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Sun Oct 18, 2020, 10:22 AM

I ended our relationship 4mo ago. He died Wednesday Oct 14

Last edited Sun Oct 18, 2020, 11:11 AM - Edit history (1)

Jim. My best friend for more than two years, my lover, my heart.

He was a tRumper. I forgive that.

He was 49 1-2 years old.
I am gutted!!! I turned 50 on Friday and it was the worst birthday of my life!


Thanks for reading. Just need a hug.


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Reply I ended our relationship 4mo ago. He died Wednesday Oct 14 (Original post)
Wawannabe Oct 18 OP
Newest Reality Oct 18 #1
Zoonart Oct 18 #2
SaveOurDemocracy Oct 18 #3
TexasTowelie Oct 18 #4
MLAA Oct 18 #5
Turbineguy Oct 18 #6
mercuryblues Oct 18 #7
IADEMO2004 Oct 18 #8
lostnfound Oct 18 #9
Wawannabe Oct 18 #28
AllaN01Bear Oct 18 #10
niyad Oct 18 #11
elleng Oct 18 #12
sinkingfeeling Oct 18 #13
cate94 Oct 18 #14
grantcart Oct 18 #15
tavernier Oct 18 #16
Fla Dem Oct 18 #17
Sherman A1 Oct 18 #18
bronxiteforever Oct 18 #19
chowder66 Oct 18 #20
irisblue Oct 18 #21
PatSeg Oct 18 #22
KY_EnviroGuy Oct 18 #23
Wawannabe Oct 18 #29
flamin lib Oct 18 #24
Hip2bSquare Oct 18 #25
Wawannabe Oct 18 #30
StarryNite Oct 18 #26
paleotn Oct 18 #27

Response to Wawannabe (Original post)

Sun Oct 18, 2020, 10:23 AM

1. Hug!

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Response to Wawannabe (Original post)

Sun Oct 18, 2020, 10:23 AM

2. So sorry for your pain and loss.

(((((((((((((((((((((((((( )))))))))))))))))))))))))

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Response to Wawannabe (Original post)

Sun Oct 18, 2020, 10:26 AM

3. {((((((((((((( Wawannabe ))))))))))))))) So many people in so much pain. Love and peace to you.

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Response to Wawannabe (Original post)

Sun Oct 18, 2020, 10:33 AM

4. I'm sorry for your loss.

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Response to Wawannabe (Original post)

Sun Oct 18, 2020, 10:35 AM

5. 💕💕💖💖💕

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Response to Wawannabe (Original post)

Sun Oct 18, 2020, 10:36 AM

6. ( )

A Hug and a Kind Word

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Response to Wawannabe (Original post)

Sun Oct 18, 2020, 10:51 AM

7. Hugs to you

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Response to Wawannabe (Original post)

Sun Oct 18, 2020, 10:53 AM

8. Hug for your sadness Hug for your loss Hug for your 2020

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Response to Wawannabe (Original post)

Sun Oct 18, 2020, 11:18 AM

9. So sorry.

Tell us, if you like: What was best about him?

Hugs and hopes for healing.

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Response to lostnfound (Reply #9)

Sun Oct 18, 2020, 06:57 PM

28. Our love of music!!!!

He was a punk! Bass player.
I also love music.

We were gutted when John Prine lost battle to Covid. This was our song.


https://m.

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Response to Wawannabe (Original post)

Sun Oct 18, 2020, 12:30 PM

10. du hug

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Response to Wawannabe (Original post)

Sun Oct 18, 2020, 12:31 PM

11. Sending virtual hugs, and vibes for comfort and healing. Your DU family is here for you.

So very sorry for your loss.

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Response to Wawannabe (Original post)

Sun Oct 18, 2020, 12:36 PM

12. :hug:

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Response to Wawannabe (Original post)

Sun Oct 18, 2020, 12:37 PM

13. Hugs.

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Response to Wawannabe (Original post)

Sun Oct 18, 2020, 12:38 PM

14. I'm so sorry

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Response to Wawannabe (Original post)

Sun Oct 18, 2020, 12:43 PM

15. There is no way to quantify the damage Trump has inflicted


Sorry you had to be a casualty.

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Response to Wawannabe (Original post)

Sun Oct 18, 2020, 12:47 PM

16. You did not have the gift to see the future...

I hope you’re not beating yourself up for the breakup. You could not have known. Celebrate his life and your past together with love and fondness. Let other emotions go.

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Response to Wawannabe (Original post)

Sun Oct 18, 2020, 12:48 PM

17. OMG, so sorry. Although you were no longer a couple, a real stab in the heart.

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Response to Wawannabe (Original post)

Sun Oct 18, 2020, 12:48 PM

18. My Condolences

on your loss.

May he rest in peace.

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Response to Wawannabe (Original post)

Sun Oct 18, 2020, 12:48 PM

19. I am so sorry.

💔

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Response to Wawannabe (Original post)

Sun Oct 18, 2020, 12:50 PM

20. I'm so sorry.

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Response to Wawannabe (Original post)

Sun Oct 18, 2020, 12:52 PM

21. I am very sorry for your loss

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Response to Wawannabe (Original post)

Sun Oct 18, 2020, 12:53 PM

22. I am so sorry

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Response to Wawannabe (Original post)

Sun Oct 18, 2020, 12:58 PM

23. Thanks for sharing, Wawannabe. Big Sunday DU hugs out to you.

Many of us here also have lost loved ones during or just prior to the pandemic and it's a struggle. I lost three very big ones in my life just in the past year or so, and now suffering again through their birthdays and anniversaries of their deaths. Thank goodness for my two adult kids, my bird feeders, music, stuff to fix around the house, meditation and for DU.

I hope you find a path to peace and closure, perhaps through meditation or Mother Nature, or through other friends.

KY...... ...... .......

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Response to KY_EnviroGuy (Reply #23)

Sun Oct 18, 2020, 06:58 PM

29. Yes!! Thank goodness for DU!

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Response to Wawannabe (Original post)

Sun Oct 18, 2020, 01:02 PM

24. There aren't really any words anyone can say right now to

mend your heart.

But someday it will heal.

Meanwhile we are all here for you. It helps to share your grief.

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Response to Wawannabe (Original post)

Sun Oct 18, 2020, 01:05 PM

25. I told a co-worker who recently lost her sister...

A new co-worker started with us right before the shelter in place when Covid hit. During that time her sister was having headaches and found out she had a tumor. Unfortunately, her sister lost her fight.

I told my co-worker, you'd think God would give us a break from any addtional heartbreak during this horrible time, but it just doesn't happen.

I'm very sorry for the loss. I turned 50 just a few weeks ago also, certainly not how I imagined my 50th year on earth would be.

Sheesh this year hurts...don't give up. Hopefully the clouds will clear soon.



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Response to Hip2bSquare (Reply #25)

Sun Oct 18, 2020, 07:00 PM

30. Happy 50th!

1970 ROCKED!

And thanks for the kind words.

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Response to Wawannabe (Original post)

Sun Oct 18, 2020, 01:06 PM

26. I'm so very sorry.

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Response to Wawannabe (Original post)

Sun Oct 18, 2020, 01:19 PM

27. You got it.

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