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Sat May 7, 2022, 04:43 PM

What they wore: Amish Country exhibit spotlights sex abuse

Clotheslines with billowing linens and long dresses are a common sight on the off-grid farms of Pennsylvania’s Lancaster County, home to the nation’s largest Amish settlement. For many tourists they’re as iconic a part of Amish Country’s bucolic scenery as the rural lanes and wooden bridges.

But for two days in late April, a clothesline with a different purpose was strung in a small indoor exhibit here. Hanging from it were 13 outfits representing the trauma of sexual assault suffered by members of the Amish, Mennonite and similar groups, a reminder that the modest attire they require, particularly of women and girls, is no protection.

Each garment on display was either the actual one a survivor wore at the time they were assaulted or a replica assembled by volunteers to match the strict dress codes of the survivor’s childhood church.

One was a long-sleeve, periwinkle blue Amish dress with a simple stand collar. The accompanying sign said, “Survivor Age: 4 years old.Next to it was a 5-year-old’s heavy coat, hat and long, hunter green dress, displayed above sturdy black shoes. “I was never safe and I was a child. He was an adult,” a sign quoted the survivor as saying. “No one helped me when I told them he hurt me.”

There was also an infant’s onesie.

“You feel rage when you get a tiny little outfit in the mail,” said Ruth Ann Brubaker of Wayne County, Ohio, who helped put the exhibit together. “I didn’t know I could be so angry. Then you start crying.”

https://apnews.com/article/religion-pennsylvania-sexual-abuse-by-clergy-assault-lancaster-0e97364f986c9b9fffaed44520fc2b1f
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This made me cry. Sexual abuse happens everywhere and is no respecter of traditions

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Jilly_in_VA May 2022 OP
CrispyQ May 2022 #1
Scrivener7 May 2022 #5
sheshe2 May 2022 #2
Diamond_Dog May 2022 #3
Faux pas May 2022 #4
Jilly_in_VA May 2022 #7
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Response to Jilly_in_VA (Original post)

Sat May 7, 2022, 04:52 PM

1. I've been in a state of rage all week.

And it's not getting any better.

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Response to CrispyQ (Reply #1)

Sat May 7, 2022, 05:14 PM

5. Me too.

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Response to Jilly_in_VA (Original post)

Sat May 7, 2022, 04:58 PM

2. What Were You Wearing.

I want to cry. I want to scream.

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Response to Jilly_in_VA (Original post)

Sat May 7, 2022, 05:10 PM

3. Tragic. Indefensible.

I have been on edge all week over current events, too.

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Response to Jilly_in_VA (Original post)

Sat May 7, 2022, 05:14 PM

4. IMHO

sexual abuse is the reason that those types closed off societies exist.

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Response to Faux pas (Reply #4)

Sat May 7, 2022, 05:23 PM

7. Dammit

That's not the point! It fucking happens EVERYWHERE! You can live in a nice area of wealthy homes and get abused by your neighbor or teacher or a family member, or a slum and get abused by the guy down the hall, the super, or some rando off the street. Pay attention!

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Response to Jilly_in_VA (Original post)

Sat May 7, 2022, 05:23 PM

6. Heartbreaking... The repercussions are staggering...

For indigenous peoples... Missing and Murdered Indigenous Women... and men...

and those lost to abortion...

and domestic violence...

and substance abuse...

and police maltreatment...

and religious/race/gender/age/you-name-it intolerance...

"Sexual abuse happens everywhere and is no respecter of traditions"...

So many voices crying out be heard...

and gone... never to be heard again...

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