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southernyankeebelle

(11,304 posts)
112. I didn't respond at first because I was hurt and didn't know what to say. I know you
Sun Feb 3, 2013, 03:10 PM
Feb 2013

did what you felt was right. It takes a big person to realize when we make mistakes. When I do I usually write a personal email and apologize. We are ok. Enjoy the day.

When it rains, it pours. [View all] MynameisBlarney Feb 2013 OP
You've got some cyber support here livetohike Feb 2013 #1
Sounds like you're going through some rough times. nick of time Feb 2013 #2
Bless you. Go ahead and vent it all out by yourself, and then be there for your family. northoftheborder Feb 2013 #3
Even the strong ones in families have to cry sometime malaise Feb 2013 #4
I'm sorry to hear that life is piling up on you. Arkansas Granny Feb 2013 #5
Sending support your way. 2theleft Feb 2013 #6
I'm sorry for your troubles. No fun. lumberjack_jeff Feb 2013 #7
Thanks everyone MynameisBlarney Feb 2013 #8
I am so sorry you are going through all of this etherealtruth Feb 2013 #9
If the sun is shining where you are today - Get some. The sun can warm both heart and soul. DogPawsBiscuitsNGrav Feb 2013 #10
Good idea actually MynameisBlarney Feb 2013 #18
All I can do HappyMe Feb 2013 #11
I know how it is. The one that needs to be strong for the rest. nadinbrzezinski Feb 2013 #12
I would love to cry with my sibs MynameisBlarney Feb 2013 #15
So sorry to hear of your awful circumstances and intheozone Feb 2013 #13
I doubt this will help much Nictuku Feb 2013 #14
It helps more than you know MynameisBlarney Feb 2013 #22
MynameisBlarney Howler Feb 2013 #16
Thanks Howler MynameisBlarney Feb 2013 #20
You don't need an excuse MynameisBlarney. Howler Feb 2013 #25
I know MynameisBlarney Feb 2013 #35
You've got ours. We've been through this too. Egalitarian Thug Feb 2013 #17
Nothing but ChisolmTrailDem Feb 2013 #19
Here's a cyber hug kickysnana Feb 2013 #21
Oh man MynameisBlarney Feb 2013 #23
Life is SO unfair. LancetChick Feb 2013 #24
Damn, that had to be tough MynameisBlarney Feb 2013 #38
I tried to think of something useful to offer while I logged in, but alas, I got nothing Fight2Win Feb 2013 #26
My grandpa MynameisBlarney Feb 2013 #28
I am so very sorry. dkf Feb 2013 #27
Yeah MynameisBlarney Feb 2013 #30
(((((((MynameisBlarney))))))) WillyT Feb 2013 #29
Blarney..... BlancheSplanchnik Feb 2013 #31
I'm usually a very even keeled person MynameisBlarney Feb 2013 #32
yep....there sure are times, alright BlancheSplanchnik Feb 2013 #36
Thank you Blanche MynameisBlarney Feb 2013 #49
you're welcome Blarney BlancheSplanchnik Feb 2013 #52
I'm offering you 840high Feb 2013 #33
Contact your local Hospice. They are a shoulder to cry on. eggplant Feb 2013 #34
I never thought of doing that MynameisBlarney Feb 2013 #42
I think you're right... this is one of those times renate Feb 2013 #47
Thank you. MynameisBlarney Feb 2013 #51
My wife was a Bereavement Counselor for our Hospice for many years. eggplant Feb 2013 #84
My thoughts are with you ybbor Feb 2013 #37
I'll join you in getting drunk...I'll buy the drinks.. Playinghardball Feb 2013 #39
Right on! MynameisBlarney Feb 2013 #44
Bottoms up.... Playinghardball Feb 2013 #54
Chug a lug! MynameisBlarney Feb 2013 #57
Awesome! Playinghardball Feb 2013 #62
Anytime! MynameisBlarney Feb 2013 #63
Booze will only make it worse. Alcohol is a depressant. ProfessionalLeftist Feb 2013 #40
Oh, I appreciate it MynameisBlarney Feb 2013 #43
Oh you're Irish! ProfessionalLeftist Feb 2013 #58
LOL! MynameisBlarney Feb 2013 #60
Wow, what an overload libodem Feb 2013 #41
It is rough, no doubt MynameisBlarney Feb 2013 #46
we are here for you in spirit libodem Feb 2013 #48
Oh man MynameisBlarney my heart goes out to you. xtraxritical Feb 2013 #45
I understand Milliesmom Feb 2013 #50
Glad you shared on DU Smilo Feb 2013 #53
Sorry you're going through such a rough time... YoungDemCA Feb 2013 #55
Tears contain chemicals of some sort. JNelson6563 Feb 2013 #56
Have you been talking to my Aunt Pat? MynameisBlarney Feb 2013 #59
I know what you are going through and I wish you and your family the best. hrmjustin Feb 2013 #61
Oh wow MynameisBlarney Feb 2013 #64
Thank you, but it gets easier with time. hrmjustin Feb 2013 #65
You're quite welcome MynameisBlarney Feb 2013 #66
Remember to post if you feel down and we will try to pick you up. hrmjustin Feb 2013 #67
I will MynameisBlarney Feb 2013 #69
It may be a heavy load, but it is good to be needed. The worst thing in the world, Honeycombe8 Feb 2013 #68
Thanks MynameisBlarney Feb 2013 #71
Life is shit sometimes LittleBlue Feb 2013 #70
I wish I could, but MynameisBlarney Feb 2013 #72
Do your best, man LittleBlue Feb 2013 #75
Thanks MynameisBlarney Feb 2013 #77
. Mojorabbit Feb 2013 #73
aw MynameisBlarney Skittles Feb 2013 #74
I'm soooo sorry! Sending healing vibes your way. Auntie Bush Feb 2013 #76
Here's a cyber hug for you..... Jawja Feb 2013 #78
The good and the bad that we encounter... discntnt_irny_srcsm Feb 2013 #79
Do you think your the only one that goes through this? Don't be afraid to cry because your southernyankeebelle Feb 2013 #80
No, of course I don't think that. MynameisBlarney Feb 2013 #81
I feel your pain honestly. I just wanted to give you a little push to see it is alright. southernyankeebelle Feb 2013 #88
I know you are just trying to give helpful advice MynameisBlarney Feb 2013 #107
That's ok. You don't have to believe to be a good person. I still will pray because southernyankeebelle Feb 2013 #108
I understand you were trying to be helpful, but telling someone that others are worse off does Mnemosyne Feb 2013 #94
I don't know what to say. I think you are projecting your feelings on me. I never meant southernyankeebelle Feb 2013 #109
Maybe it was projection. Glad we're ok, Mnemosyne Feb 2013 #111
I didn't respond at first because I was hurt and didn't know what to say. I know you southernyankeebelle Feb 2013 #112
Thanks you, syb. It's my daughter's birthday, my only child turns 34 today and am trying to Mnemosyne Feb 2013 #113
I with you on that one. I have a 32 yr old. I have his daughter with me today. southernyankeebelle Feb 2013 #114
Two grandsons, age 11 - he's almost 12, and a 3 1/2 year old. They are the best! The oldest is here Mnemosyne Feb 2013 #115
OMG, I be right over to share that cake. It must be really tasty. I loveeeeeeeeeeeee southernyankeebelle Feb 2013 #116
you are stronger than you know riverbendviewgal Feb 2013 #82
Two years ago... PasadenaTrudy Feb 2013 #83
I lost my grandpa in 1973. B Calm Feb 2013 #85
I understand too well. Bawling my eyes out arthritisR_US Feb 2013 #86
Hang in there, MyName LiberalEsto Feb 2013 #87
Having a beer with you tama Feb 2013 #89
It's too far to drive there to see your dad? Can you take a bus? Honeycombe8 Feb 2013 #90
My dad is in South Miami Hospital MynameisBlarney Feb 2013 #110
Being honest about your feelings is NEVER wrong! randome Feb 2013 #91
Yes MynameisBlarney Feb 2013 #106
... Mnemosyne Feb 2013 #92
You have my sympathies. Watching this is terrible, take good care of yourself in the following days. freshwest Feb 2013 #93
I'm so sorry, Blarney. pacalo Feb 2013 #95
Lots and lots of hugs. I am so sorry and I do know exactly what you are going through right now. idwiyo Feb 2013 #96
Hugs and comfort to you brother. Whovian Feb 2013 #97
Stay strong. KNR leveymg Feb 2013 #98
Getting drunk is probably a good plan. malthaussen Feb 2013 #99
Giant cyber hugs... easttexaslefty Feb 2013 #100
Take it one day at a time kittcat Feb 2013 #101
welcome to du kitt..... nt seabeyond Feb 2013 #104
I feel terrible for your situation... Moostache Feb 2013 #102
All I can possibly say to you is... MarianJack Feb 2013 #103
First of All, If You Want to Have a Good Cry Then Do It dballance Feb 2013 #105
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