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Fearless

(18,421 posts)
Mon Oct 26, 2015, 12:31 PM Oct 2015

Neither Bill Nor Hillary Supported Marriage Equality in the 1990's.

DOMA was signed because Bill Clinton supported it, not because it was a way to protect LGBT people.

It did not protect LGBT people. It marginalized us as second class citizens for two decades. It kept us out of hospitals in lieu of family rights. It kept us from benefiting from equal treatment in asset protection upon death. It denied us Social Security benefits for surviving spouses. It defined marriage as one man and one woman.


He did not support us in the 1990's. Neither did Hillary. DOMA gave every Republican EXACTLY what they wanted. They didn't need an Amendment when the law already supported them.

And Bill Clinton signed it.

And Hillary supported it.

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Neither Bill Nor Hillary Supported Marriage Equality in the 1990's. (Original Post) Fearless Oct 2015 OP
None of our candidates explicitly supported marriage in that decade. Agschmid Oct 2015 #1
Bernie supported us in everything we fought for in the 1990's. And the 1980's... 70's... 60's...etc Fearless Oct 2015 #6
I expected this article to pop up, didn't expect it from you. Agschmid Oct 2015 #11
Again, he supported EVERYTHING WE FOUGHT FOR in those years. Fearless Oct 2015 #15
Ha well I guess some of us were fighting for marriage a bit longer the some? Agschmid Oct 2015 #20
You're making things up. Fearless Oct 2015 #27
I'm absolutely not. Agschmid Oct 2015 #37
No, he did not. Chitown Kev Oct 2015 #23
Again, he supported EVERYTHIGN WE FOUGHT FOR in those years. Fearless Oct 2015 #28
He never opposed SSM though jfern Oct 2015 #48
All our candidates evolved on this issue. Agschmid Oct 2015 #50
It's a lie that he was a SSM opponent in 2006 jfern Oct 2015 #52
And what exactly was he waiting for? Agschmid Oct 2015 #53
There were lots of politicians who hadn't bothered to formally take a position on SSM jfern Oct 2015 #55
Oh so he was so for it, that he forgot to mention it. Got it. Agschmid Oct 2015 #56
If you made the claim that he opposed it you have to back it up. beam me up scottie Oct 2015 #57
It's not my job to do anything... Agschmid Oct 2015 #58
Got it! You made the claim that he opposed same sex marriage and can't back it up. beam me up scottie Oct 2015 #64
I backed it up just fine. Agschmid Oct 2015 #66
Where? I must have missed it. Did you read the transcript? beam me up scottie Oct 2015 #69
I did. And's its odd, I don't see the word marriage equality anywhere. Agschmid Oct 2015 #70
What's even more weird is that he never said he opposed it. beam me up scottie Oct 2015 #71
Usually leaders lead. n/t Agschmid Oct 2015 #72
So you just *know*. Have you always been omniscient? beam me up scottie Oct 2015 #73
The other night it seemed as if you were done with me? Agschmid Oct 2015 #74
No, I challenge lies about Bernie when I can. beam me up scottie Oct 2015 #75
Oh boy... Agschmid Oct 2015 #76
I'm agreeing with you about Hillary. beam me up scottie Oct 2015 #77
I know, thanks. Agschmid Oct 2015 #78
There were lots of other politicians who hadn't taken a position jfern Oct 2015 #59
Yes, and I fault them for that as well. Agschmid Oct 2015 #60
My point is that it's a lie that Bernie oopossed SSM in 2006 jfern Oct 2015 #61
It's not a lie. Agschmid Oct 2015 #63
It is a lie. Where did he say he opposed it?: beam me up scottie Oct 2015 #65
He didn't have to say he was in favor to not oppose SSM jfern Oct 2015 #67
Look so if Sanders is such a strong leader why didn't he lead? Agschmid Oct 2015 #68
That's a different question, but he saying he opposed SSM in 2006 because of that debate is bogus jfern Oct 2015 #79
Very true, we can choose to move on to the future or remain in the past, I like today much better. Thinkingabout Oct 2015 #8
Yup. Agschmid Oct 2015 #13
Know who else changed since the 90's? Elizabeth Warren. "Evolving" is not a bad word, if context Fred Sanders Oct 2015 #2
Change the subject much? Fearless Oct 2015 #3
Same subject, better perspective. Fred Sanders Oct 2015 #4
Different subject. And you're still wrong. Fearless Oct 2015 #7
But the Clintons fought marriage equality only in order to MannyGoldstein Oct 2015 #5
You must really hate Obama. nt LexVegas Oct 2015 #9
I vehemently disagree with his "personal evolution" on LGBT rights. Yes. Emphatically. Fearless Oct 2015 #10
I salute your consistency. nt LexVegas Oct 2015 #16
Grow up firebrand80 Oct 2015 #12
Wow! Just wow! Fearless Oct 2015 #19
"Politicians sometimes take positions based on the prevailing winds. " tblue Oct 2015 #30
Then you're likely to always be "holding your nose" firebrand80 Oct 2015 #31
She's a flip flopper! pinebox Oct 2015 #14
On this issues they have all evolved. Agschmid Oct 2015 #22
One of Sanders greates legislative accomplishments was.... NCTraveler Oct 2015 #17
Thanks for the history lesson. onehandle Oct 2015 #18
One thing that makes me happy is the LGBT vote is far from monolithic LettuceSea Oct 2015 #21
Worthless revision of history on HRC's part angrychair Oct 2015 #24
In the 1990's I didn't support marriage equality. I do now and Arkansas Granny Oct 2015 #25
You were not in a position of power in the 1990's. What you believed doesn't impact this nation. Fearless Oct 2015 #29
And what Hillary believes now will have more impact on the nation Arkansas Granny Oct 2015 #32
You're missing the point of the OP. Fearless Oct 2015 #33
The point of the OP, as I read it, is that 25 years ago Arkansas Granny Oct 2015 #36
A position of power in this nation is attained by treestar Oct 2015 #35
In the face of partisan districting, I disagree fundamentally. Fearless Oct 2015 #44
That was very dismissive. Agschmid Oct 2015 #42
False logic. It was off topic. Fearless Oct 2015 #45
It was about marriage equality... Agschmid Oct 2015 #46
It was not about the Clintons or DOMA. Fearless Oct 2015 #47
Just a reminder... Agschmid Oct 2015 #49
If you bother to read the post, you'll see what the main idea is. Fearless Oct 2015 #51
Nah, thanks though. Agschmid Oct 2015 #54
I appreciate you sharing that. Agschmid Oct 2015 #43
Neither did I. I am an old geezer and grew up in an age that was much different than todays's in justhanginon Oct 2015 #26
Puts finger out UglyGreed Oct 2015 #34
memory lane Truprogressive85 Oct 2015 #38
Unfortunately, politicians are followers more than leaders. polichick Oct 2015 #39
Gay Activists Unhappy with Clinton remarks on DOMA Laughing Mirror Oct 2015 #40
Neither did President Obama... brooklynite Oct 2015 #41
well...in the 90's Chitown Kev Oct 2015 #62
I will say that I was disappointed in Clinton's description of what happened around the time of DOMA BlueCheese Oct 2015 #80

Agschmid

(28,749 posts)
1. None of our candidates explicitly supported marriage in that decade.
Mon Oct 26, 2015, 12:32 PM
Oct 2015

It sucks to realize you are second class, and we still are in some states.

The work for LGBTQIA rights is no where near done.

If O'Malley did I'm open to a correction here?

Fearless

(18,421 posts)
6. Bernie supported us in everything we fought for in the 1990's. And the 1980's... 70's... 60's...etc
Mon Oct 26, 2015, 12:35 PM
Oct 2015

Agschmid

(28,749 posts)
11. I expected this article to pop up, didn't expect it from you.
Mon Oct 26, 2015, 12:37 PM
Oct 2015

I agree Bernie has stood for gay rights but to say he supported marriage is an absolute stretch. He supported civil unions for quite a while and inidcayed he was fine with the system in place in VT (civil unions).

Again that's better than some, but it's not support of marriage.

Fearless

(18,421 posts)
15. Again, he supported EVERYTHING WE FOUGHT FOR in those years.
Mon Oct 26, 2015, 12:39 PM
Oct 2015

And he has supported marriage equality since we've fought for that as well.

Agschmid

(28,749 posts)
20. Ha well I guess some of us were fighting for marriage a bit longer the some?
Mon Oct 26, 2015, 12:43 PM
Oct 2015

I mean is that your point? Because basically you date saying once it was politically expedient he went with it?

None of our candidates, including Hillary, live up to what would be ideal on this issue. Again I don't really know O'Malleys story so if I'm wrong I'm open to being corrected here.

Chitown Kev

(2,197 posts)
23. No, he did not.
Mon Oct 26, 2015, 12:46 PM
Oct 2015

His vote against DOMA was nice. Both of my Senators at the time voted against DOMA.

Bernie did not support marriage equality at that time.

jfern

(5,204 posts)
48. He never opposed SSM though
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 01:23 AM
Oct 2015

Hillary opposed SSM until after a poll showed it had 58% support in 2013.

Agschmid

(28,749 posts)
50. All our candidates evolved on this issue.
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 01:26 AM
Oct 2015
Vermont Sen. Bernie Sanders likes to describe himself as a longtime supporter of marriage equality—in sharp contrast to his Democratic rival Hillary Clinton, who’s still striving to convince her base that she’s on board with LGBT rights. In May, Sanders famously told New York Times columnist Gail Collins that “I’m not evolving when it comes to gay rights. I was there!” Liberal outlets consistently describe Sanders as a pioneer for marriage equality. As proof of his pro-LGBT credentials, Sanders frequently touts his opposition in 1996 to the Defense of Marriage Act, which barred the federal government from recognizing same-sex marriages.
Mark Joseph Stern Mark Joseph Stern

But Sanders is not quite the gay rights visionary his defenders would like us to believe. Sanders did oppose DOMA—but purely on states’ rights grounds. And as recently as 2006, Sanders opposed marriage equality for his adopted home state of Vermont. The senator may have evolved earlier than his primary opponents. But the fact remains that, in the critical early days of the modern marriage equality movement, Sanders was neutral at best and hostile at worst.


Source.

Yes he is better than Hillary here, I agree. But the record isn't blemish free.

jfern

(5,204 posts)
52. It's a lie that he was a SSM opponent in 2006
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 01:39 AM
Oct 2015

He never said he opposed SSM. He just didn't clearly say he supported it yet.

jfern

(5,204 posts)
55. There were lots of politicians who hadn't bothered to formally take a position on SSM
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 01:43 AM
Oct 2015

He clearly supported civil unions in 2000 and SSM in 2009 when Vermont passed those.

beam me up scottie

(57,349 posts)
57. If you made the claim that he opposed it you have to back it up.
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 01:45 AM
Oct 2015

It's not our job to disprove your claim.

Agschmid

(28,749 posts)
58. It's not my job to do anything...
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 01:48 AM
Oct 2015

This is an anonymous discussion board.

All our current candidates evolved on the issue, that's the bottom line. It would be great if someone had run who didn't have that history, but we aren't that lucky.

beam me up scottie

(57,349 posts)
64. Got it! You made the claim that he opposed same sex marriage and can't back it up.
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 01:55 AM
Oct 2015

Maybe I can help, here is the transcript of the video that started that rumour, perhaps you can point out where he said he opposes it:

I was a strong supporter of civil unions, I believe that. I voted against the DOMA bill, I believe that the federal government should not be involved in overturning Massachusetts or any other the state because I think the whole issue of marriage is a state issue.


Agschmid

(28,749 posts)
74. The other night it seemed as if you were done with me?
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 02:09 AM
Oct 2015

But it appears we have hijacked another thread. At least we are good at something.

beam me up scottie

(57,349 posts)
75. No, I challenge lies about Bernie when I can.
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 02:12 AM
Oct 2015

And since this is somewhat relevant to the subject in the op it's not really hijacking the thread.

If you don't believe that Bernie supported same sex marriage I have no problem with that, I just have issues with stating it as fact when there is no evidence.

Like you do with the claims about Hillary working for Monsanto.

beam me up scottie

(57,349 posts)
77. I'm agreeing with you about Hillary.
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 02:15 AM
Oct 2015

I dislike false claims as much as you do because it doesn't help either side.

G'nite.

jfern

(5,204 posts)
61. My point is that it's a lie that Bernie oopossed SSM in 2006
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 01:52 AM
Oct 2015

People wrongly concluded that when he said that SSM should be up to the states. This was when they were trying to pass a federal constitutional ban, and 4 years before the first victory for SSM in any federal court.

Agschmid

(28,749 posts)
63. It's not a lie.
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 01:55 AM
Oct 2015

He is a leader, if he supported it why didn't he say it, why didn't he lead?

Typically and especially in Senator Sanders case, he talks about what he supports. I'm not trying to paint him as a bigot, HE IS NOT, I am not trying to paint him as a homophobe, HE IS NOT... But when it comes to this issue he didn't say anything at that time.

It is what it is, all our candidates have some level of fault on this one issue.

beam me up scottie

(57,349 posts)
65. It is a lie. Where did he say he opposed it?:
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 01:56 AM
Oct 2015
I was a strong supporter of civil unions, I believe that. I voted against the DOMA bill, I believe that the federal government should not be involved in overturning Massachusetts or any other the state because I think the whole issue of marriage is a state issue.

Agschmid

(28,749 posts)
68. Look so if Sanders is such a strong leader why didn't he lead?
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 02:00 AM
Oct 2015

Why didn't he say he supported marriage equality? What was he waiting for?

And again because it's fair to say this, Hillary was worse in many ways. But to say he was for equality is odd, since there wasn't a whole lot of proof for a while.

jfern

(5,204 posts)
79. That's a different question, but he saying he opposed SSM in 2006 because of that debate is bogus
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 02:21 AM
Oct 2015

I don't think he ever said anything to oppose SSM even though we can find no statement clearly in favor of it until 2009.

Agschmid

(28,749 posts)
13. Yup.
Mon Oct 26, 2015, 12:39 PM
Oct 2015

I mean the sitting president didn't support marriage equality for a good portion of his term. I look ahead, it's not denial it's knowing that the world is changing and it's for the better.

Fred Sanders

(23,946 posts)
2. Know who else changed since the 90's? Elizabeth Warren. "Evolving" is not a bad word, if context
Mon Oct 26, 2015, 12:33 PM
Oct 2015

is valued at all.

 

MannyGoldstein

(34,589 posts)
5. But the Clintons fought marriage equality only in order to
Mon Oct 26, 2015, 12:34 PM
Oct 2015

advance marriage equality; isn't that today's HillMeme™?

You know, like when people we need to cut Social Security to make it better, we need to blow up Iraq to make it safer, etc.

Fearless

(18,421 posts)
10. I vehemently disagree with his "personal evolution" on LGBT rights. Yes. Emphatically.
Mon Oct 26, 2015, 12:37 PM
Oct 2015

I have mentioned this many times before.

firebrand80

(2,760 posts)
12. Grow up
Mon Oct 26, 2015, 12:39 PM
Oct 2015

Politicians sometimes take positions based on the prevailing winds.

Bernie doesn't?

If not, then it shows that he's not as good of a politician as HRC, which is why he's not going to win the nomination.

tblue

(16,350 posts)
30. "Politicians sometimes take positions based on the prevailing winds. "
Mon Oct 26, 2015, 01:01 PM
Oct 2015
That's not okay, for me. Yeah, I know, I need to grow up.

firebrand80

(2,760 posts)
31. Then you're likely to always be "holding your nose"
Mon Oct 26, 2015, 01:11 PM
Oct 2015

when you vote, especially for President. It's impossible to ascend that high without making compromises along the way.

I'm certain Obama didn't feel good about throwing Rev. Wright under the bus, but it had to be done.

 

NCTraveler

(30,481 posts)
17. One of Sanders greates legislative accomplishments was....
Mon Oct 26, 2015, 12:40 PM
Oct 2015

blocking a pathway to citizenship for over ten million people. He also voted yea on one of the largest deregulation bills since Regan was in office. You know, the "Enron Loophole Bill." I don't think he would do either again. Just as I think there has been a large societal evolution with respect to the issue you are talking about.

LettuceSea

(337 posts)
21. One thing that makes me happy is the LGBT vote is far from monolithic
Mon Oct 26, 2015, 12:43 PM
Oct 2015

Very independent minded in this primary season. I hope that continues!

angrychair

(8,684 posts)
24. Worthless revision of history on HRC's part
Mon Oct 26, 2015, 12:54 PM
Oct 2015

Supported DOMA and DADT to help LGBT people from something worse just like farm owners in the rural south used to kidnap people from African nations to keep them from being eaten by lions.
Just trying to help?
The pain, frustration and mental distress caused by DOMA and DADT ruined lives, ruined families and did more to create shame and distrust then anything else could have done. The LGBT community could have successfully campaigned against Constitutional admendments about gay marriage with the support of the WH but the WH choose a different path, one that didn't include the LGBT community as equals.

Arkansas Granny

(31,507 posts)
25. In the 1990's I didn't support marriage equality. I do now and
Mon Oct 26, 2015, 12:57 PM
Oct 2015

I think that's true of a lot of people. Does that mean that my support for marriage equality now is demeaned because I did not always feel this way?

Arkansas Granny

(31,507 posts)
32. And what Hillary believes now will have more impact on the nation
Mon Oct 26, 2015, 01:11 PM
Oct 2015

than what she believed 25 years ago. People grow and attitudes change.

Fearless

(18,421 posts)
33. You're missing the point of the OP.
Mon Oct 26, 2015, 01:13 PM
Oct 2015

The point calls into question her ability to govern.

Human rights is an easy topic to grasp.

You're either for them or against them.

She was against them and is now for them in terms of LGBT rights.

This is a question of extreme judgemental lapse.

She goes with the majority on everything.

She is wrong to do so.

Arkansas Granny

(31,507 posts)
36. The point of the OP, as I read it, is that 25 years ago
Mon Oct 26, 2015, 01:18 PM
Oct 2015

Hillary had an opinion that you didn't agree with and you won't accept that she had changed her position. Would you rather that she still opposed marriage equality?

treestar

(82,383 posts)
35. A position of power in this nation is attained by
Mon Oct 26, 2015, 01:15 PM
Oct 2015

getting votes. You can't separate us as a nation from our representatives.

Agschmid

(28,749 posts)
42. That was very dismissive.
Mon Oct 26, 2015, 02:08 PM
Oct 2015

I think we should appreciate when people are able to grow, and not just dismiss them.

Agschmid

(28,749 posts)
49. Just a reminder...
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 01:23 AM
Oct 2015

this "Neither Bill Nor Hillary Supported Marriage Equality in the 1990's." is the title of your OP. So yes it didn't really fit the conversation you wanted to have, but it was absolutely on topic.

Fearless

(18,421 posts)
51. If you bother to read the post, you'll see what the main idea is.
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 01:39 AM
Oct 2015

Keep your reminders to yourself.

justhanginon

(3,289 posts)
26. Neither did I. I am an old geezer and grew up in an age that was much different than todays's in
Mon Oct 26, 2015, 12:57 PM
Oct 2015

terms of what societies deemed proper. I did not support many things 20 years ago that I have since changed my mind or evolved on. LGBT rights is just one of them and I am now a strong supporter of those rights. As time goes by we increase our knowledge and perceptions through reading, conversing with others and most importantly listening. I must say this site has been an immeasurable help in that. Hopefully we will then have the ability to see things in different ways and how they affect others. If we are hidebound with our ideas, biases etc. then we are not growing in our personal development or as productive citizens of this country.

UglyGreed

(7,661 posts)
34. Puts finger out
Mon Oct 26, 2015, 01:13 PM
Oct 2015

tests which way the wind blows and then goes in that direction, Hillary's campaign strategy

Truprogressive85

(900 posts)
38. memory lane
Mon Oct 26, 2015, 01:33 PM
Oct 2015

lets imagine senator in the 60's saying that he wouldn't vote the VRA of 1965 because of the political climate ? yet the VRA still pass because it took guts and made a statement !
the senators wanted to keep disenfranchising black ppl were cowards and so were the house members /VRa passed because LBJ had the cojones to stand up against and do it.

If you are for something and truly believe in don't wait for it to become politically expedient to favor it.

Laughing Mirror

(4,185 posts)
40. Gay Activists Unhappy with Clinton remarks on DOMA
Mon Oct 26, 2015, 02:03 PM
Oct 2015

Lots of remarks to read that give a fair sampling of LGBT activist's opinion on this. A few blurbs:


A number of gay rights activists took to Twitter to say Clinton engaged in historic revisionism during her appearance Friday on “The Rachel Maddow Show” when she said DOMA was a means to stop the enactment of a U.S. constitutional amendment banning same-sex marriage entirely. Many of those activists also tempered their objections by saying Clinton is generally doing right on LGBT rights during her campaign.

...

David Mixner, a gay rights activist who once supported Bill Clinton before the two had a falling out over “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell,” urged LGBT people to reject the explanation of DOMA offered by the Democratic presidential candidate. "The LGBT community should NEVER allow any politican to revise our noble and courageous history for political purposes."

...

Michelangelo Signorile, a gay New York-based activist and author of “It’s Not Over,” said Clinton’s recollection of the events surrounding DOMA at the time is “simply untrue.” But Signorile, who had once been critical of Hillary Clinton for not talking enough about LGBT rights during her 2016 campaign, said Clinton is generally “fine” on the issues now despite this incident.

...

The notion DOMA was passed to stop passage of a Federal Marriage Amendment has been disputed by Hillary Clinton supporter and former Human Rights Campaign chief Elizabeth Birch, who wrote an op-ed saying “there was no real threat” of a constitutional measure in 1996. The Washington Blade has placed a call to the Clinton campaign to see if the candidate stands by the remarks and with the Human Rights Campaign to see whether the organization has any comment about them.


See more at: http://www.washingtonblade.com/2015/10/25/gay-activists-unhappy-with-clinton-remarks-on-doma/#sthash.mF0S3YpY.dpuf

BlueCheese

(2,522 posts)
80. I will say that I was disappointed in Clinton's description of what happened around the time of DOMA
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 03:35 AM
Oct 2015

I don't remember there being any push for a constitutional amendment at the time. In fairness there was a push later on, and lots of states put laws or amendments on their books, including liberal California as late as 2008. Still, DOMA was egregious and gratuitous, and I wish Bill Clinton would have stood stronger on that, and that Hillary Clinton would not make such rationalizations today.

However, Sanders has wavered himself over the years. In 2006, two years after same sex marriage was legal in Massachusetts, Sanders was quoted as saying that he opposed trying to do the same thing in Vermont. As was reported back then,

Sanders said he opposes the constitutional amendment (to ban same sex marriage). States for years have had authority over marriage laws and that's the way it should remain, he said, noting that Vermont had led the nation in creating the civil unions law granting most of the rights and benefits of marriage to gay and lesbian couples.

He noted that Vermont "led the way," but it was "a very divisive debate." Asked whether Vermont should legalize full marriage rights for same-sex couples, he said: "Not right now, not after what we went through."


Really, very few national Democrats covered themselves in glory on this issue.

http://www.timesargus.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=/20060607/NEWS/606070302/1003/NEWS02
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