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In reply to the discussion: Is there a lawyer in the house? QDRO [View all]babylonsister
(171,056 posts)51. I'm now
Pissed Off that I'm not getting a court-ordered amount b/c some schmo in corporate 'determined' what I should be getting...for the rest of my life.
Not my fault he retired early; this order was made before he knew what he was doing with his career. Why should I be penalized?
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I never heard of this. Is it for a divorce settlement? Just wondering.
southernyankeebelle
Feb 2013
#3
I have a friend whose husband was about 17 yrs older than his wife. She was a good
southernyankeebelle
Feb 2013
#9
He has been dead about 5 yrs now. She is retired herself now and is as happy as a
southernyankeebelle
Feb 2013
#55
Warning. I know too late. But accepting what the spouse says in a divorce? Sorry
LiberalFighter
Feb 2013
#39
I have seen this kind of thing in divorces where defined benefit pensions are being split
ProgressiveProfessor
Feb 2013
#15
Think of it this way: How much would both of you together get if you were still married,
Xipe Totec
Feb 2013
#53