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leftyladyfrommo

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48. It would gave helped if he was smarter.

Sat Jul 28, 2018, 06:11 AM

Jul 2018

With the children of male narcissists the daughter is the Golden Child. With mothers the sons are the Golden Children. Narcissists pretty much destroy their children.

First the child has to figure out something is really wrong with the emotional abuse they deal with constantly. Then they have to learn to set boundaries. Then they have to separate themselves from the situation and learn how to have healthy relationships.

It is a hard haul. Narcissists project everything they hate about themselves onto their scapegoat children. Then they hate the children. It really does a huge amount of damage when you have a parent that hates you.

It is an awful situation but it is still not an excuse for being a horrible person.

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Donald Trump, Jr. is really weird. [View all] leftyladyfrommo Jul 2018 OP

His father sits every chair like he's on the toilet donkeypoofed Jul 2018 #1

I noticed that too! fierywoman Jul 2018 #22

He Does It Cause He Thinks It Helps Him Look Less Fat Me. Jul 2018 #25

Yeah perhaps! Corvo Bianco Jul 2018 #28

lol, maybe Red Dawn is mad cuz he's constipated uponit7771 Jul 2018 #44

It is in the DNA...the weirdness aspect of it, BigmanPigman Jul 2018 #2

They are a really weird bunch, aren't they? nt leftyladyfrommo Jul 2018 #6

Yup, all chump donors. 2naSalit Jul 2018 #17

Somebody ought to give them ancestry for Christmas Historic NY Jul 2018 #34

I don't know if it's DNA, he has zero resemblance to Trump Sr. blueinredohio Jul 2018 #38

Pursed lips and weak chin is definitely the moron's DNA. BigmanPigman Jul 2018 #41

Ivanka does the same JI7 Jul 2018 #3

Mama Ivana probably sent her to modeling school for a bit of finishing. Maybe she sent junior too. Hekate Jul 2018 #21

She always stands with one foot forward and a hand on her hip madaboutharry Jul 2018 #26

Turns out Ivanka did some modeling in her younger days. dixiegrrrrl Jul 2018 #45

Calling Melania's time in front of the cameras "modeling" is a... 3catwoman3 Jul 2018 #52

I saw somewhere that Dimfuck wanted a teenaged leftyladyfrommo Jul 2018 #54

She did get it. and a nose job. And a blond hair job. dixiegrrrrl Jul 2018 #55

It is really sick. nt leftyladyfrommo Jul 2018 #56

She and Melania have the "Trump boobs". Same plastic surgeon, no doubt. SharonAnn Jul 2018 #62

I call it the pagaent pose Danmel Jul 2018 #50

I was just going to add that Dimfuck has started leftyladyfrommo Jul 2018 #4

Except when that piece of excrement True Dough Jul 2018 #13

Well, they wouldn't let him 2naSalit Jul 2018 #16

He's all about the "golden", isn't he? True Dough Jul 2018 #18

I can imagine what a pain 2naSalit Jul 2018 #24

He's peculiar about that, too. Grasswire2 Jul 2018 #46

An 2naSalit Jul 2018 #49

He admires strongmen, but his personal habits are reminiscent of Howard Hughes in his later years. LastLiberal in PalmSprings Jul 2018 #51

That was revolting. smirkymonkey Jul 2018 #61

I think of that as the Mussolini look. dhol82 Jul 2018 #29

LIKE THIS? RandomAccess Jul 2018 #57

Totally! dhol82 Jul 2018 #59

Oh, I see RandomAccess Jul 2018 #60

Yeah, that's more the ticket! dhol82 Jul 2018 #65

It's so that his "vagina neck" wattles don't show. SharonAnn Jul 2018 #63

Probably dhol82 Jul 2018 #66

Mussolini-like. nancy1942 Jul 2018 #39

None of them seen to know ........ CatMor Jul 2018 #5

That wasn't nice so I deleted it. nt leftyladyfrommo Jul 2018 #7

This message was self-deleted by its author CatMor Jul 2018 #9

That was exactly what I was thinking. They all seem to think they are much smarter, smirkymonkey Jul 2018 #30

Yes, that get that attitude from their daddy ..... CatMor Jul 2018 #36

Can't stand him. Power 2 the People Jul 2018 #8

Did they get paid a lot for that? leftyladyfrommo Jul 2018 #11

Life is just one long fashion show runway for all three of the siblings Brother Buzz Jul 2018 #10

Jr. is the kid in school who got bullied at home/ in turn, tried to bully his classmates, Solly Mack Jul 2018 #12

How could he not be with that for a father? leftyladyfrommo Jul 2018 #15

The odds were against him. Solly Mack Jul 2018 #23

Just a little money molds a different person Corvo Bianco Jul 2018 #32

It would gave helped if he was smarter. leftyladyfrommo Jul 2018 #48

His mouth is always sort of "pinched" - like he is trying to suppress a smirk. Marie Marie Jul 2018 #14

I have noticed the sheer arrogance Hekate Jul 2018 #19

He speaks as though he's got too many teeth in his mouth Power 2 the People Jul 2018 #20

I think he speaks like Jane Austin Jul 2018 #43

it's cause he thinks he's good looking Hamlette Jul 2018 #27

I have news for them. smirkymonkey Jul 2018 #31

agreed, but Trump in his day wasn't bad, and he knew it. Hamlette Jul 2018 #58

If I didn't know better, and it's possible I don't... liberalmuse Jul 2018 #33

The cesspool backed up into the gene pool - not even chlorine will help. magicarpet Jul 2018 #35

LMAO! liberalmuse Jul 2018 #37

He has to be one incredibly self conscious guy. He stands like a fence pole. dixiegrrrrl Jul 2018 #40

Juts his chin and stares off into the distance. leftyladyfrommo Jul 2018 #42

The chin thrust minimizes (just a touch)... 3catwoman3 Jul 2018 #53

To make its face look a little thinner uponit7771 Jul 2018 #67

I'm sure he thinks he must be up for "Sexiest Man Alive." Vinca Jul 2018 #47

you say that like it is a bad thing hfojvt Jul 2018 #64