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In reply to the discussion: Dear DUers who have lost a child...I need your advice. [View all]DonRedwood
(4,359 posts)13. I knew this post was gonna stir up some feelings.
Thank you for sharing about your Karley. I've been really laboring over this decision and you just settled it for me in three sentences. It will be shocking, probably, but you showed me she will want them regardless of the shock.
I'm sorry for your loss. I actually keep in touch with the moms of a couple of my friends and they always tell me how wonderful it is knowing that I still think of their kids. This was just a different situation and I know the lady probably has regrets that this will stir up and the fact that we have had no contact for...19 or so years will add to the shock.
Send them I shall.
Don.
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I think if it were me I would make copies of the pictures you have of her son. Let
southernyankeebelle
Feb 2013
#10
I have a 'forgive' bumpersticker and hope it reminds others, as much as it does me, when seen.
Mnemosyne
Feb 2013
#39
thank you for the love you give don. here is the thing. you sending those pictures to the mom,
seabeyond
Feb 2013
#15
Best to just let it go. If her memories are good ones, they should suffice and if not,
flyover22
Feb 2013
#16
Send them...and something else. You write beautifully. Add either inscriptions of where
JanMichael
Feb 2013
#18
I think the pictures will break their hearts, and they will love them. Why not give her a call first
robinlynne
Feb 2013
#28
Put the photos in an envelope, then enclose them in another envelope with a cover letter.
Plaid Adder
Feb 2013
#42
I'd say send them. The pain is there, and this may well give some joy as well.
nolabear
Feb 2013
#50