My hubby & I made approx same salary for 17 years

[Sherman A1]

61. Agreed

But, I would also start formulating a plan to go it alone. This is a terribly bad situation.


I cannot for the life of me even think that I would do such a thing to my wife. She has been out of medical leave for 6 months for two surgeries and about to return to work for which she is really not ready to do, but feels she must do so to keep her job. I fully expect that in a few months they will find another reason to let her go, but we will see. No matter what we will figure out the money, even if it means just my income. She is first and foremost my wife, everything else is somewhere else down the line.