No matter what mitten's says, what ever false or non-apology he gives, I will never believe him.
From the time I entered grade school to the time I left high school, I was bullied virtually every single day.
When I hear bullies apologize, I think of the old adage, "it's easier to get forgiveness than permission".
I then think of those who say, "the sign of being an adult is forgiving those who have wronged you".
I still have the scars, both mental and physical all these many many years later.
I chose to use my experience at the hands of bullies to be more empathetic and more understanding for those who experienced and experience the same treatment.
Do I forgive those who bullied me? No, instead I feel sorry for them. Do I feel sorry for mittens? No, I pity him and his pathetic life.
Bullies on the other hand learn to live with regret. But regret is a funny thing. What do they regret, they fact that they did what ever horrible thing they did to another person or regret they were found out?
It's only now that mitten's bullying comes out. So to me, it sounds as if he regrets being found out.
Am I such an adult that I can forgive someone for something they did to someone 40+ years ago? That's not me to answer but for the person who was bullied.
However, was mitten's the consummate upper class-man that singled out only underclassmen? or did he pick and choose his targets for scorn?
Frankly, I don't think it mattered to him. Bullies work from power. Power to control, power to manipulate, power to destroy and power to embarrass. All of which is rooted in ego.
You see, if mitten's was from some screwed up family that abused him, then it would be "shit rolls down hill" concept of passing the bullying he got from his parents onto some unsuspecting person just to vent his own anger.
But no. mitten's came from a well to do family. His "abuse" came in the form from parents who pumped up his ego and inflated the importance of his "station in life" and those who are "different" were beneath him.
I have long been saying that mitten's is a sociopath.
His non-apology apology confirms that. He just doesn't get it. He knows the words but he doesn't understand the actions.
I knew guys like him. He's the worst kind of bully. He's the kind who justifies his actions as being for the best for all, all the while having a smile on his face.
He will punch you in the face repeatedly, telling you the whole time, it's for your own good. And making you try to sympathize with him having to beat you up.
When in the end, the only person to "benefit" is mittens with his stroked ego by those who fawn around him and too afraid of him to tell him to fuck off. And those who were bullied, too bloodied to respond.
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