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Trust_Reality

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Fri Feb 14, 2025, 06:36 PM Feb 14

My wife and I both have cancer - probably. [View all]

We have both been treated - stage II pancreatic cancer and stage II prostate cancer. It is unlikely that we are totally clear at this point. But we can hope... and focus on healthy habits and prevention.

We have learned a lot about cancer. (I believe I am correct in my understanding, but I am not a doctor.)

- Cancer cells are not healthy cells. They are weak, but they are dysfunctional in a way that leads them to multiply out of control until they overwhelm and kill the host. The cancer eventually takes all of the energy and strength from the host.
- Some cancers are very persistent and adaptable - very dangerous. Some are very clever even though their "brains" actually function in an abnormal manner.
- Treating cancer always involves damage to the host. And pain. Fighting cancer requires courage. It requires determination. A coordinated multipronged approach works best.
- As we all know, the later it is in the malignancy process, the more damage cancer will have done and the more difficult it will be to stop it... IF it can even be stopped. Most cancers will have been growing for quite a long time, years, just not noticed or detected.

I am amazed at the similarities between cancer and malignant greed. What cancer is to the human body, malignant greed is to the nation. What has been happening in the USA for many years is a close parallel to cancer. Sure, there are some other illnesses in this country, many of which are chronic, but the serious illness in this country, the killer, is malignant greed, a way of functioning, that results in drastic wealth disparity. It is the illness that leads super wealthy individuals to want more, or want "all of it," to want unstoppable unrestrained power.

There are different ways to treat cancer. The longer we wait, the more difficult it will be, the more radical the treatment will need to be. The inflammation that precedes cancer is everywhere. It is red.

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I wish you both a complete recovery. And your analogy is perfect. Wicked Blue Feb 14 #1
From the poster... Trust_Reality Feb 16 #42
Absolutely accurate blm Feb 14 #2
Healing vibes on the way to you & Mrs. SheltieLover Feb 14 #3
Even Pancreatic Cancer has a much better survival rate in the last ten years. Good vibes going out to ... marble falls Feb 14 #4
Sending good vibes to both of you malaise Feb 14 #5
Your analogy was brilliant! La Coliniere Feb 14 #6
analogy Be Leave On Feb 15 #36
After multiple malignancies you learn tools - Nigrum Cattus Feb 14 #7
I'm so sorry XanaDUer2 Feb 14 #8
Thanks for this. Hope22 Feb 14 #9
I do so hope both you and your wife completely recover. That's a real bummer. LoisB Feb 14 #10
I wish you health and total recovery. bronxiteforever Feb 14 #11
So sorry to hear you and your wife Figarosmom Feb 14 #12
Brilliant analogy Wild blueberry Feb 14 #13
Best wishes. As to your analogy, 52 years ago Dean said "There is a cancer growing on the Presidency" Bernardo de La Paz Feb 14 #14
Fuck cancer! AKwannabe Feb 14 #15
Wow JMCKUSICK Feb 14 #16
Sorry to hear and hoping you both will be OK. Great analogy and post. Best wishes, ED Evolve Dammit Feb 14 #17
So generous of you to reach out to us when you and your wife are going through such challenges. Boomerproud Feb 14 #18
True. They're very similar ... dchill Feb 14 #19
A incredible thought provoking analogy Fla Dem Feb 14 #20
Godspeed to you both both in your recovery and healing. Jack-o-Lantern Feb 14 #21
Damn....... a kennedy Feb 14 #22
Holding you up to the healing light wendyb-NC Feb 14 #23
I totally agree -- your analogy is spot on. wordstroken Feb 14 #24
Holding you both in love and light. Vibes for recovery and healing. niyad Feb 14 #25
I'm so sorry you are both tackling this, but I have to say Bluethroughu Feb 14 #26
What an amazing outlook you have! Lonestarblue Feb 14 #27
Musk has said..he is hopingnto do enough damage that next admin cant undo Demovictory9 Feb 14 #28
Hang in there. PoindexterOglethorpe Feb 14 #29
I had stage three breast cancer 25 years ago Racygrandma Feb 14 #30
Excellent post Humane human Feb 15 #31
Sending prayers for recovery Richluu Feb 15 #32
Do you qualify for the whipple surgery? Ace Rothstein Feb 15 #33
Hope you heal completely after treatment mdbl Feb 15 #34
Good luck to you both.. Playingmantis Feb 15 #35
I'm so sorry for you to have go go through this. Stage II might likley be survivable, yes? Don't wait for treatment, Exp Feb 15 #37
How awful! May your and your wife's Reality soon Include Being Cancer Free for the rest of your lives! electric_blue68 Feb 15 #38
I wish both of you the best of outcomes and a long life post-cancer. You comment about this counties "malignant.... RussellCattle Feb 15 #39
Wow. luvallpeeps Feb 15 #40
Sending prayers and healing hugs gademocrat7 Feb 15 #41
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