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48. Touching someone you don't know is VERY CREEPY
Sun Aug 26, 2012, 09:33 PM
Aug 2012

(and the general "you" - I'm not accusing the specific "you" of doing such a rude thing )

Whether the stranger has simple theft in mind or actual assault - no way of knowing. You don't know me, you do not fucking touch me.

It truly creeped me out Aerows Aug 2012 #1
Visibly flinching might have discouraged him, who knows. Quantess Aug 2012 #2
I was completely appalled Aerows Aug 2012 #3
I wonder... could it be that you look young? Quantess Aug 2012 #6
I'm petite, feminine and blond Aerows Aug 2012 #9
I would really offended, too. Quantess Aug 2012 #11
Well, I did feel creeped out Aerows Aug 2012 #17
It's time you learn to say Get the fuck away from me. Forcefully. elehhhhna Aug 2012 #93
That, is really really creepy! n/t RKP5637 Aug 2012 #4
It was creepy as hell Aerows Aug 2012 #37
Be careful when you go back, this guy might be lurking around that RKP5637 Aug 2012 #38
Strictly speaking, Brigid Aug 2012 #5
I hadn't thought of that Aerows Aug 2012 #7
Yes, that is assault. Touching a person without their consent. Zoeisright Aug 2012 #23
It was where he touched, too Aerows Aug 2012 #28
It is assault and battery and unwanted sexual contact here obamanut2012 Aug 2012 #49
What makes you sure he was right wing? Egalitariat Aug 2012 #8
Nothing Aerows Aug 2012 #10
What happened to you used to be very common when I was a young woman lunatica Aug 2012 #21
Thank you for this Aerows Aug 2012 #30
I read this again, and got mad Aerows Aug 2012 #89
Wow! lunatica Aug 2012 #94
As soon as he touched you, you should have dialed 911. Scuba Aug 2012 #12
I consider telling her what she SHOULD have done... BanzaiBonnie Aug 2012 #60
Good comment. Perhaps I might have written "could have called 911". Scuba Aug 2012 #73
This message was self-deleted by its author seabeyond Aug 2012 #13
I was so tired this morning Aerows Aug 2012 #14
i know. and as i said, i am sorry that a creep felt he had the right to touch you. seabeyond Aug 2012 #16
I wasn't prepared to kick ass this morning Aerows Aug 2012 #19
i will self delete. i thought we knew each other well enough, that you would see it was not seabeyond Aug 2012 #20
Don't Aerows Aug 2012 #22
to late.... seabeyond Aug 2012 #24
I never lack patience Aerows Aug 2012 #25
It didn't really bother me Aerows Aug 2012 #31
lol. true that. no, the other poster doesnt give a shit, was just seabeyond Aug 2012 #33
Out of line seabeyond. nt msanthrope Aug 2012 #18
Do they sell hot pepper spray at Mal-Wart? xfundy Aug 2012 #15
That's disgusting, disconcerting, and creepy as hell. Butterbean Aug 2012 #26
where do they get the idea they can do it? YOU LET HIM DO IT! Skittles Aug 2012 #27
I'm not a married female Aerows Aug 2012 #36
? what does your marital status have to do with anything??? Skittles Aug 2012 #43
I am so sorry to see that people think it is ok to scold you... Kalidurga Aug 2012 #58
I am too Aerows Aug 2012 #59
The next time this happens hootinholler Aug 2012 #29
I live in the South Aerows Aug 2012 #35
I know where you live hootinholler Aug 2012 #41
I wish you would have been there, then, hoot Aerows Aug 2012 #69
And you DIDN'T SLAP HIM because?! WinkyDink Aug 2012 #32
I didn't want to get arrested Aerows Aug 2012 #34
You'd get arrested for slapping a man who groped you? Chorophyll Aug 2012 #40
He would have been arrested, not you obamanut2012 Aug 2012 #50
That's not weird. That's damn near assault. Chorophyll Aug 2012 #39
You think he could have Shankapotomus Aug 2012 #42
This message was self-deleted by its author Bonobo Aug 2012 #44
It is a little weird but I think you're overreacting. cbdo2007 Aug 2012 #45
Touching someone you don't know is VERY CREEPY REP Aug 2012 #48
Unwanted contact is assault and battery obamanut2012 Aug 2012 #51
Touching strangers of either gender is rude and creepy, and men touching women REP Aug 2012 #63
I have to disagree Shankapotomus Aug 2012 #54
you would be wrong. that simple. nt seabeyond Aug 2012 #55
Touching my neck as a stranger Aerows Aug 2012 #62
"Adjusting your collar" isn't fucking acceptable anywhere either REP Aug 2012 #65
Thank you! Aerows Aug 2012 #68
How would you feel if a man touched your neck Aerows Aug 2012 #66
Just as I said, I would think it was weird for a few minutes and then I would go about my day. cbdo2007 Aug 2012 #75
He did, in fact lingeringly touch my neck Aerows Aug 2012 #90
That's completely different than the impression you initially gave us.... cbdo2007 Aug 2012 #97
Seriously? gollygee Aug 2012 #95
That is extraordinarily creepy. MadrasT Aug 2012 #46
That's where I was Aerows Aug 2012 #70
Stuff like that triggers an immediate physical reaction from me REP Aug 2012 #47
Seriously, if anything like that happens again, please do not hold back,,,, react. KarenS Aug 2012 #52
"Color" or "Collar?" derby378 Aug 2012 #53
finally somebody points that out hfojvt Aug 2012 #81
That SOB deserved a giant SLAP! Odin2005 Aug 2012 #56
He did Aerows Aug 2012 #91
I'm sorry this happened to you. It bums me out though that people are on your ass about it. cherokeeprogressive Aug 2012 #57
I froze today Aerows Aug 2012 #72
+1 nt steve2470 Aug 2012 #78
You need to learn to block. With lightning reflexes. eShirl Aug 2012 #61
He got the idea that he could do that because you didn't elbow him in the face. LeftyMom Aug 2012 #64
Once you say "stop doing that" it becomes harassment. lumberjack_jeff Aug 2012 #67
I'm a stranger Aerows Aug 2012 #71
Do you honestly believe that? ismnotwasm Aug 2012 #83
Wow that was creepy Trailrider1951 Aug 2012 #74
This will probably give you PTSD. deaniac21 Aug 2012 #76
That reminds me of the incident between Bush and Merkel Xyzse Aug 2012 #77
I'm from the South too and I completely sympathize. redqueen Aug 2012 #79
Thanks for this Aerows Aug 2012 #86
Ew ismnotwasm Aug 2012 #80
Maybe he just wanted to grab your necklace. Was it gold? n/t RebelOne Aug 2012 #82
LOL, nice silver Aerows Aug 2012 #87
Sounds like the guy has mental problems Liber T. Anjustis Aug 2012 #84
And if I have a touch of Asperger's Syndrome Aerows Aug 2012 #88
It has nothing to do with where you shop. SheilaT Aug 2012 #85
It scared me Aerows Aug 2012 #92
Start yelling and making a scene marions ghost Aug 2012 #96
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