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Scapegoated for reporting (Original Post) MutantAndProud Aug 2023 OP
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That makes sense MutantAndProud Oct 27 #2
Thanks jfz9580m Oct 27 #3
Shining light on the situation MutantAndProud Oct 27 #4
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Shoshana Zuboff is correct MutantAndProud Oct 28 #7
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Sorry jfz9580m Oct 30 #10
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Response to MutantAndProud (Original post)

jfz9580m

(14,433 posts)
3. Thanks
Fri Oct 27, 2023, 08:52 PM
Oct 27

Last edited Sun Oct 29, 2023, 02:55 AM - Edit history (1)

They are basically cowards and I don't back down to creeps once I can keep my shit together..which I can now.

I wish you all the best on yours . The good thing is that the more you fight back, the less other women will have to put up with this shit.

And I refuse to change my behaviors and veil
myself and move into a bloody nunnery to avoid harassment from second rate minds with dated views.
(Edit: I am removing what I don't delete from my journal since I do not like to waste my mind or journal on creeps beyond what is necessary to acknowledge the nuisance of creeps).

MutantAndProud

(633 posts)
4. Shining light on the situation
Fri Oct 27, 2023, 08:55 PM
Oct 27

Does take a bit of effort and mental stamina, I documented for over a year and now they’re starting to claim victimhood because I wasn’t passive about finding contradictions. I take that as a good sign…

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MutantAndProud

(633 posts)
7. Shoshana Zuboff is correct
Sat Oct 28, 2023, 09:56 PM
Oct 28

Our system now is completely different from what it was in 2012, and 2008, 2007, 2001… 1999/2000.

I lost my anonymity due to it being forced. There is no way to undo that now, but de-anonymizing me was not something I take lightly and I am not afraid of bringing things as public as necessary to put an end to this and force the conversation into the public, as corrupt as some of the modern forums are.

Funnily enough, I was at a bar the other week during a rare visit out for Pride and someone forcibly downloaded Pokémon Go onto my phone without my knowledge or consent… I suppose to let me know they’re nearby and fully capable of remote control of the networks, for now. They will be found out.

Thank you for offering your words of support and encouragement.

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jfz9580m

(14,433 posts)
10. Sorry
Mon Oct 30, 2023, 12:18 AM
Oct 30

I deleted other posts in this thread and others (save for one other post) due to ongoing worries about security. I am just keeping this one post to mention the harassment by the creeps outside on my street-aggressively driving bikes at all hours of the night (with the silencers out) and even showing up at my house and asking for me etc. It is harassment pushing the boundaries of what can barely be reported.

I find it unpleasant and draining to think about this shit so I try not to when I can help it.

Nov 2: The creeps are in extra overtly aggressive mode where I live. But I am not despairing this time.

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