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catnhatnh

(8,976 posts)
39. I passed...
Mon Jan 21, 2013, 02:41 PM
Jan 2013

Not because I wouldn't miss your post but because I cannot know your heart. Let me tell you a little story:

For the past 6 summers my brother and I ran a hot dog trailer out at the local airport. It was a dream gig-two fifty something guys with nothing to do but put out good burgers and chilidogs and chat each year with customers both local and passing thru on summer fun flights. 6 days a week and 7 months a year. I won't say I never got tired, but I can say I never got bored. And every morning I wanted to work.

November this year, two weeks before our normal close, we had an early snow and shut down for "a day or two". That was the last day of the stand.
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During that break my brother consulted a Doctor who found a mid stage bladder cancer.


A lot has happened but the offshoot was he is being treated and the stand is for sale. He is in chemo and the 5 year outlook is middling fair. We knew that hard as it might be we could open next year and a large part of both of us wanted just that. But what it came down to really was our personal bucket lists and Items undone. When we started the business time seemed no problems and dreams could be deferred and now instead time may cause problems and there's so much left to do.

What I'm getting at is that only you can check your list. Every summer we opened was one more year that other dreams were deferred and now, even with the stand gone we count those years as a win and not a loss. But we have also been reminded you can live a single dream so long that others might be missed. Look into your heart and let us know your choice. All the best, Cat.

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you know you want to, Mac Skittles Jan 2013 #1
I'd Go Back cantbeserious Jan 2013 #2
it sounds awesome limpyhobbler Jan 2013 #3
Of course, you silly goose! Suich Jan 2013 #4
Of course it's easy for US to say. . . annabanana Jan 2013 #5
You know how much we would miss you and Nick... CaliforniaPeggy Jan 2013 #6
It's up to you of course Duckhunter935 Jan 2013 #7
If you are able and willing then not doing it would be a disservice to you. Arctic Dave Jan 2013 #8
I just got 10 consultations on the question pinboy3niner Jan 2013 #9
Why not? (seriously) Is there something about your age or the remoteness that's beginning to worry? riderinthestorm Jan 2013 #10
Sir, whatever you decide I know we all would wish you the best. love_katz Jan 2013 #11
Age is only a number. femmocrat Jan 2013 #12
Selfishly, I voted yes. Robb Jan 2013 #13
If you don't will you put in a word for me? Enjoy the season. Vincardog Jan 2013 #14
One selfish yes vote here. hay rick Jan 2013 #15
I am so jealous mokawanis Jan 2013 #16
You know duty calls Mac. nadinbrzezinski Jan 2013 #17
Go for it donco Jan 2013 #18
Do you want to go? enough Jan 2013 #19
Two Turning, two burning. Throckmorton Jan 2013 #20
Of course, you chucklehead! n/t A HERETIC I AM Jan 2013 #21
"And how old will you be if you don't go?" Cerridwen Jan 2013 #22
GREAT point! pinboy3niner Jan 2013 #23
Thanks, pinboy. Cerridwen Jan 2013 #25
Being Irish, I can appreciate both the Harp and the great quote pinboy3niner Jan 2013 #31
Do it, Mac. Aristus Jan 2013 #24
If you love it and are up to it Warpy Jan 2013 #26
I'm 67 and I'd jump at the chance. nt Speck Tater Jan 2013 #27
Dude ellisonz Jan 2013 #28
I vote go! Lars39 Jan 2013 #29
Do it lpbk2713 Jan 2013 #30
If it makes you happy, sure :) JesterCS Jan 2013 #32
I thought this post would be about SS & medicare, B Calm Jan 2013 #33
You don't want to wind up like Descartes in his later years, do you? pinboy3niner Jan 2013 #34
I passed answering for three reasons. intheflow Jan 2013 #35
Rut-roh... pinboy3niner Jan 2013 #37
If you love it 2naSalit Jan 2013 #36
What? You're going to curl up and rot? Age is just a state of mind, or as Groucho said ... Scuba Jan 2013 #38
I passed... catnhatnh Jan 2013 #39
OK, youseguys - I just re-upped! DemoTex Jan 2013 #40
Go west! Solly Mack Jan 2013 #41
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