Sat May 7, 2022, 04:43 PM
Jilly_in_VA (8,795 posts)
What they wore: Amish Country exhibit spotlights sex abuse
Clotheslines with billowing linens and long dresses are a common sight on the off-grid farms of Pennsylvania’s Lancaster County, home to the nation’s largest Amish settlement. For many tourists they’re as iconic a part of Amish Country’s bucolic scenery as the rural lanes and wooden bridges.
But for two days in late April, a clothesline with a different purpose was strung in a small indoor exhibit here. Hanging from it were 13 outfits representing the trauma of sexual assault suffered by members of the Amish, Mennonite and similar groups, a reminder that the modest attire they require, particularly of women and girls, is no protection. Each garment on display was either the actual one a survivor wore at the time they were assaulted or a replica assembled by volunteers to match the strict dress codes of the survivor’s childhood church. One was a long-sleeve, periwinkle blue Amish dress with a simple stand collar. The accompanying sign said, “Survivor Age: 4 years old.Next to it was a 5-year-old’s heavy coat, hat and long, hunter green dress, displayed above sturdy black shoes. “I was never safe and I was a child. He was an adult,” a sign quoted the survivor as saying. “No one helped me when I told them he hurt me.” There was also an infant’s onesie. “You feel rage when you get a tiny little outfit in the mail,” said Ruth Ann Brubaker of Wayne County, Ohio, who helped put the exhibit together. “I didn’t know I could be so angry. Then you start crying.” https://apnews.com/article/religion-pennsylvania-sexual-abuse-by-clergy-assault-lancaster-0e97364f986c9b9fffaed44520fc2b1f ________________________________________________________________________________ This made me cry. Sexual abuse happens everywhere and is no respecter of traditions
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Jilly_in_VA | May 2022 | OP |
CrispyQ | May 2022 | #1 | |
Scrivener7 | May 2022 | #5 | |
sheshe2 | May 2022 | #2 | |
Diamond_Dog | May 2022 | #3 | |
Faux pas | May 2022 | #4 | |
Jilly_in_VA | May 2022 | #7 | |
ultralite001 | May 2022 | #6 |
Response to Jilly_in_VA (Original post)
Sat May 7, 2022, 04:52 PM
CrispyQ (34,992 posts)
1. I've been in a state of rage all week.
And it's not getting any better.
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Response to Jilly_in_VA (Original post)
Sat May 7, 2022, 04:58 PM
sheshe2 (80,833 posts)
2. What Were You Wearing.
I want to cry. I want to scream.
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Response to Jilly_in_VA (Original post)
Sat May 7, 2022, 05:10 PM
Diamond_Dog (29,283 posts)
3. Tragic. Indefensible.
I have been on edge all week over current events, too.
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Response to Jilly_in_VA (Original post)
Sat May 7, 2022, 05:14 PM
Faux pas (14,275 posts)
4. IMHO
sexual abuse is the reason that those types closed off societies exist.
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Response to Faux pas (Reply #4)
Sat May 7, 2022, 05:23 PM
Jilly_in_VA (8,795 posts)
7. Dammit
That's not the point! It fucking happens EVERYWHERE! You can live in a nice area of wealthy homes and get abused by your neighbor or teacher or a family member, or a slum and get abused by the guy down the hall, the super, or some rando off the street. Pay attention!
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Response to Jilly_in_VA (Original post)
Sat May 7, 2022, 05:23 PM
ultralite001 (885 posts)
6. Heartbreaking... The repercussions are staggering...
For indigenous peoples... Missing and Murdered Indigenous Women... and men...
and those lost to abortion... and domestic violence... and substance abuse... and police maltreatment... and religious/race/gender/age/you-name-it intolerance... "Sexual abuse happens everywhere and is no respecter of traditions"... So many voices crying out be heard... and gone... never to be heard again... |