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LittleBlue

(10,362 posts)
20. You can lust after something that isn't revealed
Fri Jan 11, 2013, 05:28 AM
Jan 2013

Last edited Fri Jan 11, 2013, 06:20 AM - Edit history (1)

I find that women who wear more clothing can often be more attractive than women who wear less. That doesn't mean that every rape has nothing to do with lust. Why must every rape be attributable to the same thing? It is conceivable that rapes could be due to many things, lust and power being among them.

But that's not really the point, is it? Attributing a rape to lust does not infer that the blame is upon the woman. I do not understand why an attempt to examine all possible motives for a rapist, even if they do not imply any logical responsibility upon the woman, as "rape apology". And to avoid the label "rape apologist", we must reject that any rape could be about lust and must accept that every rape is about power and control.

If you can support the latter assertion with science, then it can be accepted. But if this is about ideology and coming to an unsupported conclusion (rape must be about power) to head off a separate illogical belief (the victim shares responsibility for their rape), then it cannot be accepted.

I would imagine that rape can probably involved power, lust, hatred, or sadistic motivations, or even a mix of these depending on the rapist. If lust is not a component of rape, then why are women age 16-24 are four times more likely to be raped than any other population group. That after all is when a woman is most desirable (or biologically, fertile) in their lifetime.

You should know that tossing the rape apologist accusation around in so casual a manner debases its meaning.

Purity Culture Is Rape Culture [View all] Why Syzygy Jan 2013 OP
k and r for this most excellent post niyad Jan 2013 #1
thanks for that.. Why Syzygy Jan 2013 #3
thank you. SBA has always been one of my sheroes. niyad Jan 2013 #23
I agree liberal_at_heart Jan 2013 #2
They love them Why Syzygy Jan 2013 #4
In art .. Why Syzygy Jan 2013 #5
Bruises Hekate Jan 2013 #6
I agree liberal_at_heart Jan 2013 #11
brilliant way to illustrate the way societies view women liberal_at_heart Jan 2013 #10
that picture says it all. niyad Jan 2013 #22
The same judgements apply to fat legs (no text) Quantess Jan 2013 #32
I don't know what you mean? Why Syzygy Jan 2013 #39
How do we know that all instances of rape are about power and control rather than lust? LittleBlue Jan 2013 #7
Even if it begins in lust, it is still about having the power to MAKE you have sex Kurovski Jan 2013 #9
If it were only about lust, why do men who have wives and/or girlfriends rape? Lydia Leftcoast Jan 2013 #12
Not sure, that's why I asked LittleBlue Jan 2013 #15
Psychological studies of men incarcerated for rape... loose wheel Jan 2013 #21
Lust Why Syzygy Jan 2013 #14
Just to be clear LittleBlue Jan 2013 #17
You were clear. Why Syzygy Jan 2013 #18
You can lust after something that isn't revealed LittleBlue Jan 2013 #20
may one enquire why it is so important for you to insist that rape must be about lust rather than niyad Jan 2013 #24
I wonder why he thinks men have so little control over their lust. Hatchling Jan 2013 #29
cause the male lust is oh so powerful over female lust, that it requires they rape? nt seabeyond Jan 2013 #34
Exactly. Hatchling Jan 2013 #41
That post is satirical, which is quite obvious. n/t duffyduff Jan 2013 #43
to which post are you referring? the one to which I was replying, or the one to which I linked? niyad Jan 2013 #45
To be fair .. Why Syzygy Jan 2013 #47
yes, I know that it was written as satire, but, thanks to the writer's skill, caught the mentality niyad Jan 2013 #48
I regret .. Why Syzygy Jan 2013 #31
+1. nt seabeyond Jan 2013 #35
about the "tossing the rape apologist accusation around in so casual a manner debases its niyad Jan 2013 #33
DU Why Syzygy Jan 2013 #40
Look at the Nodianos tape Tsiyu Jan 2013 #38
I can't believe I am reading this. duffyduff Jan 2013 #42
to which post are you referring, because nothing in post #20 talks about women civilizing men. niyad Jan 2013 #46
Whose lust doesn't die when the other person is crying and trying to get away? gollygee Jan 2013 #25
They're not. That's a comforting lie. redqueen Jan 2013 #44
The core of world religions, the non-spiritual, earthly, physical core is decaying. Kurovski Jan 2013 #8
"rape is...punishment for daring to exist as an independent being." SunSeeker Jan 2013 #13
I agree :) Why Syzygy Jan 2013 #16
Wow. That is an incredibly good article, and says it all. loudsue Jan 2013 #19
Fabulous Article! JustAnotherGen Jan 2013 #26
K & R. nt Guy Whitey Corngood Jan 2013 #27
Rape is used to keep women in place (under men). Dash87 Jan 2013 #28
thank you. yes. nt seabeyond Jan 2013 #36
Just kick 'em in the Purity Balls Blue Owl Jan 2013 #30
Us Menfolk Need to be Protected from Our Own Urges! Larrymoe Curlyshemp Jan 2013 #37
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