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Arcanetrance

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36. Yes rape

Tue Jan 29, 2013, 01:25 PM

Jan 2013

This is a form of rape it is horrific the victims of it can lose work and suffer just as much emotional trauma knowing these things are out there. Rape goes beyond just the physical aspect its about control plain and simple and these guys who post it post it as kind of their last everlasting act of control over these women

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'Revenge porn' is about degrading women sexually and professionally [View all] Judi Lynn Jan 2013 OP

A piece of shit once cheated on me and left. redgreenandblue Jan 2013 #1

Agreed Sherman A1 Jan 2013 #2

I have explicit stuff of a couple of old girlfriends SwissTony Jan 2013 #3

I would think that you mattvermont Jan 2013 #54

Occasionally SwissTony Jan 2013 #61

Exactly.. sendero Jan 2013 #8

Good for you NewJeffCT Jan 2013 #18

Well.... redgreenandblue Jan 2013 #19

great perspective NewJeffCT Jan 2013 #20

thanks red, and all the men in this subthread. an example of being the better person... absolutely. seabeyond Jan 2013 #30

No thanks needed. redgreenandblue Jan 2013 #43

exactly. thank you for saying it the way it is. she can be a piece of shit. and if a man puts the seabeyond Jan 2013 #29

Thank you for being an honorable man. smirkymonkey Jan 2013 #65

Thanks for your kind words. redgreenandblue Jan 2013 #69

There's no revenge porn perpetrated on men? Tunkamerica Jan 2013 #4

Are there web sites devoted to it? gollygee Jan 2013 #10

The site that started it all got in trouble after posting a male musician Recursion Jan 2013 #11

What leads you to believe that statement has been posed? LanternWaste Jan 2013 #22

It was a question. Tunkamerica Jan 2013 #75

I'm sure the Red Army molested some men on the way into Berlin Romulus Quirinus Jan 2013 #23

I'd guess that the double standard enters into it. Jim Lane Jan 2013 #42

Like clockwork... redqueen Jan 2013 #49

expose them, give their names and faces , post it online JI7 Jan 2013 #5

I suppose if you're gonna send pics like that, you'd have to expect at some point it'd be exposed. ObaMania Jan 2013 #6

To the whole world? Of course not. Otherwise no one would agree to be photographed/filmed nomorenomore08 Jan 2013 #7

The only positive outcome is that even some of the creepers are saying that now Recursion Jan 2013 #12

You do realize that in some cases, these women were photographed/filmed bullwinkle428 Jan 2013 #16

I only feel for those photographed/filmed against their will. That's pathetic. nt EastKYLiberal Jan 2013 #41

Thank you for alerting us to your status. nt redqueen Jan 2013 #50

ya. cause that is a stand up man. right. nt seabeyond Jan 2013 #31

Agreed. Especially if you cheat on the person in possession of these images/videos. nt EastKYLiberal Jan 2013 #40

then you become the creep, bottomfeeder, scum. that simple. nt seabeyond Jan 2013 #44

Low-life assholes. JNelson6563 Jan 2013 #9

Most revenge is meant to bring Are_grits_groceries Jan 2013 #13

I'm not a lawyer nor do I pretend to have a great knowledge of the law Arcanetrance Jan 2013 #14

Rape? Ter Jan 2013 #26

There is a kind of rape that is not literally physical marions ghost Jan 2013 #33

Yes rape Arcanetrance Jan 2013 #36

Real rape is still worse Ter Jan 2013 #46

Real rape wow reminds me of the term legitimate rape Arcanetrance Jan 2013 #47

Let's not go there Ter Jan 2013 #63

A consenting picture between her and the person she gave it too Arcanetrance Jan 2013 #64

Still not remotely comparable to forcefully taking off clothes and having forced sex Ter Jan 2013 #66

I've been in the position of being raped when I was 8 I was raped Arcanetrance Jan 2013 #67

I'm sorry to hear that, and you suffered far more than some yahoo showing his ex naked Ter Jan 2013 #70

ah, so now it is the womans fault anyway.... and not the creeps? nt seabeyond Jan 2013 #72

Yeah I guess I get caught up in things and let my emotions get the best of me Arcanetrance Jan 2013 #74

We may not agree on this, but I have another question for you Ter Jan 2013 #81

do we really need a vile creep scale? this creep is only disgusting. but THIS creep is vile. seabeyond Jan 2013 #71

I don't know if the act is criminalized. dairydog91 Jan 2013 #27

i think our laws have to catch up with tech. nt seabeyond Jan 2013 #32

Filed under the category: "Well, DUH..." What the hell pnwest Jan 2013 #15

But it's 'extra special' revenge if a naked picture is involved. randome Jan 2013 #35

How widespread is this phenomenon? Orrex Jan 2013 #17

I think the level of privacy involved is an issue gollygee Jan 2013 #21

Good answers--thank you Orrex Jan 2013 #28

If the subject has not given permission, the photos should not be taken. SwissTony Jan 2013 #38

i am told by too many. it is the womens fault. and we should expect no more from men. seabeyond Jan 2013 #24

Hideously twisted in every way. Thanks. n/t Judi Lynn Jan 2013 #25

I was just wondering why no one says to the guys posting this stuff Fawke Em Jan 2013 #37

yes. and that is what i pointed out in the other two threads. the men that use they sites to get off seabeyond Jan 2013 #39

These stupid men are going to ruin it for the rest of us. dawg Jan 2013 #34

No offense, but you could never get me to take a naked pic of myself. SWTORFanatic Jan 2013 #58

Why would anyone need to send naughty photos of themself MissMillie Jan 2013 #45

I'm not sure where you're going with this gollygee Jan 2013 #51

my comment is not about "protection" MissMillie Jan 2013 #82

Why should anyone have to explain their sexual kicks, to anyone not involved? redqueen Jan 2013 #52

It isn't anyone's business MissMillie Jan 2013 #83

Men (and women) who promulgate it degrade themselves as much as their targets slackmaster Jan 2013 #48

I tell you, this sort of thing makes me glad I'm old. nt raccoon Jan 2013 #53

Not old here. Never taken a naked pic, never will. SWTORFanatic Jan 2013 #57

I think you all should read the entire article at the link Hekate Jan 2013 #55

Said it twice already, will say it again. DO NOT TAKE NAKED PICTURES OF YOURSELF SWTORFanatic Jan 2013 #56

I'm taking one right now... trumad Jan 2013 #59

SCHEDULING TRUMAD FOR ASS KICKING Skittles Jan 2013 #77