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democrattotheend

(11,605 posts)
Wed Nov 28, 2012, 11:25 AM Nov 2012

Obama to have lunch with Romney at the White House tomorrow

http://www.politico.com/blogs/burns-haberman/2012/11/obama-and-romney-to-have-lunch-tomorrow-150497.html

A lot has happened since Obama made clear after his lopsided electoral win - and three-point popular vote win - that he would reach out to Romney in the hopes of working together going forward, such as the Republican candidate's call with donors detailing how the president won the race by promising "gifts" to consituencies like African-Americans, Hispanics, younger voters and women.

The Romneys, by all accounts, have had a hard time in the last few weeks with the fact of the loss, but the lunch may be a step toward moving past it - and toward the former candidate moving toward the next phase of his life.


I read on Twitter that apparently this is a tradition that goes back to 1960, when Kennedy had lunch with Nixon and they joked that they didn't know who really won. I know Obama met with McCain after the 2008 election, but I don't remember if Clinton or Bush did this.

Apparently the president also plans to meet with Ryan at some point in the near future.
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Obama to have lunch with Romney at the White House tomorrow (Original Post) democrattotheend Nov 2012 OP
Parting gift for Romney. nt geek tragedy Nov 2012 #1
A case of Rice-a-Roni? Freddie Nov 2012 #31
Will be a bitter sweet moment for Romney - seeing all the trappings of the WH. yellowcanine Nov 2012 #2
Yeah, but it does have surface to air missiles. onehandle Nov 2012 #7
'Now let me show you the oval office where you will never work out of' WI_DEM Nov 2012 #3
... and here is the chair you will never sit in. JoePhilly Nov 2012 #13
heh. Whisp Nov 2012 #19
Prez will meet with Ryan at a soup kitchen. Tutonic Nov 2012 #4
How many clean pots and kettles will he clean? LiberalFighter Nov 2012 #6
Serve him 47% of a shit sandwich. nt onehandle Nov 2012 #5
53% of a shit sandwich but only 47% of the dessert nt LiberalElite Nov 2012 #36
Oh to be a fly on the wall for that meeting Proud Liberal Dem Nov 2012 #8
That would definitely be interesting democrattotheend Nov 2012 #9
+1 nt ProudProgressiveNow Nov 2012 #10
You should just be a fly in general lol vilify Nov 2012 #25
It would get me into a lot of interesting places democrattotheend Nov 2012 #34
Plus I think the lifespan of a fly is less than a week. Jamaal510 Nov 2012 #35
Ann forgot to cancel the order for the drapes shawn703 Nov 2012 #11
Obama is a classy guy. Third Doctor Nov 2012 #12
Agree with that. President Obama is a first class kind of man and is honoring his Grammy23 Nov 2012 #15
Who's taking bets that Romney would have invited Obama for a chat, had Romney won? DFW Nov 2012 #14
Did you actually get to meet him? democrattotheend Nov 2012 #16
For about an hour. DFW Nov 2012 #18
Ok, now I am very jealous. democrattotheend Nov 2012 #20
But at least now you know why DFW Nov 2012 #21
So, the next day after "the lunch".. Will Willard Cha Nov 2012 #17
Your choice, Mitt. Eat crow, or eat shit. Nobody cares, but just eat something and go away. 11 Bravo Nov 2012 #22
I hope he doesn't expect Michelle to entertain Ann. mnhtnbb Nov 2012 #23
"Six Things Mitt Romney Should Avoid Saying at the White House Tomorrow" Cha Nov 2012 #24
Your sig line and that Romney photo go together perfectly ! agracie Nov 2012 #27
So it does! I Cha Nov 2012 #28
Food fight !!! n/t agracie Nov 2012 #26
More ann--- Nov 2012 #29
A lot of presidents have done this democrattotheend Nov 2012 #32
However, most are ann--- Nov 2012 #39
And we can see why... Cali_Democrat Nov 2012 #40
dont recall Bush ever doing this Kyad06 Nov 2012 #30
I think he met with Gore very briefly democrattotheend Nov 2012 #33
"Support my budget deal, and I'll let you sit in the chair for one minute" Coyotl Nov 2012 #37
I'm all for reaching across the aisle Jimbo S Nov 2012 #38

yellowcanine

(35,699 posts)
2. Will be a bitter sweet moment for Romney - seeing all the trappings of the WH.
Wed Nov 28, 2012, 11:29 AM
Nov 2012

OTOH the WH does not have a car elevator.

WI_DEM

(33,497 posts)
3. 'Now let me show you the oval office where you will never work out of'
Wed Nov 28, 2012, 11:30 AM
Nov 2012

Romney was so cock-sure he was going to win. I don't feel a bit sorry for him.

Proud Liberal Dem

(24,406 posts)
8. Oh to be a fly on the wall for that meeting
Wed Nov 28, 2012, 11:55 AM
Nov 2012

I wonder if the whole "free stuff" thing might come up in their conversation? Please proceed.............

democrattotheend

(11,605 posts)
9. That would definitely be interesting
Wed Nov 28, 2012, 12:16 PM
Nov 2012

I would love to be a fly on the wall at this one. And in 2016, if Christie runs, I would love to be a fly on the wall when Romney casts his vote.

I would have loved to be a fly in the voting booth when the Clintons voted in 2008 and when McCain voted in 2004.

democrattotheend

(11,605 posts)
34. It would get me into a lot of interesting places
Wed Nov 28, 2012, 09:22 PM
Nov 2012

And I would get to fly...I sometimes have dreams about being able to fly and it's pretty cool.

But I think I like talking too much.

shawn703

(2,702 posts)
11. Ann forgot to cancel the order for the drapes
Wed Nov 28, 2012, 01:29 PM
Nov 2012

Obama is just being a stand-up guy and letting Romney pick up the packages.

Grammy23

(5,810 posts)
15. Agree with that. President Obama is a first class kind of man and is honoring his
Wed Nov 28, 2012, 05:12 PM
Nov 2012

election night statement. I do think he wants to do the right thing and help the entire country (even those who voted for Romney) to move on and move forward. It's not just a saying for him. I do think he wants all of us to do better and to see a better day.....unlike Mr. Romney who only thought about the other half after he got caught making a very ugly statement that revealed his true feelings.

Part of me wanted him to just leave Romney dangling and never offer the invitation to the White House. After the nasty tone Romney took a few days after the election (when he gave a really decent concession speech), I was po'd and figured it would be a cold day in hell before he got invited for a meeting with President Obama. Lots of other politicians would have done that and never gotten an argument from anyone. But our guy is bigger than that. I am proud of him for doing what he said he would do.

I like the spine I am seeing from our President but being decent to a guy he just whooped so soundly is a first class thing to do! And shouldn't surprise any of us.

DFW

(54,349 posts)
14. Who's taking bets that Romney would have invited Obama for a chat, had Romney won?
Wed Nov 28, 2012, 05:07 PM
Nov 2012

Last edited Wed Nov 28, 2012, 05:40 PM - Edit history (1)

But Obama IS a classy guy. Hell, he even met with ME last July. Now, THAT'S a gesture, let me tell you!

democrattotheend

(11,605 posts)
16. Did you actually get to meet him?
Wed Nov 28, 2012, 05:15 PM
Nov 2012

If so, you are very lucky. I got to shake his hand four years ago but have never had the chance to talk to him, sadly. Maybe someday.

Cha

(297,154 posts)
17. So, the next day after "the lunch".. Will Willard
Wed Nov 28, 2012, 05:20 PM
Nov 2012

go out and brag how the President said he thought Romney would win except along came Sandy? What lie will he come up with to soothe his savage sociopathic soul?

If it's mitt he's lying. Everything in the campaign that he did to win ..Didn't work. And, we know he did anything to win..he just didn't have what it takes.

Cha

(297,154 posts)
24. "Six Things Mitt Romney Should Avoid Saying at the White House Tomorrow"
Wed Nov 28, 2012, 06:47 PM
Nov 2012
1. "My house is bigger anyway."

2. "Can I just have a hug, please?"

3. "I brought you a gift."

4. "Are these cookies store-bought?"

5. "Ah, screw it — I'll take a beer!"

6. "Is that waiter wearing a wire?"


http://nymag.com/daily/intel/2012/11/mitt-romney-lunch-with-obama-at-white-house.html

 

ann---

(1,933 posts)
29. More
Wed Nov 28, 2012, 07:45 PM
Nov 2012

butt-kissing by Obama. If he gives Rmoney any part in this administration, I will never, ever vote Dem again - ever.

You can't be nice to someone who has treated you so shabbily unless you have no self-respect. I hate to think that about Obama, but he would be no better than an abused wife going back for more bruises.

democrattotheend

(11,605 posts)
32. A lot of presidents have done this
Wed Nov 28, 2012, 09:04 PM
Nov 2012

It's a gracious thing to do.

I doubt he will offer Romney a role in the administration. He met with John McCain in 2008 and did not offer him a role.

Kyad06

(127 posts)
30. dont recall Bush ever doing this
Wed Nov 28, 2012, 08:15 PM
Nov 2012

Arrogant prick bragged about "political capital" he intended to spend instead.

democrattotheend

(11,605 posts)
33. I think he met with Gore very briefly
Wed Nov 28, 2012, 09:05 PM
Nov 2012

At Gore's VP residence. The media noted how brief the meeting was.

I don't recall him meeting with Kerry but that doesn't mean he didn't. I kind of tuned out for a little while after the 2004 election because I was depressed.

 

Coyotl

(15,262 posts)
37. "Support my budget deal, and I'll let you sit in the chair for one minute"
Thu Nov 29, 2012, 08:31 AM
Nov 2012

"Tell all those idiot Rs on the Hill to get their heads out of their asses, and you'll get a free lunch too"

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