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proud2BlibKansan

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Sun Dec 30, 2012, 02:47 PM Dec 2012

12-Year-Old Boy Shot Dead While Hunting Died ‘The Way He Would Want To’ [View all]

Tragedy struck two different North Carolina families on Friday morning, as a man shot his nephew dead in a hunting accident, and another gunned down his brother in a case of mistaken identity.

A 12-year-old boy named James Lee Parker was shot and killed Friday morning in a hunting accident near Durham, North Carolina, Wake County Sheriff Donnie Harrison told WCTI 12 News. He was hunting with his father, uncle and step-brother.

The reporter interviewed the deceased boy’s great uncle, David Holloman, who was not present at the time of the accident. Holloman related that the accident occurred in the Falls Lake Recreation area, where the family hunting group had just killed a deer when another appeared. The uncle, Jason Matthews Harper, was trying to reload his 12-gauge shotgun when it accidentally discharged, fatally wounding his 12-year-old nephew in the chest.

The great uncle told the TV news:

[James] loved to hunt and he died that way. I believe that’s the way he would want to go if he was going to go. I guess God had plans for him and he’s up in heaven now.

This is not meant to attack the great uncle, who is no doubt grieving his family’s loss — but, still, there seems to be little comfort in thinking that a pre-teen wanted to die via a bullet wound to his chest.

http://www.addictinginfo.org/2012/12/29/12-year-old-boy-shot-dead-while-hunting-died-the-way-he-would-want-to/

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Good Christ. Yeah, I'm sure a 12 year old kid imagines himself dying TwilightGardener Dec 2012 #1
Unbelievable, isn't it? proud2BlibKansan Dec 2012 #2
Some guns can't be loaded with the mechanical safety on jmowreader Dec 2012 #54
Yeah that is some weird justification shit going on. Rex Dec 2012 #4
Oh for Chrissake FarPoint Dec 2012 #19
Ya...nobody wants to die in the forest Rex Dec 2012 #45
I just had a passing thought... FarPoint Dec 2012 #47
I started dove hunting at his age with my grandfather Rex Dec 2012 #48
Yeah that is beyond fucked up isn't it? Initech Dec 2012 #32
rationalization Enrique Dec 2012 #3
He did say it was Gawds will. Care Acutely Dec 2012 #11
Well, so much for Gawd's will. That boy was gonna grow up to be... RC Dec 2012 #21
d'oh! Enrique Dec 2012 #25
Reading is Fun-damental! ToxMarz Dec 2012 #34
"I guess God had plans for him and he’s up in heaven now. " proud2BlibKansan Dec 2012 #14
"I guess God had plans for him and he’s up in heaven now." surrealAmerican Dec 2012 #15
Are hunting death rates trending up or down? Eleanors38 Dec 2012 #5
This tells me something totally different: there are too many people hunting Taverner Dec 2012 #6
The uncle shot him while reloading exboyfil Dec 2012 #39
Missed that - - Taverner Dec 2012 #42
Violate one of the Four Safety rules ManiacJoe Dec 2012 #7
That's the beauty of the rules... Coyote_Tan Dec 2012 #22
And the reality of the rules pnwmom Dec 2012 #35
I sure hope the kindergarten... Bigmack Dec 2012 #57
One argument I hear over and over from the pro-gun side is that they want to be able Chorophyll Dec 2012 #8
Yeah because every twelve year old wants to die from a sucking chest wound gurgling blood.... Hassin Bin Sober Dec 2012 #9
:-( Paulie Dec 2012 #63
And I suppose the family can be comforted by the Arkansas Granny Dec 2012 #10
He can Politicalboi Dec 2012 #12
Every other safety rule aside Fumesucker Dec 2012 #13
If I were gonna die while out in the field, I hope its a massive MI ileus Dec 2012 #16
The most common hunting deaths I'm personally familiar with are falling out of a tree stand Fumesucker Dec 2012 #20
A good friend of mine is an orthopod... ileus Dec 2012 #30
Well, at least he wasn't shot dead by some stranger. Turbineguy Dec 2012 #17
I used to live in Bahama, just north of Durham. djean111 Dec 2012 #18
i always thought that sleeping while spending the night in the arms of a certain woman i know would dembotoz Dec 2012 #23
Good grief. nruthie Dec 2012 #24
In the face of tragedy, people soften say terrible things. Thats my opinion Dec 2012 #49
Wanted to die in a hunting accident? sakabatou Dec 2012 #26
Why Exactly Was a Shotgun Pointed at Another Person? dballance Dec 2012 #27
people do stupid assed stuff when excited. ileus Dec 2012 #33
Sorry, Don't Buy It dballance Dec 2012 #37
what a piece of work, with a family like that no wonder this tragedy happened still_one Dec 2012 #28
"Praise Jesus he wasn't eaten by the Sarlacc in the Great Pit of Carkoon," said his nerdy nephew n/t Ian David Dec 2012 #29
Maybe we could cut the guy some slack. Comrade Grumpy Dec 2012 #31
Not quite, he just killed his nephew through ignoring the single most basic rule of gun safety Fumesucker Dec 2012 #38
the quote is from the great-uncle, not the uncle who shot his nephew dead. KittyWampus Dec 2012 #41
He DID go and his young life was blown away because someone was in a hurry to kill an animal. Lint Head Dec 2012 #36
God, talk about denial and rationalization. Zoeisright Dec 2012 #40
Gun owners in the U.S. have a sick mentality. nt Sarah Ibarruri Dec 2012 #43
stupid is as stupid says leftyohiolib Dec 2012 #44
12 gauge? rgood Dec 2012 #46
Only the deer hunters in 10 states ..... oldhippie Dec 2012 #66
The uncle had not taken the required hunting education course TexasBushwhacker Dec 2012 #50
the Uncle can't accept that he killed his nephew, so it must have been God's plan, right? MjolnirTime Dec 2012 #51
12-year-old boys are wired for immortality BeyondGeography Dec 2012 #52
" if he was going to go" d_r Dec 2012 #53
I wonder if the little guy knew he was going out that day with a complete doofus of an uncle.. Tikki Dec 2012 #59
Hunting deer with a 12ga shotgun?? tularetom Dec 2012 #55
They take kids away from their parents for a lot less serious malaise Dec 2012 #56
The shotgun goes off while the uncle is reloading? Ignorance of basic gun safety there. brewens Dec 2012 #58
At 12 years old? alarimer Dec 2012 #60
"...Jason Parker hadn't taken a hunting education course that's supposed to be mandatory... WorseBeforeBetter Dec 2012 #61
"Live by the sword, die by the sword", geesh no one wants to die at 12 Raine Dec 2012 #62
Personally I wouldn't want to die because somebody else was an idiot mythology Dec 2012 #64
the WAY he would want to, i suppose i can't argue with. but the WHEN he would want to.... unblock Dec 2012 #65
Really with a big hole in his chest...... Historic NY Dec 2012 #67
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