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ellie

(6,928 posts)
46. "It would be good for you"?
Thu Aug 2, 2012, 09:53 AM
Aug 2012

Fried, processed crap is good for you? I would have told them, thanks but I am too concerned with my health to eat that. Go ahead, though.

It's called passive/aggressive homophobic bigotry. Raster Aug 2012 #1
+1 freshwest Aug 2012 #2
yeah arely staircase Aug 2012 #55
Exactly. And the mantle of cowardice Mira Aug 2012 #83
Yep. dixiegrrrrl Aug 2012 #108
It would have been as "good for you" as any other fast food... Systematic Chaos Aug 2012 #3
Are you serious? lunatica Aug 2012 #27
+100 % mazzarro Aug 2012 #86
Owning my disagree. If they had gone to Taco Bell... they would not be saying the name repeatedly.. progressivebydesign Aug 2012 #104
Alright, I get it. I'm being hopelessly naive. Systematic Chaos Aug 2012 #112
chik-fil-a Yeah Its Spin Aug 2012 #4
doesn't sound like a coincidence to me JI7 Aug 2012 #5
That makes sense get the red out Aug 2012 #30
Supporting the free speech that snowballs to youth brutal bullying does not come without retaliation nightscanner59 Aug 2012 #6
They were definitely trying to get your goat /nt still_one Aug 2012 #7
I would talk to Human Resources.... Kalidurga Aug 2012 #8
THIS is very good advice (n/t) Tom Ripley Aug 2012 #38
If you company has an anti-discrimination clause that includes sexual orientation justiceischeap Aug 2012 #41
Southern state unfortunately BBGC Aug 2012 #48
:( and no doubt a right-to-work State, as well. n/t progressivebydesign Aug 2012 #106
I wish it were that easy. dballance Aug 2012 #91
If the co-worker had not said... dballance Aug 2012 #9
"breaded, deep-fried chicken" Spitfire of ATJ Aug 2012 #18
you are factually incorrect ProdigalJunkMail Aug 2012 #23
Why do they look like they came out of a cookie cutter? Spitfire of ATJ Aug 2012 #24
Because.... Fla_Democrat Aug 2012 #25
They're shaped like nuggets too? Spitfire of ATJ Aug 2012 #26
No, they're actually shaped like Fla_Democrat Aug 2012 #88
Here's my local place. Spitfire of ATJ Aug 2012 #97
you have obviously never seen the difference ProdigalJunkMail Aug 2012 #33
You mean it looks worse than that??? Spitfire of ATJ Aug 2012 #66
what marketing photo looks worse than the actual product? n/t ProdigalJunkMail Aug 2012 #69
Easy. Spitfire of ATJ Aug 2012 #70
ok, i'll try to be more specific since your mind appears to have wandered ProdigalJunkMail Aug 2012 #71
It's crap food, you are hijacking this thread adigal Aug 2012 #77
so, someone comes into a thread ProdigalJunkMail Aug 2012 #78
You corrected it, let it go. Forest for the trees. Nt adigal Aug 2012 #82
i see the forest and the trees in it... ProdigalJunkMail Aug 2012 #84
"fight chick-fil-a and their religious adherents with FACTS" Occulus Aug 2012 #93
OK, just make up shit then... n/t ProdigalJunkMail Aug 2012 #111
I'm in Southern California. Spitfire of ATJ Aug 2012 #96
I used to live in the South where there were many CFA stores and I ate there - dballance Aug 2012 #89
I know the manager of the local store-` xmas74 Aug 2012 #95
I had chickens on the ranch but only for eggs. Spitfire of ATJ Aug 2012 #98
You know what's funny? Spitfire of ATJ Aug 2012 #99
I hate to admit it but I worked for this place when I was a teenager. ipfilter Aug 2012 #47
"I worked for this place" Spitfire of ATJ Aug 2012 #65
I worked for another small business later in life who's fundy owner ipfilter Aug 2012 #68
You have no reason to apologize or feel guilty dballance Aug 2012 #90
Actually, xmas74 Aug 2012 #94
chikfila's not bad food for what it is. I haven't been there in several months but you're Tunkamerica Aug 2012 #109
I know, but it was damn funny. Spitfire of ATJ Aug 2012 #110
Yeah, that's the point where it became obvious that it wasn't about the food. (nt) Posteritatis Aug 2012 #80
Start Looking AndyTiedye Aug 2012 #10
I agree. LuvNewcastle Aug 2012 #15
Particularly Since One of Them is His Boss AndyTiedye Aug 2012 #62
wow that sucks for you indie9197 Aug 2012 #11
continued indie9197 Aug 2012 #12
"HR is not there for the workers." CrispyQ Aug 2012 #57
Yup, they are there to protect the corporation from the workers..NOT the other way around... truebrit71 Aug 2012 #64
I hope it was just one bad day. LiberalAndProud Aug 2012 #13
Start a notebook. Not at work, at home. Write down the dates and times and the remarks. dimbear Aug 2012 #14
+1 laundry_queen Aug 2012 #17
Precisely Sherman A1 Aug 2012 #19
Good advice. CrispyQ Aug 2012 #58
This. Starry Messenger Aug 2012 #28
agree strongly nt woo me with science Aug 2012 #75
Very good advice. rad51 Aug 2012 #85
"It would be good for you." LOL!!! Spitfire of ATJ Aug 2012 #16
You work with children. The Doctor. Aug 2012 #20
You did great. KurtNYC Aug 2012 #21
That is terrible Shankapotomus Aug 2012 #22
I'm completing my B.S. at a state university this December BBGC Aug 2012 #43
IMO Mr Dixon Aug 2012 #29
You handled it beautifully GaYellowDawg Aug 2012 #31
I'll second that... Jeff In Milwaukee Aug 2012 #32
Start making tape recordings. Not all states require that you inform others that you are recording slampoet Aug 2012 #34
my suspicion is that it was deliberate cap Aug 2012 #35
Sounds shady. reflection Aug 2012 #36
if your hr is like most, they exist to cover managements asses, and not to help employees tjwash Aug 2012 #37
Yes, but when potential lawsuits could sully the Corps reputation justiceischeap Aug 2012 #42
Glad I wasn't there and she wasn't directing her idiocy toward me. HillWilliam Aug 2012 #39
I'm guessing that one or both are obliviously deliberate. GoCubsGo Aug 2012 #40
You should have told her that the last time you ate there you found glass in your filet. Ganja Ninja Aug 2012 #44
ha! grasswire Aug 2012 #87
goclark wishes she could have been there goclark Aug 2012 #45
"It would be good for you"? ellie Aug 2012 #46
Classic good KKKhristian passive aggressive behavior. 99Forever Aug 2012 #49
At least register your concerns with HR. If it happens again, there will be a record of this time. HopeHoops Aug 2012 #50
I count four times? That is unlikely to be a coincidence. gollygee Aug 2012 #51
Well be on the look out for anything. I would start taking notes on these kinds of situations. southernyankeebelle Aug 2012 #52
One bite, and you'd have never heard the end of it. DCKit Aug 2012 #53
This was not an innocent coincidence hamsterjill Aug 2012 #54
I would have taken the food the last time it was offered, then spit in it and chunk it in the trash MagickMuffin Aug 2012 #56
Does she usually offer you food several times ecstatic Aug 2012 #59
It sure as hell sounds intentional to me Rob H. Aug 2012 #60
it was most likely passive-aggressive harrassment southmost Aug 2012 #61
Doubt the coworker was oblivious GardeningGal Aug 2012 #63
Passive-Agressive bigotry. Odin2005 Aug 2012 #67
Sure, just assume your racist co-worker is "completely oblivious" just1voice Aug 2012 #72
are you fucking kidding me? ProdigalJunkMail Aug 2012 #73
That sounds like an attempt to create a hostile work environment. Zoeisright Aug 2012 #74
Not really in an ideal position to do that BBGC Aug 2012 #92
You'll be out of there soon, but . . . tilsammans Aug 2012 #105
I can feel my blood pressure rising as ia read this! adigal Aug 2012 #76
the fact that they did it OVER and OVER ProdigalJunkMail Aug 2012 #79
That doesn't look like an attempt to make a hostile environment, it looks like a success. (nt) Posteritatis Aug 2012 #81
Assholes. nt awoke_in_2003 Aug 2012 #100
So petty! God, what has happened to people's pride? SHAME. patrice Aug 2012 #101
"it will be good for you"... awoke_in_2003 Aug 2012 #102
You're being too kind. It was obviously a passive/aggressive attack. progressivebydesign Aug 2012 #103
((Hug)). nt Mojorabbit Aug 2012 #107
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