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8. My mother got pregnant with me as an unmarried, professional woman.

Reply to hamsterjill (Original post)

Sat Sep 26, 2020, 12:21 PM

Sep 2020

When she went to see her ob/gyn to confirm the pregnancy, he offered to help her get an abortion.

He could arrange to fly her to Japan, where abortion has always been legal, and not a religious issue, for a "vacation."
(This was in Seattle, which has always had strong ties to Japan).

However, my mother was a bible-thumping, holy-roller and was deeply offended by the offer.'

I'm sure the gentleman doctor in question has long since passed, but I think of him kindly, for being there for women.

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