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hunter

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56. I'm not deaf but whenever two or more people are speaking I can't process anything.
Sat Dec 1, 2012, 02:27 PM
Dec 2012

I've spent too much time in pubs, restaurants, and other places where many people are talking and I only sit there and watch with no more than a vague understanding of what everyone is going on about.

If I'm engaged in some non-verbal activity I don't even hear the language of a single person speaking. It takes some effort and maybe a couple of seconds to engage the part of my brain that translates sounds into words and meaning. I usually don't extract the lyrics in music either. Songs I've heard in the background for years, I'll suddenly recognize them and know what they are about once I've read the lyrics.

For years I tried to listen to talk and news radio as some kind of mental exercise, but I can never stay engaged. My attention wanders and the words turn garbled.

I'm most at peace in a silent or at least a non-verbal mode but I'd really be uncomfortable without audible environmental cues; hearing a knock on the door, the dogs' and birds' alarm calls, etc.. If I could turn off my hearing as easily as I close my eyes I'd feel very insecure not knowing what was going on around me.

I think I'd like to live in a quiet world where everyone spoke sign language.

Thanks for this video. It's given me quite a bit to think about.

So cute!!! hrmjustin Nov 2012 #1
Not good Panasonic Nov 2012 #7
What do you mean not good? FunkyLeprechaun Dec 2012 #16
The only criticism I've seen is the "harm" it does to the deaf community. joshcryer Dec 2012 #20
Debby Downer pj9728 Dec 2012 #26
They don't see deafness as illness or disability BainsBane Dec 2012 #36
You know, I try to respect people's beliefs liberalhistorian Dec 2012 #50
I agree liberalhistorian. My daughter, like Stephen Colbert, saidsimplesimon Dec 2012 #59
I hope your daughter is well. Welcome aboard DU roguevalley Dec 2012 #94
Sound is natural, colorado_ufo Dec 2012 #70
The wind whispering in the pines, lovers whispering as they walk a garden path rustydog Dec 2012 #98
+1. Disability or not, it IS a disadvantage to have fewer senses than others. It adds to the life Honeycombe8 Dec 2012 #72
I sure hope you are not serious..... sendero Dec 2012 #37
Wait for it. It get's worse. Deaf couples have used prenatal testing... TheMadMonk Dec 2012 #85
I hadn't heard of that one. That's incredibly fucked up if so. joshcryer Dec 2012 #99
This is one of the dumbest things I have ever read. obxhead Dec 2012 #46
Well, I agree with you, especially liberalhistorian Dec 2012 #51
I think it's fine if someone as an adult chooses not to use hearing aids/implants, NYC Liberal Dec 2012 #77
+1 ThoughtCriminal Dec 2012 #78
Who cares if selfish people ostracize you! RichGirl Dec 2012 #90
true. I've heard that too. my opinion is its like abortion. don't want one, don't get it. roguevalley Dec 2012 #93
Well, many seem to think so, but here is the problem Panasonic Dec 2012 #40
I have cochlear implants FunkyLeprechaun Dec 2012 #41
I grew up on hearing aids all my life. Panasonic Dec 2012 #42
I'm the same FunkyLeprechaun Dec 2012 #43
Fortunately, since DU3, we don't need a star to post in groups. joshcryer Dec 2012 #80
Thank you, well said. liberalhistorian Dec 2012 #53
Cochlear implants can't help all deaf/HOH people though, can they? AllyCat Dec 2012 #67
Right, the implants aren't always recommended, and help some more than others Bibliovore Dec 2012 #107
Can you hear all the spoken words of others? Or is there some cutting out or low volume? Honeycombe8 Dec 2012 #74
A couple of my students naturallyselected Dec 2012 #48
birds too greymattermom Dec 2012 #66
Sorry, but it's truly selfish liberalhistorian Dec 2012 #52
I understand the concerns about hurting deaf culture to a degree AllyCat Dec 2012 #63
Seems to me like religion the problem IS THEIR'S NOT MINE. TheMadMonk Dec 2012 #86
Well. I'm just telling you from the DEAF COMMUNITY perspective. Panasonic Dec 2012 #109
I can't believe you mean that. Ty Templeton Dec 2012 #76
Here's one of a 29 year old woman hearing for the first time: joshcryer Dec 2012 #19
Joy, pure joy! hrmjustin Dec 2012 #22
Would love to hear her reaction to music AgingAmerican Dec 2012 #25
She could only afford one implant, that her MIL got for her. joshcryer Dec 2012 #33
I had a blind neighbor AgingAmerican Dec 2012 #44
Remember, according to the insurance industry, hearing with both ears AllyCat Dec 2012 #65
hearing with one ear in her case treestar Dec 2012 #108
Oh, my! liberalhistorian Dec 2012 #54
It's amazing how many little sounds are part of the backdrop of hearing life Bibliovore Dec 2012 #73
It actually reminds me the first time I got glasses. joshcryer Dec 2012 #82
I knew someone who never knew trees had individual leaves until she got her first glasses Bibliovore Dec 2012 #111
He was so amazed, he forgot to keep sucking rocktivity Nov 2012 #2
E-fucking-normous. /nt TheMadMonk Dec 2012 #87
Indeed! Bibliovore Dec 2012 #113
Amazing and precious! GreenPartyVoter Nov 2012 #3
How precious!!!! LeftInTX Nov 2012 #4
Beautiful! n/t Still Sensible Nov 2012 #5
That's so amazing. blue neen Nov 2012 #6
I dare anyone to watch that without shedding a tear! Catlover827 Nov 2012 #8
There are some people who think those implants are abusive to babies. pnwmom Dec 2012 #9
And by that logic prostheses are abusive to people who have lost or are born without limbs TalkingDog Dec 2012 #10
I think it's because deafness affects communication -- missing a limb doesn't. pnwmom Dec 2012 #30
That, and I think they don't want the children dependent on a technology. joshcryer Dec 2012 #31
I think Why Syzygy Dec 2012 #68
self isolating is sad to me. there are even places building towns for only deaf and roguevalley Dec 2012 #95
Actually, a prosthesis and hearing-aid implant really aren't equal if we're talking about being.... Moonwalk Dec 2012 #64
So then why do people wear glasses? malaise Dec 2012 #12
because I'd bump into walls if I didn't bluemarkers Dec 2012 #13
Me too. But my best understanding of objections to cochlear implants is.... Hekate Dec 2012 #28
The Deaf culture is getting smaller FunkyLeprechaun Dec 2012 #35
Actually, ASL apparently IS valuable for spoken language, rather than a hindrance Bibliovore Dec 2012 #79
Thanks -- that's my understanding as well. Hekate Dec 2012 #104
ASL has its own grammar, too Bibliovore Dec 2012 #106
I bet that's Harlan Lane FunkyLeprechaun Dec 2012 #105
Different professor, actually Bibliovore Dec 2012 #110
It's closer to Japanese than it is English, from what I've heard. joshcryer Dec 2012 #112
I wear glasses too malaise Dec 2012 #39
Sadly, there will still be many deaf people who won't be able to work on tavalon Dec 2012 #47
Sorry, glasses =/= cochlear implants geek_sabre Dec 2012 #45
I can understand that FlaGranny Dec 2012 #57
Thanks for this malaise Dec 2012 #62
Parents make all kinds Why Syzygy Dec 2012 #69
I would say that the expression on the baby's face makes it pretty clear what the baby thinks re CI. grantcart Dec 2012 #75
Thanks for posting this. Bibliovore Dec 2012 #83
And by the time they're old enough to make that choice... TheMadMonk Dec 2012 #88
IMO, they can object but they can't speak for everyone. That is no different than roguevalley Dec 2012 #96
I wasn't going to say it... sendero Dec 2012 #38
That smile says it all! VenusRising Dec 2012 #11
What an angel! gateley Dec 2012 #14
Hope, love and joy TeamPooka Dec 2012 #15
Wow! PatSeg Dec 2012 #17
You Made Me Cry mckara Dec 2012 #18
AWWWW!!! Odin2005 Dec 2012 #21
He laughed! he laughed out loud! Hekate Dec 2012 #23
Now, there's an example of some gooooood science! ReRe Dec 2012 #24
awww such a cute baby! Cane4Dems Dec 2012 #27
He looked to me like he was trying to say "Hi" right back. SleeplessinSoCal Dec 2012 #29
That is so sweet. liberalmuse Dec 2012 #32
Joy and Love otohara Dec 2012 #34
Video: Hearing... but not as you know it geek_sabre Dec 2012 #49
Thank you for that video. Skidmore Dec 2012 #55
I'm not deaf but whenever two or more people are speaking I can't process anything. hunter Dec 2012 #56
Sounds like auditory dislexia. /nt TheMadMonk Dec 2012 #89
Thanks for the vid - never knew any of this Jersey Devil Dec 2012 #114
That's beautiful! Aristus Dec 2012 #58
Very special. JNelson6563 Dec 2012 #60
A pox on all this negative talk oswaldactedalone Dec 2012 #61
Wow! nt ZombieHorde Dec 2012 #71
I think there were episodes of House and of Law and Order Criminal Intent InsultComicDog Dec 2012 #81
Look at that child's face, and his mother's, and tell me it's not a good thing. nolabear Dec 2012 #84
and what an amazing DU community discussion zazen Dec 2012 #91
This one is great too... savebigbird Dec 2012 #92
If I had the money...I would love to hear out of my right ear again. rustydog Dec 2012 #97
This might be a good time for this brilliant take on 'disability'... FailureToCommunicate Dec 2012 #100
All I can say is these are the moments that.... Ivywoods55 Dec 2012 #101
Priceless!!!! mfcorey1 Dec 2012 #102
I find it an awesome use of technology.... Historic NY Dec 2012 #103
That's just beautiful... Xyzse Dec 2012 #115
Here's the documentary from 2001. Panasonic Dec 2012 #116
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