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safeinOhio

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21. I really try to be extra nice

Reply to kozar (Original post)

Sun Aug 16, 2020, 07:24 PM

Aug 2020

to those I disagree with. Seems to change more minds than arguing with them.

Good job.

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So, I am middle of Trump Country [View all] kozar Aug 2020 OP

Wow. Just wow. Ohiogal Aug 2020 #1

Ditto. nt iluvtennis Aug 2020 #16

Just goes to show LilBit's kozar Aug 2020 #22

What's that saying about flies and sugar? Roland99 Aug 2020 #2

Zacly elleng Aug 2020 #3

it says kozar Aug 2020 #9

I believe the correct saying is this... chwaliszewski Aug 2020 #24

👍🏼 blm Aug 2020 #4

K&R smirkymonkey Aug 2020 #5

My guess is... Binkie The Clown Aug 2020 #6

Exactly. LiberalArkie Aug 2020 #13

oh yes this, kozar Aug 2020 #20

He used the N word in front of you? DemocratSinceBirth Aug 2020 #7

yeah,,it was bold, kozar Aug 2020 #10

I have heard more than my share of casual racism and anti-semitism. DemocratSinceBirth Aug 2020 #11

it cuts, because, kozar Aug 2020 #23

Well done, brother. Well done! k&r n/t Laelth Aug 2020 #8

You go, K!!!!! SheltieLover Aug 2020 #12

please everyone,,,, kozar Aug 2020 #14

I guess I'm not part of your "Us" AllTooEasy Aug 2020 #26

So why? kozar Aug 2020 #31

I am also from Arizona ChazII Aug 2020 #60

so,,guess I'm caught up now, kozar Aug 2020 #69

You are my hero, Kozar. No Vested Interest Aug 2020 #15

omg,,I.m nothing! Just a Dad. kozar Aug 2020 #18

You're a hero!!!!❤ Karadeniz Aug 2020 #17

i HAVE SO MUCH RESPECT FOR YOU RIGHT NOW! Native Aug 2020 #19

I really try to be extra nice safeinOhio Aug 2020 #21

Yep. Kill them with kindness, and communicate. Midnight Writer Aug 2020 #53

Thank you gademocrat7 Aug 2020 #25

So... he was only saying what he thought was expected of him ecstatic Aug 2020 #27

Well, I got LilBit kozar Aug 2020 #67

Wow! Congratulations. You changed his mind through kindness and persistence. yardwork Aug 2020 #28

Good job, Koz. I would have reacted the same way about cussin' in front of kids. KY_EnviroGuy Aug 2020 #29

Thank you. They are in the alternate reality of faux TV and 45 land. Good work. And it is work. Evolve Dammit Aug 2020 #30

Remarkable story in so many ways. Wish I moonscape Aug 2020 #32

Oddly I see a "Stand against Kamala Harris" ad on the center of this OP. oldsoftie Aug 2020 #33

well I surely didn't post it,,ty you for your useless input..Koz,,nt kozar Aug 2020 #34

Of course you didnt post it. Just thought DU might want to check that kind of thing. oldsoftie Aug 2020 #35

I am so, kozar Aug 2020 #37

All you have to do (and you know this already) is donate a few bucks & ads will go poof! Hekate Aug 2020 #39

Actually, i didnt! But thank you. It has been a little while. oldsoftie Aug 2020 #40

The ads disappear when you contribute to the site n/t malaise Aug 2020 #45

Thank you; I didnt know that. Explains it. oldsoftie Aug 2020 #47

There are a lot of puke ads on DU. It amuses me to think that they are actually paying to niyad Aug 2020 #56

what a wonderful post!!! CatWoman Aug 2020 #36

I'm compelled to share this lambchopp59 Aug 2020 #38

Thank you for sharing your story. lucca18 Aug 2020 #48

ty kozar Aug 2020 #68

How is LilBit doing now, koz? She looked so tiny in that hospital bed I wondered how old she is... Hekate Aug 2020 #41

OMG this question,, kozar Aug 2020 #46

So Your Neighbor is an ALT-RIGHT WeakWhyte Racist StocktonNative Aug 2020 #42

This message was self-deleted by its author StocktonNative Aug 2020 #43

What a lovely post malaise Aug 2020 #44

You are a kind and gentle soul. herding cats Aug 2020 #49

Somebody used the n-word in your presence and you didn't walk out of the room and greenjar_01 Aug 2020 #50

why wouldn't I stay and listen? kozar Aug 2020 #52

There is hope Joinfortmill Aug 2020 #51

You are to be commended for coping with that racism and nonsense of his... steve2470 Aug 2020 #54

Proving, once again DFW Aug 2020 #55

Well done! You pressed exactly the right button! lagomorph777 Aug 2020 #57

I love your story. You are far more kind and patient than I am. NoRoadUntravelled Aug 2020 #58

Thank you, just thank you n/t Tom Rinaldo Aug 2020 #59

Wow! Thank you for listening to him & talking to him, & for sharing your story! CaptainTruth Aug 2020 #61

I'm past that point. Fuck'em all. Faygo Kid Aug 2020 #62

Well done! StarryNite Aug 2020 #63

Well done! wryter2000 Aug 2020 #64

Nice job. BootinUp Aug 2020 #65

And another soul is SAVED! calimary Aug 2020 #66

I see what you did kozar Aug 2020 #70