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electric_blue68

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22. A good, nuanced post. 👍 Like your various examples, too...
Sat Apr 12, 2025, 10:01 PM
Apr 12

🚨 Ooops, ended being a long reply! 😄

Somewhen between 9 -10ish yrs old
('62 - 63) I began to become more conscious of sexism. I was too young to have heard of Betty Friedan back then.

A minor occurance in the bigger picture thing; but important to us here in NYC when we had bigger snowstorms - was complaining to my parents (?5 th grade) about why we girls couldn't wear pants during, after snowstorms to school. We did get it changed!

Now, I happen to like action movies. As a kid I (by definition back then) I liked a lot of "boy" things - building blocks, wooden trains (had a set!), tinker toys, knights on horses w fancy get ups.

Knew I didn't want kids at a young age, so no interest in baby dolls.

I got the "girly" fashion bug in 5th grade;The Mod clothes scene! And jewelry? Omg, 😄 I absolutely love jewelry, and I've designed and made/make my own (not able to afford metalsmithing, though).

Love art, music from a young age.

I was very lucky my parents didn't push me in one direction, or another; they supported my interests. IF my dad had any objections, I didn't hear any arguments in that arena from behind closed doors.

My mom was a pretty extroudinary woman in certain ways. She during WW2 living in California was the heads "draftman" for either the whole, or a division of Hughes Aircraft! She had at least 25 draftsman under her. It could have been closer to 50 - 100 at some point! So all these people had to bring their work to her for final approval, and sign off. I wish I had asked her how she got the job, and why she moved to California (vs anywhere else) in the first place. She also had graduated from a big fashion, dressmaker school previously.

My sis, and I knew she was a draftsman but we didn't know she was head draftsman till only about only 17 yrs ago (I'm 72 now) till a cousin overheard us talking about her at another cousin's wedding.
My dad didn't want her to work, though. I think it might have affected her.

I always get excited when women are the lead, or co-leads in shows!
As Sci-Fi fan I love Captain Janeway; Major Kira, Jadzia Dax, from DS9; Uhura from the Kelvin timeline; the young Nurse Chapel in Strange New Worlds; T'pol & Hoshi from Enterprise; Captain Burnham, Tilly, Kern, from Discovery, Kara "Starbuck" BSG; June Osborne, Moira, Rita ftom The Handmaid's Tale; Dectective Joss Carter, Shaw, Miss Goves/Root, from Person of Interest; Agent Olivia Dunham, Agent Farnsworth, Nina Sharpe, Henrietta.

From The Good Fight: Diane Lockhart, Lucca Quin, Marissa Gold & Liz Reddick.

Murphy Brown. Mary Tyler Moore.

I'm sure I'm forgetting a few!

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Excellent post! SharonClark Apr 12 #1
Problem, conflict, solution. Well done. cachukis Apr 12 #2
Excellent! SheltieLover Apr 12 #3
Thanks for this excllent post canetoad Apr 12 #4
I really liked the scene in the fourth episode meadowlander Apr 12 #5
Can't say this enough: yardwork Apr 12 #6
Wow, I think I'm about to be the seventh person to say that this is an excellent post, if I can keyboard fast enough. FadedMullet Apr 12 #7
Little frozen spermies in test toobbies BoRaGard Apr 12 #8
I've been a male for all of my almost 80 years and I hate the male-oriented culture. erronis Apr 12 #9
true DonCoquixote Apr 12 #12
Excellent! LoisB Apr 12 #10
Misogyny came first. It has always been with us. We can tamp it way down, but will never eliminate it. . . nt Bernardo de La Paz Apr 12 #11
The key is that misogyny should not be cool! Mopar151 Apr 12 #16
I think in the *very long run it can be defeated to the point that it will effect very few women, and that will no electric_blue68 Apr 12 #21
History May Help PocatelloLiberal Apr 12 #13
Welcome to DU LetMyPeopleVote Apr 13 #24
We need to revisit the hero's journey nuxvomica Apr 12 #14
Well Lilith said, "To hell with you" and left Adam alone in the garden. 1WorldHope Apr 12 #15
Alpha-male obsession is a narrow cage. Mblaze Apr 12 #17
... Solly Mack Apr 12 #18
Well said! GiqueCee Apr 12 #19
Amen brother. meadowlander Apr 12 #20
A good, nuanced post. 👍 Like your various examples, too... electric_blue68 Apr 12 #22
DURec leftstreet Apr 12 #23
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