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Tumbulu

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141. Why do men currently bear no responsibility? Think about that?

Sun May 12, 2019, 12:17 PM

May 2019

And if you force women to produce a baby every time she is impregnated, then either the forced father or the government needs to step up and pay for the consequences.

I think the point of all this is to bring up the fact that once abortion becomes illegal again, and women are forced to give birth, then what?

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Mormon Mom of 6 Details the Reasons *Men* are Most Responsible for Unwanted Pregnancies [View all] CousinIT May 2019 OP

Uh that's unhinged Loki Liesmith May 2019 #1

No its not. It's the truth. gtar100 May 2019 #3

No it's load of crap . Her body her choice if she pregnant it's because chose to let a man into Fullduplexxx May 2019 #43

Julius Caesar intentionally knocked up the maiden Cleopatra erlewyne May 2019 #59

in rome if a man did not lift the child and say "behold my child" rampartc May 2019 #152

Yes, that is an ancient Roman spin. erlewyne May 2019 #157

She chose to let him in? In my experience, men are damn pushy about it and stronger than women. Shrike47 May 2019 #67

Well if you never enjoyed sex or never instigated it I can see how you would agree with this OP. I wasupaloopa May 2019 #124

I think you need to read the article a little more carefully. gtar100 May 2019 #81

I think you disrespect women. To you they are not even involved in the discussion. It is you and wasupaloopa May 2019 #125

Did you not bother to read the part about PoindexterOglethorpe May 2019 #108

Uh, it is a load of crap blue-wave May 2019 #99

This is not Misandry. gtar100 May 2019 #100

well said n/t orleans May 2019 #112

Yes PatSeg May 2019 #131

Perhaps a Little Cheese with that Whine... dlk May 2019 #102

Misandry is a steaming load of crap. I'm the fortunate child of fierce Wild West matriarchy. hunter May 2019 #178

well the part that men bear equal responsibility is truth qazplm135 May 2019 #105

EXACTLY!!!! SkyDaddy7 May 2019 #115

Let's be clear qazplm135 May 2019 #128

No handmade34 May 2019 #8

Not a bit surprised this is the very first response kcr May 2019 #12

Posted 4 minutes after OP Cirque du So-What May 2019 #32

Bingo! JHB May 2019 #64

+1 2naSalit May 2019 #127

It is the absolute truth! pazzyanne May 2019 #13

How so? Cal Carpenter May 2019 #14

LOL Kali May 2019 #19

Not at all "unhinged". liberalmuse May 2019 #24

This is typical from this poster. smirkymonkey May 2019 #48

Looking at the history of posts and when joined relayerbob May 2019 #51

I don't agree with that poster, but it isn't cool to call another DUer a troll. cwydro May 2019 #164

In what way? mcar May 2019 #25

It's not even close to unhinged. It's the truth. amywalk May 2019 #29

That is 100% factual. onecaliberal May 2019 #72

SHOCKED this is the first comment obamanut2012 May 2019 #76

Child Strelnikov_ May 2019 #109

She uses a logically based argument to support her comments yourmovemonkey May 2019 #130

No, it is not, dream on if you think men will walk free if women are forced to give birth against Tumbulu May 2019 #166

Wow. tanyev May 2019 #2

And from a Mormon woman who is thinking with her head..... ProudMNDemocrat May 2019 #4

You Tell 'Em, Gabrielle! MineralMan May 2019 #5

Thank you. The World needs more guys like you! n/t CousinIT May 2019 #6

How we raise our boys PatSeg May 2019 #136

This is impressive and I hope one day Stargleamer May 2019 #7

Perhaps Joseph Smith and his teachings are the reason pazzyanne May 2019 #15

More than likely not FreeState May 2019 #110

Thanks for the information, FreeState! pazzyanne May 2019 #111

Also Eradicate the Forced Birth - Women are Utensils Culture. n/t MarcA May 2019 #9

I think the term is "vessels", not "utensils." And you're right. n/t Beartracks May 2019 #156

Love this! KT2000 May 2019 #10

Wow. shanny May 2019 #11

Great Post. delisen May 2019 #16

PREACH IT, SISTER!! Dayum, that is RIGHTEOUS TRUE!! n/t TygrBright May 2019 #17

Great post malaise May 2019 #18

Love this. K&R n/t ms liberty May 2019 #20

You go Girl! Wellstone ruled May 2019 #21

Profit shanti May 2019 #46

You caught that. Wellstone ruled May 2019 #55

Why any woman would go along with that is beyond me. flying_wahini May 2019 #60

There are more of these Wellstone ruled May 2019 #62

As long as they are old enough to marry keithbvadu2 May 2019 #101

Was dude a polygamist? shanti May 2019 #89

His Grand father was a Plig. Wellstone ruled May 2019 #92

The judge actually said he didn't have to pay child support? StevieM May 2019 #133

Yes sir re. Wellstone ruled May 2019 #147

A big, fat K&R! CaliforniaPeggy May 2019 #22

K and R Mosby May 2019 #23

This needs to be spread far and wide! mcar May 2019 #26

I have always known anti-women activists don't care about abortions - they want CONTROL Moostache May 2019 #27

You're a great dad! CousinIT May 2019 #34

Thank YOU! smirkymonkey May 2019 #50

BRILLIANT! NotHardly May 2019 #58

If we men think enough of a woman to want to have sex justhanginon May 2019 #28

Truth relayerbob May 2019 #30

She's absolutely right. K&R. nt ginnyinWI May 2019 #31

Absolutely brilliant! BarbD May 2019 #33

She is 100% correct bluescribbler May 2019 #35

Rarely do I read posts this long leftieNanner May 2019 #36

"A man should have a say." Mariana May 2019 #75

Exactly! leftieNanner May 2019 #79

ACCOUNTABILITY. Guilded Lilly May 2019 #37

aaaamen! samnsara May 2019 #38

Brutally honest. krispos42 May 2019 #39

K&R! Control-Z May 2019 #40

Wow. Say it, sister! Silver Gaia May 2019 #41

Brilliant! Tech May 2019 #42

I second the above comment Ohiogal May 2019 #44

Fantastic!! Highly recommend!! bobbieinok May 2019 #45

This should be spread far and wide! shanti May 2019 #47

Well thought out & makes perfect sense. nt yaesu May 2019 #49

I love this woman's ideas! fierywoman May 2019 #52

There are women who hate condoms or have allergic reactions IronLionZion May 2019 #53

I wish they would make them affordable. Quackers May 2019 #70

That's insane! Ohiogal May 2019 #77

It's considered an elective procedure and not medically necessary. Quackers May 2019 #78

$20 says they cover Viagra though. meadowlander May 2019 #96

That not only is insane, PatSeg May 2019 #139

Have you checked your local planned parenthood? IronLionZion May 2019 #85

Oh, wow. trev May 2019 #86

Mil hospital did mine too. keithbvadu2 May 2019 #104

All of the reasons why my dad told me I was responsible Lithos May 2019 #54

Thank you homegirl May 2019 #56

Fantastic! Leith May 2019 #57

This needs to be read on the floor of Congress. forgotmylogin May 2019 #61

So if two people have heterosexual sex only the man is responsible if there is a pregnancy? wasupaloopa May 2019 #68

He needs to pay for the pain and suffering and risk of life this his Tumbulu May 2019 #80

"Bullshit on this old line that getting pregnant is somehow the woman's fault." Doodley May 2019 #83

If she wanted and had six kids, her choice. haele May 2019 #93

No, I'm saying the man should pay for the pain and suffering and risk of life that he caused Tumbulu May 2019 #137

So having sex should be a financial arrangement? Doodley May 2019 #163

If the man causes an unwanted pregnancy Tumbulu May 2019 #165

So, a pre-sex financial agreement, that states that if the Doodley May 2019 #167

No, it it common law that anyone causing someone bodily harm Tumbulu May 2019 #179

sorry that is so much bull shit. Two people have sex two people are responsible. wasupaloopa May 2019 #119

But the woman is the only one being forced to go through a pregnancy Tumbulu May 2019 #138

I don't believe you got the point of the essay. forgotmylogin May 2019 #94

Why do I have to get the point of the essay? I don't think it is valid. wasupaloopa May 2019 #120

You said "two people have sex two people are responsible" forgotmylogin May 2019 #132

Yes, yes and yes! nt Heartstrings May 2019 #63

Thank you for sharing this subject matter from your perspectives.... magicarpet May 2019 #65

I fully expect to get flamed, but this is why a lot of people have negative perceptions of feminism. tarheelsunc May 2019 #66

Exactly, and you shouldn't get flamed for stating basic facts. Doodley May 2019 #84

The most basic fact is that men don't get pregnant. hunter May 2019 #172

Are you saying a woman isn't ever responsible for agreeing to let a man's penis enter her? Doodley May 2019 #173

Congratulations on missing the point entirely. hunter May 2019 #174

You wrote: "The both sides argument is bullshit," implying the woman isn't Doodley May 2019 #175

Biological fact: Men don't get pregnant. hunter May 2019 #176

Couldn't Agree More RobinA May 2019 #116

"Ever heard of pre-ejaculate?" bloom May 2019 #126

If they remove the right to remedy an unwanted pregnacy Tumbulu May 2019 #140

Not sure what planet you're from, but on Earth, ONLY women are held 100% responsible CousinIT May 2019 #144

Excellent post! LuvNewcastle May 2019 #69

Reads like an over-generalization of men. Doodley May 2019 #82

Her best point is that unwanted pregnancies should cost men dearly, and I'm not talking money. Shrike47 May 2019 #71

Oh, I see. GaYellowDawg May 2019 #103

The first idea is bull shit then they top it off with castration. It is a sick combination. wasupaloopa May 2019 #122

It sounds like you need to stay away from sex yourself Tumbulu May 2019 #142

Plus a gazillion! love_katz May 2019 #151

Did I say that? Men and women are responsible wasupaloopa May 2019 #154

Yes, but only the women will be forced to produce a baby unpaid and unsupported. Tumbulu May 2019 #158

I do not support what you've said. GaYellowDawg May 2019 #160

Great column! burrowowl May 2019 #73

It's so ridiculously simple! procon May 2019 #74

Unwanted pregnancies are caused by men and their irresponsible ejaculation. We need to keep saying UniteFightBack May 2019 #87

Unless it is rape that idea is bull shit! Women want sex too. It takes both sperm and egg for a wasupaloopa May 2019 #121

+1 n/t CousinIT May 2019 #145

I just hope that in my lifetime this will be read on the house flooor and bonniebgood May 2019 #88

Great post! cp May 2019 #90

Cynic says... moondust May 2019 #91

K & R, Tweeted, & FB Like. N/T Lady Freedom Returns May 2019 #95

K & R & Retweeted & Bookmarked! SunSeeker May 2019 #97

Men take responsibility, vasectomy. SMoss May 2019 #98

Years ago, PatSeg May 2019 #143

Great post k&r lordsummerisle May 2019 #106

If men could get pregnant keithbvadu2 May 2019 #107

thank you for posting this orleans May 2019 #113

Excellent post. Thanks for the detailed unrolled thread. iluvtennis May 2019 #114

How can this get into a mainstream media angstlessk May 2019 #117

The poster who calls this "unhinged" BlueMTexpat May 2019 #118

If you are a woman who thinks this way, why not just masturbate if you get horny? Why would you wasupaloopa May 2019 #123

Why do men currently bear no responsibility? Think about that? Tumbulu May 2019 #141

Who in the hell said men don't bare any responsibility? wasupaloopa May 2019 #155

What planet are you living on? Tumbulu May 2019 #159

If only there was something that could be done..... the_sly_pig May 2019 #129

Women can stop having sex with men, and elect more women to public office & more women can run. CousinIT May 2019 #146

Exactly, CousinIt. love_katz May 2019 #153

Exactly. the_sly_pig May 2019 #162

That's alot of words fescuerescue May 2019 #134

She's factually wrong about at least one thing fescuerescue May 2019 #135

You are right. She doesn't even understand the basics. Doodley May 2019 #169

Men cause pregnancies bigbadR May 2019 #148

+1 n/t CousinIT May 2019 #150

Do you assume that "every heterosexual woman, married or not" would be happy without Doodley May 2019 #168

How does this work exactly? cwydro May 2019 #170

Huge kick and rec. love_katz May 2019 #149

Thank you so much for this amazing piece! scarletwoman May 2019 #161

"Their own goddamned junk" Rather an offensive description. Can the OP at least appear to show Doodley May 2019 #171

lol Alea May 2019 #177

Bookmarked. PatrickforO May 2019 #180