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DFW

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17. He is exactly right. We have the same issue in Germany.
Tue Apr 16, 2019, 08:18 AM
Apr 2019

Several Americans come over to Europe wanting to live, thinking "well, everybody knows English there." First of all, no, not everyone does. Sure, many do, especially if they interact with tourists for any reason. But many don't, and it is considered extremely arrogant when American (or any other, for that matter) tourists show up somewhere and automatically start speaking English without even asking if the person understands them.

By the same token, I have seen Russians applying for residence permits in Germany speaking nothing but Russian, bringing a relative to translate for them. Whatever these people are thinking, they are wrong. You can no more integrate into Düsseldorf society speaking only English or Russian than you can integrate into Dallas society speaking only German or Russian. If you are going to move to another country and expect to stay there, you MUST learn the local language. Period.

It doesn't mean you have to suppress your own language or culture. I always banter with shop owners in my town with my minimal Turkish or Kurdish, but most of our conversation is in German. We're in Germany, and it is our common language.

Love Obama, but too many who say that, mean it as hatred and a way to Hoyt Apr 2019 #1
Many want to learn, and attend ESL classes. It just makes life easier in most situations The Velveteen Ocelot Apr 2019 #2
Exactly. Hoyt Apr 2019 #3
And those who don't learn enough? Igel Apr 2019 #15
Exactly loyalsister Apr 2019 #7
That's the thing, those who want to hate are like water; they'll always find the bottom uponit7771 Apr 2019 #14
I agree with him. Doreen Apr 2019 #4
Uh no... uriel1972 Apr 2019 #10
OK, thanks for letting me know. Doreen Apr 2019 #12
If you go to China NewJeffCT Apr 2019 #18
I do too, since he said 'ask' not 'require' Amishman Apr 2019 #19
Teachers in CA were required to have ESL training to get a job BigmanPigman Apr 2019 #5
If the children don't speak English, the grandchildren will. hunter Apr 2019 #6
That's how I look at it. Newly arrived adults want to live with others of their culture if they can Hekate Apr 2019 #13
I should think that immigrants would be very motivated to learn the language of their new country. PoindexterOglethorpe Apr 2019 #8
How about Republican Presidents ? W Bush and Trump ???? JI7 Apr 2019 #9
No, but it's racist to "be offended" by someone speaking another language in your presence meadowlander Apr 2019 #11
If I moved to a country with a language I didn't understand I would be eager to learn it. Vinca Apr 2019 #16
He is exactly right. We have the same issue in Germany. DFW Apr 2019 #17
"language of the country" WTF is that? aikoaiko Apr 2019 #20
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