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loyalsister

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19. Maybe give some thought to our previous interpretations as Monica Lewinsky has
Wed Oct 17, 2018, 03:46 PM
Oct 2018

According to her own words:

Until recently (thank you, Harvey Weinstein), historians hadn’t really had the perspective to fully process and acknowledge that year of shame and spectacle. And as a culture, we still haven’t properly examined it
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For two dec­ades, I have been working on myself, my trauma, and my healing. And, naturally, I have grappled with the rest of the world’s interpretations and Bill Clinton’s re-interpretations of what happened. But in truth, I have done this at arm’s length. There have been so many barriers to this place of self-reckoning. Clinton’s re-interpretations of what happened. But in truth, I have done this at arm’s length. There have been so many barriers to this place of self-reckoning.

The reason this is difficult is that I’ve lived for such a long time in the House of Gaslight, clinging to my experiences as they unfolded in my 20s and railing against the untruths that painted me as an unstable stalker and Servicer in Chief. An inability to deviate from the internal script of what I actually experienced left little room for re-evaluation; I cleaved to what I “knew.” So often have I struggled with my own sense of agency versus victimhood. (In 1998, we were living in times in which women’s sexuality was a marker of their agency—“owning desire.” And yet, I felt that if I saw myself as in any way a victim, it would open the door to choruses of: “See, you did merely service him.”


https://www.vanityfair.com/news/2018/02/monica-lewinsky-in-the-age-of-metoo
Nail, meet hammer. Well said. nt Atticus Oct 2018 #1
I've noticed people who were not following the Monica mess in the 90s or those badhair77 Oct 2018 #2
I followed it carefully loyalsister Oct 2018 #7
But if you actually look into Broaddrick and Willey's claims there are some serious flaws with both Tommy_Carcetti Oct 2018 #8
Remarkable loyalsister Oct 2018 #9
Where did I ever attack Broaddrick on the grounds she didn't come forward sooner? Tommy_Carcetti Oct 2018 #10
"Serious flaws in her story" loyalsister Oct 2018 #18
People do these types of cases a great disservice by lumping them all together. Tommy_Carcetti Oct 2018 #23
I'm talking about the responding MO. loyalsister Oct 2018 #31
You are way over-generalizing this Charlotte Little Oct 2018 #34
Women feeling more comfortable coming forward, (not just women either) is good.. JHan Oct 2018 #11
"Agency" loyalsister Oct 2018 #16
You're conflating the aftermath of the affair with the affair itself.. JHan Oct 2018 #17
Maybe give some thought to our previous interpretations as Monica Lewinsky has loyalsister Oct 2018 #19
I raised the difference in her recollections.. JHan Oct 2018 #21
Did you read the piece I posted? loyalsister Oct 2018 #28
I read that piece several times when it first came out. JHan Oct 2018 #30
We all review our histories loyalsister Oct 2018 #35
Yes, understanding evolves over time. I never disputed that. JHan Oct 2018 #38
I've read the piece you posted. lapucelle Oct 2018 #33
Same subject comes up at the end of EVERY damn election cycle since 2000. blm Oct 2018 #3
+1 oasis Oct 2018 #37
I'm bewildered by this because .. JHan Oct 2018 #4
I'm wondering that, too NewJeffCT Oct 2018 #5
Little remembered fact about Broaddrick. In 1999, she sued the White House and DOJ. Tommy_Carcetti Oct 2018 #6
Seems like that's the most tangible difference; Ford wanted FBI investigation Brodrick recanted ... uponit7771 Oct 2018 #15
I believe Juanita --- Under Oath Juanita, that is Adenoid_Hynkel Oct 2018 #12
Bill Clinton was most assuredly a horndog FakeNoose Oct 2018 #20
I think it's plausible something happened with Paula Jones but I don't think it was non-consensual. Tommy_Carcetti Oct 2018 #24
Even if Clinton actually raped her, we're still allowed to be disgusted with her hypocrisy. BlueStater Oct 2018 #13
K&R Scurrilous Oct 2018 #14
They ought to start impeachment proceedings Blue_Tires Oct 2018 #22
Even Ken Starr had to discard her after intense Hortensis Oct 2018 #25
Her twitter feed is disgusting. JHan Oct 2018 #26
Yes. Even disgusting, bad people can be raped, and Hortensis Oct 2018 #29
It's interesting how this story seems to pop up at opportune moments Docreed2003 Oct 2018 #27
If you slept with Bill willingly, you are not a victim. IluvPitties Oct 2018 #32
Hold her to the GOP standard: show us the evidence. Vinca Oct 2018 #36
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