2016 Postmortem
Related: About this forumNeither Bill Nor Hillary Supported Marriage Equality in the 1990's.
DOMA was signed because Bill Clinton supported it, not because it was a way to protect LGBT people.
It did not protect LGBT people. It marginalized us as second class citizens for two decades. It kept us out of hospitals in lieu of family rights. It kept us from benefiting from equal treatment in asset protection upon death. It denied us Social Security benefits for surviving spouses. It defined marriage as one man and one woman.
He did not support us in the 1990's. Neither did Hillary. DOMA gave every Republican EXACTLY what they wanted. They didn't need an Amendment when the law already supported them.
And Bill Clinton signed it.
And Hillary supported it.
Agschmid
(28,749 posts)It sucks to realize you are second class, and we still are in some states.
The work for LGBTQIA rights is no where near done.
If O'Malley did I'm open to a correction here?
Fearless
(18,421 posts)Agschmid
(28,749 posts)I agree Bernie has stood for gay rights but to say he supported marriage is an absolute stretch. He supported civil unions for quite a while and inidcayed he was fine with the system in place in VT (civil unions).
Again that's better than some, but it's not support of marriage.
Fearless
(18,421 posts)And he has supported marriage equality since we've fought for that as well.
Agschmid
(28,749 posts)I mean is that your point? Because basically you date saying once it was politically expedient he went with it?
None of our candidates, including Hillary, live up to what would be ideal on this issue. Again I don't really know O'Malleys story so if I'm wrong I'm open to being corrected here.
Fearless
(18,421 posts)Agschmid
(28,749 posts)But if that's what you think, go with it.
Chitown Kev
(2,197 posts)His vote against DOMA was nice. Both of my Senators at the time voted against DOMA.
Bernie did not support marriage equality at that time.
Fearless
(18,421 posts)jfern
(5,204 posts)Hillary opposed SSM until after a poll showed it had 58% support in 2013.
Agschmid
(28,749 posts)Mark Joseph Stern Mark Joseph Stern
But Sanders is not quite the gay rights visionary his defenders would like us to believe. Sanders did oppose DOMAbut purely on states rights grounds. And as recently as 2006, Sanders opposed marriage equality for his adopted home state of Vermont. The senator may have evolved earlier than his primary opponents. But the fact remains that, in the critical early days of the modern marriage equality movement, Sanders was neutral at best and hostile at worst.
Source.
Yes he is better than Hillary here, I agree. But the record isn't blemish free.
jfern
(5,204 posts)He never said he opposed SSM. He just didn't clearly say he supported it yet.
Agschmid
(28,749 posts)jfern
(5,204 posts)He clearly supported civil unions in 2000 and SSM in 2009 when Vermont passed those.
Agschmid
(28,749 posts)beam me up scottie
(57,349 posts)It's not our job to disprove your claim.
Agschmid
(28,749 posts)This is an anonymous discussion board.
All our current candidates evolved on the issue, that's the bottom line. It would be great if someone had run who didn't have that history, but we aren't that lucky.
beam me up scottie
(57,349 posts)Maybe I can help, here is the transcript of the video that started that rumour, perhaps you can point out where he said he opposes it:
Agschmid
(28,749 posts)beam me up scottie
(57,349 posts)Agschmid
(28,749 posts)... Weird.
beam me up scottie
(57,349 posts)So what do you base your claim on again?
Agschmid
(28,749 posts)beam me up scottie
(57,349 posts)Agschmid
(28,749 posts)But it appears we have hijacked another thread. At least we are good at something.
beam me up scottie
(57,349 posts)And since this is somewhat relevant to the subject in the op it's not really hijacking the thread.
If you don't believe that Bernie supported same sex marriage I have no problem with that, I just have issues with stating it as fact when there is no evidence.
Like you do with the claims about Hillary working for Monsanto.
Agschmid
(28,749 posts)Night.
beam me up scottie
(57,349 posts)I dislike false claims as much as you do because it doesn't help either side.
G'nite.
Agschmid
(28,749 posts)jfern
(5,204 posts)Agschmid
(28,749 posts)What's your point here?
jfern
(5,204 posts)People wrongly concluded that when he said that SSM should be up to the states. This was when they were trying to pass a federal constitutional ban, and 4 years before the first victory for SSM in any federal court.
Agschmid
(28,749 posts)He is a leader, if he supported it why didn't he say it, why didn't he lead?
Typically and especially in Senator Sanders case, he talks about what he supports. I'm not trying to paint him as a bigot, HE IS NOT, I am not trying to paint him as a homophobe, HE IS NOT... But when it comes to this issue he didn't say anything at that time.
It is what it is, all our candidates have some level of fault on this one issue.
beam me up scottie
(57,349 posts)jfern
(5,204 posts)Agschmid
(28,749 posts)Why didn't he say he supported marriage equality? What was he waiting for?
And again because it's fair to say this, Hillary was worse in many ways. But to say he was for equality is odd, since there wasn't a whole lot of proof for a while.
jfern
(5,204 posts)I don't think he ever said anything to oppose SSM even though we can find no statement clearly in favor of it until 2009.
Thinkingabout
(30,058 posts)Agschmid
(28,749 posts)I mean the sitting president didn't support marriage equality for a good portion of his term. I look ahead, it's not denial it's knowing that the world is changing and it's for the better.
Fred Sanders
(23,946 posts)is valued at all.
Fearless
(18,421 posts)Fred Sanders
(23,946 posts)Fearless
(18,421 posts)MannyGoldstein
(34,589 posts)advance marriage equality; isn't that today's HillMeme?
You know, like when people we need to cut Social Security to make it better, we need to blow up Iraq to make it safer, etc.
LexVegas
(6,031 posts)Fearless
(18,421 posts)I have mentioned this many times before.
LexVegas
(6,031 posts)firebrand80
(2,760 posts)Politicians sometimes take positions based on the prevailing winds.
Bernie doesn't?
If not, then it shows that he's not as good of a politician as HRC, which is why he's not going to win the nomination.
Fearless
(18,421 posts)tblue
(16,350 posts)firebrand80
(2,760 posts)when you vote, especially for President. It's impossible to ascend that high without making compromises along the way.
I'm certain Obama didn't feel good about throwing Rev. Wright under the bus, but it had to be done.
pinebox
(5,761 posts)Says it all.
More of the same old, same old. Flip flopper extraordinaire!
http://www.politifact.com/truth-o-meter/statements/2015/jun/17/hillary-clinton/hillary-clinton-change-position-same-sex-marriage/
Agschmid
(28,749 posts)NCTraveler
(30,481 posts)blocking a pathway to citizenship for over ten million people. He also voted yea on one of the largest deregulation bills since Regan was in office. You know, the "Enron Loophole Bill." I don't think he would do either again. Just as I think there has been a large societal evolution with respect to the issue you are talking about.
onehandle
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LettuceSea
(337 posts)Very independent minded in this primary season. I hope that continues!
angrychair
(8,684 posts)Supported DOMA and DADT to help LGBT people from something worse just like farm owners in the rural south used to kidnap people from African nations to keep them from being eaten by lions.
Just trying to help?
The pain, frustration and mental distress caused by DOMA and DADT ruined lives, ruined families and did more to create shame and distrust then anything else could have done. The LGBT community could have successfully campaigned against Constitutional admendments about gay marriage with the support of the WH but the WH choose a different path, one that didn't include the LGBT community as equals.
Arkansas Granny
(31,507 posts)I think that's true of a lot of people. Does that mean that my support for marriage equality now is demeaned because I did not always feel this way?
Fearless
(18,421 posts)Arkansas Granny
(31,507 posts)than what she believed 25 years ago. People grow and attitudes change.
Fearless
(18,421 posts)The point calls into question her ability to govern.
Human rights is an easy topic to grasp.
You're either for them or against them.
She was against them and is now for them in terms of LGBT rights.
This is a question of extreme judgemental lapse.
She goes with the majority on everything.
She is wrong to do so.
Arkansas Granny
(31,507 posts)Hillary had an opinion that you didn't agree with and you won't accept that she had changed her position. Would you rather that she still opposed marriage equality?
treestar
(82,383 posts)getting votes. You can't separate us as a nation from our representatives.
Fearless
(18,421 posts)Agschmid
(28,749 posts)I think we should appreciate when people are able to grow, and not just dismiss them.
Fearless
(18,421 posts)Agschmid
(28,749 posts)As is the OP.
About as on topic as you can get.
Fearless
(18,421 posts)It was off topic.
Agschmid
(28,749 posts)this "Neither Bill Nor Hillary Supported Marriage Equality in the 1990's." is the title of your OP. So yes it didn't really fit the conversation you wanted to have, but it was absolutely on topic.
Fearless
(18,421 posts)Keep your reminders to yourself.
Agschmid
(28,749 posts)Agschmid
(28,749 posts)I also appreciate your growth on the issue, thank you.
justhanginon
(3,289 posts)terms of what societies deemed proper. I did not support many things 20 years ago that I have since changed my mind or evolved on. LGBT rights is just one of them and I am now a strong supporter of those rights. As time goes by we increase our knowledge and perceptions through reading, conversing with others and most importantly listening. I must say this site has been an immeasurable help in that. Hopefully we will then have the ability to see things in different ways and how they affect others. If we are hidebound with our ideas, biases etc. then we are not growing in our personal development or as productive citizens of this country.
UglyGreed
(7,661 posts)tests which way the wind blows and then goes in that direction, Hillary's campaign strategy
Truprogressive85
(900 posts)lets imagine senator in the 60's saying that he wouldn't vote the VRA of 1965 because of the political climate ? yet the VRA still pass because it took guts and made a statement !
the senators wanted to keep disenfranchising black ppl were cowards and so were the house members /VRa passed because LBJ had the cojones to stand up against and do it.
If you are for something and truly believe in don't wait for it to become politically expedient to favor it.
polichick
(37,152 posts)Laughing Mirror
(4,185 posts)Lots of remarks to read that give a fair sampling of LGBT activist's opinion on this. A few blurbs:
A number of gay rights activists took to Twitter to say Clinton engaged in historic revisionism during her appearance Friday on The Rachel Maddow Show when she said DOMA was a means to stop the enactment of a U.S. constitutional amendment banning same-sex marriage entirely. Many of those activists also tempered their objections by saying Clinton is generally doing right on LGBT rights during her campaign.
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David Mixner, a gay rights activist who once supported Bill Clinton before the two had a falling out over Dont Ask, Dont Tell, urged LGBT people to reject the explanation of DOMA offered by the Democratic presidential candidate. "The LGBT community should NEVER allow any politican to revise our noble and courageous history for political purposes."
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Michelangelo Signorile, a gay New York-based activist and author of Its Not Over, said Clintons recollection of the events surrounding DOMA at the time is simply untrue. But Signorile, who had once been critical of Hillary Clinton for not talking enough about LGBT rights during her 2016 campaign, said Clinton is generally fine on the issues now despite this incident.
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The notion DOMA was passed to stop passage of a Federal Marriage Amendment has been disputed by Hillary Clinton supporter and former Human Rights Campaign chief Elizabeth Birch, who wrote an op-ed saying there was no real threat of a constitutional measure in 1996. The Washington Blade has placed a call to the Clinton campaign to see if the candidate stands by the remarks and with the Human Rights Campaign to see whether the organization has any comment about them.
See more at: http://www.washingtonblade.com/2015/10/25/gay-activists-unhappy-with-clinton-remarks-on-doma/#sthash.mF0S3YpY.dpuf
brooklynite
(94,363 posts)...guess we shouldn't have voted for him?
Chitown Kev
(2,197 posts)PBO actually did support marriage equality
BlueCheese
(2,522 posts)I don't remember there being any push for a constitutional amendment at the time. In fairness there was a push later on, and lots of states put laws or amendments on their books, including liberal California as late as 2008. Still, DOMA was egregious and gratuitous, and I wish Bill Clinton would have stood stronger on that, and that Hillary Clinton would not make such rationalizations today.
However, Sanders has wavered himself over the years. In 2006, two years after same sex marriage was legal in Massachusetts, Sanders was quoted as saying that he opposed trying to do the same thing in Vermont. As was reported back then,
He noted that Vermont "led the way," but it was "a very divisive debate." Asked whether Vermont should legalize full marriage rights for same-sex couples, he said: "Not right now, not after what we went through."
Really, very few national Democrats covered themselves in glory on this issue.
http://www.timesargus.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=/20060607/NEWS/606070302/1003/NEWS02