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Mary in S. Carolina

(1,364 posts)
19. Zero Tolerance Starts with Us
Wed Mar 3, 2021, 11:42 AM
Mar 2021

When someone in a position of power "especially an attorney or a judge" assaults you, they have just handed you their power - that is huge.

Please use this power so future women and men do not experience these life changing situations. This is a "Main Street" issue and affects millions of men and women everyday; it hampers your ability to make money for your family, it robs your trust, your mental health amongst a litany of other problems.

The only way to fight is through lawsuits - I know I am sounding like a broken record, but it works! Can you imagine the look on your abusers face when he/she gets served or when the police show up to investigate. How about the look on your face when you see a $200,000+/- check in the mail from your predatory - that is power! When you get a new job and you are harassed again......do it again, there is no limit on how many times you can sue predators.

How To:

Please video or audio tape the sexual harassment or discrimination using a "nanny cam" in your office or a device on your persons; it sounds extreme, but this will give you power. Don't let these predators win.

We need to continue to hold CEO, partners, politicians, supervisors, clergy, co-workers, etc. accountable.

Give your tapes to an attorney, it will cost you nothing for a consultation; these cases are usually not a he says/ she says situation, their are emails, texts, photos, tapes, admissions, etc and are cut and dry. The vast majority of attorneys get paid only if you win the lawsuit and the vast majority will settle out of court with a very sizable settlement.



I think you were wise to go to his law partner, even if it didn't resolve things. It undoubtedly hlthe2b Mar 2021 #1
It's only a matter of time before some woman's husband.. Omnipresent Mar 2021 #2
And OldBaldy1701E Mar 2021 #3
I know we have all agreed to interact like we're a "civilized" society..... jaxexpat Mar 2021 #4
Well OldBaldy1701E Mar 2021 #8
Well, as he was a partner, he had a mercenary interest. no_hypocrisy Mar 2021 #11
There are plenty of women who would take care of that themselves, though probably not with violence. Pongo Mar 2021 #29
I experienced something that was inappropriate when I was a young and working in a lofty Baitball Blogger Mar 2021 #5
This is what happened to me onlyadream Mar 2021 #6
You should have re-enforced his opinion with a three foot chair. OldBaldy1701E Mar 2021 #9
Ugh ... Silver1 Mar 2021 #16
This was decades ago, I hope things have changed since then. onlyadream Mar 2021 #26
when I was 20 I walked into a packed room for a meeting Skittles Mar 2021 #27
I wish I could have though quicker on my feet onlyadream Mar 2021 #28
if a guy tries to humiliate me, I return the favor Skittles Mar 2021 #30
Thirty years too late *sigh* onlyadream Mar 2021 #31
I would have found it impossible not to exact some form of revenge. Paladin Mar 2021 #7
Had to move on from my dream job AKwannabe Mar 2021 #10
And you did what any other person who values themselves would do, you did the right thing Escurumbele Mar 2021 #12
I had a similar experience with a surgeon, but he did it in front of the office staff. flying_wahini Mar 2021 #13
My God. I am so sorry. padah513 Mar 2021 #14
More than 40 years later and it still bothers me... macwriter Mar 2021 #15
Quite an experience. What a douchebag. Congratulations on a successful life and career. Fla Dem Mar 2021 #17
That's quite a story. Silver1 Mar 2021 #18
Zero Tolerance Starts with Us Mary in S. Carolina Mar 2021 #19
The bulk of my career (all 12 years of it) was spent in a totally male-dominated endeavour. BobTheSubgenius Mar 2021 #20
Good point Victor_c3 Mar 2021 #24
I quit a pizza delivery job the day my boss threw a tantrum. Archae Mar 2021 #21
A co-worker once threatened to "slug" me. I held my face right up to him and said, "Go for it." lindysalsagal Mar 2021 #22
What type of person physically assaults someone out of anger? Victor_c3 Mar 2021 #23
Had a similar experience and I'm a guy. mitch96 Mar 2021 #25
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