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In reply to the discussion: I no longer use antidepressants. [View all]Dustlawyer
(10,489 posts)I look at it like a roller coaster! On the big drops it's, "Oh shit, here I go again!" Then I set about getting through it. I do this by finding the little things that can be funny and hope that the next climb up is around the corner. On the way up I temper it with the knowledge that it will not last either, so I enjoy it to the hilt while it lasts. When you are in the depths of sadness and despair, you can get through it b/c you know that it will eventually it will get better. I learned this after 12/21/1993 when I lost my 3 1/2 year old son! I was a basket case for 2 years! I finally saw that the only good thing I could take from that tragedy was to learn to have as much fun everyday as possible! It changed my life for the better. I am glad you have found your way!