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EllieBC

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Gender: Female
Home country: USA
Current location: BC, Canada
Member since: Wed Jan 13, 2016, 12:00 AM
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Advice please.

So I know this is the internet but you guys all seem fairly level headed.

As some of you know Iím in NYS at the moment as my father passed away. Iím staying until the end of March because my mother has endometrial cancer and kept putting off her surgery because my dad was sick. So now Iím here as the one to make her go to appointments and to her surgical appointment over the next 2 weeks.

I canít leave. I canít. She wonít get the surgery. Yes there are cousins and whatnot here but she will literally cancel and refuse to go. At the same time Iím panicking Iíll never see my husband and kids again (they are home in BC) because thereís all this talk of potential border shutdowns and lockdowns and whatnot.

I canít leave but Iím afraid if I donít I wonít be able to.

Can someone give me some advice, an internet face slap, maybe an internet hug, or perhaps some calming words?

How worried should I be?

Hi all. My father passed away this weekend and I have to fly home for his funeral. Normally it would take place within 24 hours but my mom explained to our rabbi that I need to fly in from BC so itís set for Tuesday.

Iím normally a fairly level headed but Iím suddenly terrified of flying with this virus seemingly everywhere. Driving is not an option as Iím headed to NY.

Am I be panicky and itíll be fine or no? Sorry, my brain is a little over stressed from this news about my dad and the lack of sleep Iíve experienced worrying about my mom.

Thanks for understanding.
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