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Cleita

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31. Really? Where I went to school the boys had to wear uniforms too.
Wed Dec 5, 2012, 10:15 PM
Dec 2012

Sure back in the forties the girls wore skirts, but does it have to be that today? I find your arguments are not substantial.

a) Believe me the baggy, navy blue serge uniforms I wore were nobody's fantasy, but even if they had been cute, what is the difference from a sexy, mini skirt, midriff baring outfit and body piercings? Wouldn't that be a pedophiles fantasy, too? Actually, a pedophile doesn't need a school uniform to fantasize. They are just sick and clothing has nothing to do with it.

b) I knew how to put an outfit together. I resented having to do it to go to school. I suppose nurses' and doctors' scrubs are offensive to you as well, but they are so practical in a work environment. How about a mechanics outfit in an auto shop? I once worked in an auto shop and although it was a clipboard carrying job, I had to wear a shop coat with my name on it. I suppose that gave lecherous men fantasies too.

d)Teachers need to know how to dress appropriately for school. Sadly many don't, however, students should be focused on their studies not their clothes.

Just MHO but it seems more schools around the world agree with me than don't. School is not a runway show.

Uniforms are the answer. I know it's something that Americans really resist Cleita Dec 2012 #1
Heh, I almost have to agree. Would lead to less students being picked on. Wouldn't have Proles Dec 2012 #15
Many countries require them in their public schools or at least a smock to wear Cleita Dec 2012 #16
Uniforms are sexist lbrtbell Dec 2012 #27
Really? Where I went to school the boys had to wear uniforms too. Cleita Dec 2012 #31
+1 Sherman A1 Dec 2012 #51
In China all the kids wear track suits. wickerwoman Dec 2012 #47
Good point!!-- in 1960 AlexSatan Dec 2012 #57
My daughter and son wear almost exactly the same uniform GobBluth Dec 2012 #61
Answer to what question? Isn't the real problem that our culture tells women that their value is Egalitarian Thug Dec 2012 #35
Uniforms from before the sixties have been fetishized. Cleita Dec 2012 #46
Saige, try being honest about your goals. enlightenment Dec 2012 #2
Hmm. I got a spidey-sense tingle that hifiguy Dec 2012 #8
Or at least we got the same tingle . . . enlightenment Dec 2012 #17
When I was her age, I would have thought, "Then how will TwilightGardener Dec 2012 #3
Try on some burqas! Quantess Dec 2012 #4
WTF? lbrtbell Dec 2012 #28
there don't seem to be any good role models these days liberal_at_heart Dec 2012 #38
No one is mocking them for not wanting to be sexualised. wickerwoman Dec 2012 #48
Exactly. Fashion Police Club. Quantess Dec 2012 #50
Because non of the other kids or cliques AlexSatan Dec 2012 #58
"girls and women having control over their lives" Quantess Dec 2012 #49
Knee length shorts? gollygee Dec 2012 #5
So you can't be a 'bright, heroic' girl HappyMe Dec 2012 #6
What I know about 15 year old girls...to each their own and some girls don't... Tikki Dec 2012 #7
If it's voluntary, it's okay, so long as the school permits an FHA club for girls, too. Bucky Dec 2012 #9
That's some "fauxminism" going on right there. Chorophyll Dec 2012 #10
I've been a feminist since the 1960's lbrtbell Dec 2012 #29
I'm not sure what you're responding to. Chorophyll Dec 2012 #32
The problem starts with the designers and marketers of girl's clothes, pnwmom Dec 2012 #36
I don't think the problem starts with them, but they sure don't help. Chorophyll Dec 2012 #52
+1 AlexSatan Dec 2012 #59
Nothing wrong with that... LadyHawkAZ Dec 2012 #11
Lady Hawk, do you happen to have the link to that teen's video? riderinthestorm Dec 2012 #14
check Catherina's thread in the Feminists group LadyHawkAZ Dec 2012 #19
No star, no access to that group. riderinthestorm Dec 2012 #20
Here you go: LadyHawkAZ Dec 2012 #23
You rock!! Thank you!! I know someone who needs this right now. nt riderinthestorm Dec 2012 #24
... LadyHawkAZ Dec 2012 #25
+10 Liberal_in_LA Dec 2012 #40
Thinly veiled slut shaming aimed solely at girls (Modesty Week doesn't apply to boys obviously) riderinthestorm Dec 2012 #12
I don't think they wear the magic undies until they get married. enlightenment Dec 2012 #18
Boys/ clothes don't usually expose that much skin. pnwmom Dec 2012 #34
that depends on where you live liberal_at_heart Dec 2012 #39
Do the boys wear tops with spaghetti straps to school, bare their midriffs, pnwmom Dec 2012 #44
no they just wear shorts that droop so they can show off that area right above the pubic area liberal_at_heart Dec 2012 #45
All hail the Junior Anti-Sex League! Or the late Kim Jong Il's Pleasure Brigade. slackmaster Dec 2012 #13
Orrin Hatch's niece and nephew? Modesty, no cussing? The Mormons must be recruiting. LeftyMom Dec 2012 #21
It's not about empowerment, about repression, and as someonone noted-where's the modesty for boys? joeybee12 Dec 2012 #22
Religious Fundamentalists don't see boys as the "Temptress", but as the "Tempted". Ikonoklast Dec 2012 #42
Romney lost - so now there will be no trendsetting Mormon in the WH Smilo Dec 2012 #26
What about boys? No "modest" expectations for them? n/t gkhouston Dec 2012 #30
Miniskirts and short skirts can be worn in good taste Tabasco_Dave Dec 2012 #33
Could we get a student to start an Le Taz Hot Dec 2012 #37
It doesn't bother me liberal_at_heart Dec 2012 #41
My only objection is seeing their Le Taz Hot Dec 2012 #43
Complete agreement here. amandabeech Dec 2012 #53
When I see teens like that AlexSatan Dec 2012 #60
I think I heard that in the 60s already. We were very aware of being used in these ways already jwirr Dec 2012 #54
It's groups like this that create the stereotype that 'short skirts/short tops = slut' LynneSin Dec 2012 #55
Interesting, but odd. MineralMan Dec 2012 #56
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