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bhikkhu

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46. Yes, its mostly a biological response to the environment
Sun Nov 25, 2012, 04:18 PM
Nov 2012

...and then we cook up narratives to rationalize it, and perhaps culturally we come up with Thanksgivings and Christmasses to counteract it, somewhat.

You can see a variety of the same mechanism in teenagers, if you happen to have any around. Its perfectly ordinary to have unbalanced and unpredictable chemical conditions in the developing brain, often showing up as "bad moods". Then, an individual suffering from them will often blame the bad mood itself on some external condition which was no issue at all when she was in a "good mood". Sometimes the bad mood will be blamed on things which weren't even present until after the bad mood (etc...), but the point is that often we experience things for no particular reason other than random biology, but then we come up with narratives for why we experience them that make us feel good.

So we are somewhat addicted to pat explanations and convenient narratives, we are averse to uncertainty in spite of understanding very little (as individuals), and then we are really not nearly as good at seeing the "why" of anything as we think we are.

It's the pressure to feel happy when you don't. Brickbat Nov 2012 #1
homesick, longing for times/people long gone, elehhhhna Nov 2012 #2
Thanks elehhhhna. kentuck Nov 2012 #4
+1000 orpupilofnature57 Nov 2012 #7
+1 area51 Nov 2012 #22
Isn't it more related to lack of vitamin D and sunlight? dkf Nov 2012 #3
I agree . orpupilofnature57 Nov 2012 #6
Yes. It's the weather for me. I need the sun. sammytko Nov 2012 #18
I think that is a part of it at least for me. Sadiedog Nov 2012 #43
Looking outward and not inward, transfixed on an illusion of orpupilofnature57 Nov 2012 #5
My circle of family and friends is getting smaller. hobbit709 Nov 2012 #8
They're depressed because YOU brought it up MrScorpio Nov 2012 #9
not always materialism Brainstormy Nov 2012 #10
" It isn't "stuff" that makes people want to live" aletier_v Nov 2012 #26
Your diagnosis shows little understanding of what depression really is lunatica Nov 2012 #11
I think I'll go along with you on this........... wandy Nov 2012 #20
Having lived through Christmases from Hell can certainly prompt depression. But it isn't the only fishwax Nov 2012 #32
I agree lunatica Nov 2012 #40
I was going to post this too laundry_queen Nov 2012 #35
This message was self-deleted by its author ewagner Nov 2012 #12
Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD). Siwsan Nov 2012 #13
I second the idea that it's SAD. As I've gotten older, I've noticed that I really, really hate the Nay Nov 2012 #16
I've never been a big fan of snow and cold, but I do love to watch the birds Siwsan Nov 2012 #17
yep, the short days do it for me MindPilot Nov 2012 #30
Yes indeed. Short days and long nights are always hard on me. slackmaster Nov 2012 #31
Yes, its mostly a biological response to the environment bhikkhu Nov 2012 #46
From "The Richest Man in Babylon" dkf Nov 2012 #14
Lonely people or people who feel disconnected from others suffer from depression.... Walk away Nov 2012 #15
This makes the most sense. Lucky Luciano Nov 2012 #21
Its the conflict FarCenter Nov 2012 #19
Hmmm. interesting! nt Sadiedog Nov 2012 #44
I think its because holidays make us think about our loved ones darkangel218 Nov 2012 #23
The reasons are as many as people who suffer. liberal N proud Nov 2012 #24
Seasonal Affective Disorder aletier_v Nov 2012 #25
i have to go with kentuck on this one. while i try my pnwest Nov 2012 #27
I ditched all of it ten years ago aletier_v Nov 2012 #28
+1000! I always disliked the whole tree thing. MindPilot Nov 2012 #34
SAD is one reason. Zoeisright Nov 2012 #29
It may also be that ann--- Nov 2012 #33
This society is based in a materialistic illusion. This causes hopelessness and subsequent Zorra Nov 2012 #36
For some, because we're desperately broke Tsiyu Nov 2012 #37
May we be free of our desires and expectations libodem Nov 2012 #38
"Backward, turn backward, O time in your flight... grasswire Nov 2012 #39
Vitamin D storage in the tissues and brain are down... RagAss Nov 2012 #41
I dunno. I actually like LIKE this time of year best Populist_Prole Nov 2012 #42
For many, it is a memory of a childhood long past Whovian Nov 2012 #45
besides the emotional aspects of the season, the sudden drop in daylight causes Serotonin issues RepublicansRZombies Nov 2012 #47
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