be their business but many that believe the old stereotypes make it their business. Lady Freedom Returns Mar 2013 #47
Many places have the 3 mo probation.. fired for any reason at all or no reason. glowing Mar 2013 #8
Oh mercy shenmue Mar 2013 #9
me too Liberal_in_LA Mar 2013 #18
This is just sad. HappyMe Mar 2013 #10
You know, a lawsuit, even a class action lawsuit, isn't half of what needs to happen here. NYC_SKP Mar 2013 #11
Agreed ck4829 Mar 2013 #30
+1 Lady Freedom Returns Mar 2013 #48
Probably hundreds of people get turned down for jobs every day because they are homeless. limpyhobbler Mar 2013 #14
American society is set up to punish the poor HereSince1628 Mar 2013 #16
Yep. Homeless people especially. limpyhobbler Mar 2013 #20
Had to hide the fact that I was homeless JimDandy Mar 2013 #36
ugh. hate that manager Liberal_in_LA Mar 2013 #17
Dear Mr. Ruff olddots Mar 2013 #21
Why would the boss care if the employee had to find transportation, until she couldn't? WinkyDink Mar 2013 #22
Employers actually can discriminate during hiring JimDandy Mar 2013 #31
Actually they can only ask if you have reliable transportation. MoonchildCA Mar 2013 #39
Was misinformed then JimDandy Mar 2013 #41
I only happen to know this... MoonchildCA Mar 2013 #42
Ah... thanks! JimDandy Mar 2013 #43
good for her Blue Palasky Mar 2013 #23
Working at KFC is awful work... Cooley Hurd Mar 2013 #25
Isn't that illegal? It should be illegal! First people getting fired for vocing opinions diabeticman Mar 2013 #26
Nope, not illegal. Lady Freedom Returns Mar 2013 #45
A symptom of the problem ck4829 Mar 2013 #28
yeah, isn't that the pits EC Mar 2013 #32
I hate that so much. savebigbird Mar 2013 #34
So much for the whole "bootstraps" thing, eh? sylvi Mar 2013 #37
It is stuff like what happened in this story that many have given up. Lady Freedom Returns Mar 2013 #49
Now she has a much better job and a chance at a future helping others instead of corporate profit. freshwest Mar 2013 #38
Heartless a$$hole! SammyWinstonJack Mar 2013 #46
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