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In reply to the discussion: Because I'm not stupid. [View all]

mnhtnbb

(31,383 posts)
33. For an interesting discussion of
Tue Aug 27, 2019, 09:57 AM
Aug 2019

calling people stupid

https://www.everydaysociologyblog.com/2016/10/the-sociology-of-calling-other-people-stupid.html

To answer "Because I'm not stupid" is to imply that the person asking the question is. If speaking to someone with a quick wit--and don't believe there aren't quick-witted Republicans--the comeback could be "You may not be stupid but you certainly are rude."

Then where are you? What have you gained? If all one cares about is engaging in a dick measuring contest by insulting the other person, then fine. Mission accomplished.

It all depends upon the group, the situation, the person asking the question. If one desires not to have a conversation, or provide a positive response explaining what it means to be a Democrat, then great. Answering "Because I'm not stupid" will finish the conversation. IF, though, one wants to leave the other person with something to think about, then provide a positive answer. OR, alternatively, turn the question around. Give a positive response and then ask the individual why he (she) is a Republican.

I do agree that with some people, there is no point to having a discussion. It's easy to sidestep the question. "It's a party, let's not talk politics." Tell me about...your vacation, your summer, your kid...

Because I'm not stupid. [View all] Goodheart Aug 2019 OP
You are nicer than I am. BigmanPigman Aug 2019 #1
Please try engaging in informed and polite dialog, elleng Aug 2019 #2
Doesn't help. Sorry. Goodheart Aug 2019 #3
Nope. It doesn't help. lunatica Aug 2019 #4
To what end? tia uponit7771 Aug 2019 #5
CHANGING MINDS, SAVING THE WORLD. elleng Aug 2019 #6
Unless there was something pithy and sharp there was going to change no minds in that setting ... uponit7771 Aug 2019 #8
In order for someone ro change his or her mind, soldierant Aug 2019 #55
Never works... In It to Win It Aug 2019 #7
Glad to hear that you try. elleng Aug 2019 #10
Ellen, love you, but let me talk about psych for a bit sharedvalues Aug 2019 #12
Thanks, sharedvalues. elleng Aug 2019 #13
:) sharedvalues Aug 2019 #15
Indeed it does! Teaching my grandkids now! elleng Aug 2019 #16
Great post. Goodheart Aug 2019 #18
It seems to me that the only time Ds get the attention of the Rs in Congress or public is when Ds in2herbs Aug 2019 #36
Great response. nt Ferrets are Cool Aug 2019 #41
It could all be in the way that line is delivered. calimary Aug 2019 #17
Right. See what sharedvalues said @ #12. elleng Aug 2019 #19
I respectively disagree rufus dog Aug 2019 #22
Kindness and nurturing is seen as weakness bigbrother05 Aug 2019 #34
Will not work on Trump supporters BlueJac Aug 2019 #38
Nope. Ferrets are Cool Aug 2019 #40
Agree. cwydro Aug 2019 #50
Thanks, cwydro. elleng Aug 2019 #51
Such as? I can tell them everything they rely on in life to survive is because of a Eliot Rosewater Aug 2019 #52
Yes. More reasons sharedvalues Aug 2019 #9
Nice. safeinOhio Aug 2019 #11
Exactly! dchill Aug 2019 #14
I've got the coffee mug that goes with your sweatshirt FakeNoose Aug 2019 #29
where can I get one? Hermit-The-Prog Aug 2019 #30
Sorry I don't know :-) FakeNoose Aug 2019 #39
fake mugging! Hermit-The-Prog Aug 2019 #44
I don't know for sure, soldierant Aug 2019 #56
thanks! Hermit-The-Prog Aug 2019 #57
yvw /nt soldierant Aug 2019 #58
Perfectomundo!!!!! TruckFump Aug 2019 #43
Eliminate the blue text. Ligyron Aug 2019 #45
+1 This would make great OP! diva77 Aug 2019 #31
You could use a positive reason. mnhtnbb Aug 2019 #20
Um, not only no, but hell no! rufus dog Aug 2019 #25
They're not critical thinkers, they're slogan lovers. Goodheart Aug 2019 #32
For an interesting discussion of mnhtnbb Aug 2019 #33
See above. You're using a response for a Democrat on a Republican sharedvalues Aug 2019 #54
What was the reaction/follow up dialogue? robbob Aug 2019 #21
"I thought you were my friend." Goodheart Aug 2019 #23
Oh boo hoo! robbob Aug 2019 #24
Which proves you did the right thing rufus dog Aug 2019 #26
I bet they are all still talking about you and your temerity at that party. PatrickforO Aug 2019 #27
Uppitiness nt Xipe Totec Aug 2019 #28
Also you do not support a racist incompetent purposefully cruel president. . . . nt Bernardo de La Paz Aug 2019 #35
I use "...like most people." JohnnyRingo Aug 2019 #37
Because I'm not a racist... TruckFump Aug 2019 #42
I listened to True Blue American Aug 2019 #47
1000+ True Blue American Aug 2019 #48
You did the right thing. Ligyron Aug 2019 #46
100% Proud Democrat. Not a follower, a leader. ffr Aug 2019 #49
My answer is because I'm not Russian. kairos12 Aug 2019 #53
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