http://www.amazon.com/Men-Hate-Women-Love-Them/dp/0553381415
Men Who Hate Women and the Women Who Love Them : When Loving Hurts and You Don't Know Why
It's by Susan Forward. Anyone who has been with an emotional/verbal abuser can read this book and see it is a play by play of how this type of man behaves.


Another one that was a real eye opener for me?
Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0425191656/ref=pd_lpo_sbs_dp_ss_2?pf_rd_p=1535523722&pf_rd_s=lpo-top-stripe-1&pf_rd_t=201&pf_rd_i=0553381415&pf_rd_m=ATVPDKIKX0DER&pf_rd_r=0QP4XCW93GR494PS5Q5K




I think - it helps a woman who is in this situation to understand - This man is your enemy and he hates your guts. Nothing you can do is ever right. He will always needle, dismiss, rant, rave and eventually hit.

It's the same way every time.

And I think the first book? By Ms. Forward - the title tells it all.